Comments on: Thoughts on extended scenes and play headspaces

By: A Little Bit of Kink « Past the Hurt

A Little Bit of Kink « Past the Hurt — Thu, 10 Jun 2010 06:34:57 +0000

[...] off, Gender fluidity, Jewelry, Owning someone, Piercing, Playing I read about a necklace that never comes off. This is also one of those things that doesn’t fit in my supposed sexual perversion as a [...]

By: maymay

maymay — Mon, 04 Jun 2007 21:27:00 +0000

I'm finding that I'm less and less concerned with labeling such activities, and trying to be more concerned with just enjoying things when they happen.

Exactly, Tom. That's the most important point I've been taking away from this sort of experience, too.

By: Tom Allen

Tom Allen — Thu, 31 May 2007 16:30:00 +0000

So, when Mrs. Edge asks me to wear my CB3000 for a few weeks, are we playing 24/7? I go to the grocery store, she does the laundry, I cook dinner, she weeds the sidewalk, and we might go for several days before we actually have any time to acknowledge it. Play? I'm not sure.

We just did 2 weeks of orgasm denial, but I was not wearing the CB. Was that play? It seemed like it most of the time, but not all of it.

It's so difficult to determine what is "play" and what is normal. I often refill her drinks at parties, but it's more from a sense of politeness or good manners or consideration. She often does the same for me.

I'm finding that I'm less and less concerned with labeling such activities, and trying to be more concerned with just enjoying things when they happen.

By: Eileen

Eileen — Sun, 27 May 2007 19:31:00 +0000

Possibly I will comment in more detail later on, but for the moment I’ll simply point out that if you were to act in the way that many people think of “traditional 24/7 slaves” acting, I would be frustrated, and constantly want to shake you to make you snap out of it.