Comments on: Don’t be nice

By: “Good boy,” and other kinds of complicated sex « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed

Thu, 31 Mar 2011 19:54:31 +0000

[...] humiliating. And that just adds an extra frission of erotic stimulation and emotional intensity. As maymay said once, ”I don’t want to be tortured, but I want it.” Obviously, being called a “good girl” is [...]

By: Good Girl « Feminist Sub

Good Girl « Feminist Sub — Wed, 30 Mar 2011 22:30:45 +0000

By: It might be just this « Pandora's Kinky box

It might be just this « Pandora's Kinky box — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 23:52:03 +0000

[...] the main reason for this is quite simple, the whole thing is based on a very strong oxymoron, as mm beautifully and simply said: you want it but you don’t want it, you like it but you don’t like it. There is no [...]

By: Push me, please « Denying Thumper

Push me, please « Denying Thumper — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 20:50:13 +0000

[...] beyond my comfort zone if for no other reason that she’s asked me to do so. I pointed her to Maymay’s post related to this (is there anything he’s not written about?) and also sent her a couple of [...]

By: Allie

Allie — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 23:12:38 +0000

I keep rereading this post.
I always return to it, and it fascinates me. This insight into how you think.
I believe I have to show my boy this post, and ask his opinion. Whether or not he can relate in any way.

By: maymay

maymay — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 00:23:37 +0000

@Ranat: Do try not to hurt yourself but, for what it’s worth, soreness from rubbing one’s skin always heals quickly…. Cheers. :)

By: Carol Berg and How She Unknowingly Writes My Porn « beyond the hills

Carol Berg and How She Unknowingly Writes My Porn « beyond the hills — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 19:06:33 +0000

[...] there was this, which I don’t think was meant to be pornographic at all, but did make me choke on my own [...]

By: Ranat

Ranat — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 19:05:02 +0000

I’m just going to go ahead and choke and try not to hurt myself after reading this.

*Gulp*

By: maymay

maymay — Wed, 18 Jul 2007 04:49:00 +0000

Richard, your comments are always inetlligent because you always say so much with so few words. ;)

Bitchy, I never really thought of myself as a service sub (and still don’t), but there is a lot about that form of activity that is very hot—and not just because it’s not really my thing. However, sicne it’s not my thing, being forced into it really does stoke my fire. Especially when it’s physically demanding, such as the pain.

By: Bitchy Jones

Bitchy Jones — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 20:39:00 +0000

This guy I know has that whole thing of not liking pain, but taking pain for me as a service.

He takes pain in exactly the same way that he would give a foot bath or make a cup of tea.

He’s really into the whole service thing – which isn’t really my thing – but that pain-service is just the hottest fucking thing.