This is true for many, not all, of my masturbatory fantasies as well. Being a girl can be sexy, just as being a guy can be. I like the pendulum-like swinging of my gender identity a lot. It turns me on to be masculine, feminine, and androgynous—so why should any of those things be wrong?

He likes soft things and wants to be pretty too. I don’t think it has anything to do with wanting to be humiliated, which I agree is a gross misogynistic kind of thing (while also not wanting to judge people based on their kinks).

Sometimes when he is feeling submissive he can look up at me girlishly and it’s the most delicious thing.

Oh, now I do! (You’ll probably really like my next post, which has been batting around in my head for quite a while.) Of course, I didn’t really get it then, but that lack of understanding was also fighting for space in my head along with the parts of me that truly are feminine. There is a big difference between being feminine because you feel it is an expression of who you are and being feminine because you want to be humiliated. That’s the distinction I was trying to portray in this post. Naturally, things are a lot different now than they used to be.

This just breaks my heart. I hope you understand now that, of course, you can be both of these things and be a man.

And I am more than happy to fulfill your desire to be lusted over any time you want!

I’m typically hesitant about cross posting only because I’m not always sure if it’s acceptable. But with this invitation, I will certainly cross post this entry to the Fetish Lore forums.

Thanks again!