Comments on: Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)

By: Sai

Sai — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 03:41:42 +0000

one of the reasons why I am a little hard-up for male-male action is because I absolutely love receiving anal sex.

… so? I don’t see why this would make it harder for you to get fucked by a guy. Bottom/top differences are pretty standard fare among MSMs.

Also FWIW: I’m bi, and not particularly into BDSM or activism. Though I’ve been poly at times, that’s not really an identity or a crusade type thing either.

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By: Daremo

Daremo — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 20:05:38 +0000

I love your blog so much & I sympathize completely. My husband & I are both bi, well I guess omnisexual is a better word. He’s had a much more difficult time then I have. When I say I’m bi men are like “yeah hot girl on girl action” but they think I’m sick if I say I like to watch hot guy on guy action. Seeing two men together is incredibly hot. It’s even better when they want me too.
It took so long to find acceptance within myself & even longer to find a partner to undestand, and even welcome my desires.
Anyway I think you’re awesome.

By: Me

Me — Tue, 28 Aug 2007 20:51:00 +0000

I love ready your post. I am another man with a very sensible prostate !

By: M.T.

M.T. — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 16:51:00 +0000

“The net result is that I get more horny, but can’t relieve my arousal. That, of course, is the point.”

God that is hot.

By: maymay

maymay — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 17:54:00 +0000

there are far more women who claim bisexuality for the purpose of getting men than the reverse

Agreed, agreed.

the whole "lying isn't cool" thing

See above. :)

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 17:20:00 +0000

My impression has been that there are far more women who claim bisexuality for the purpose of getting men than the reverse, if for no other reason than there is a stronger ingrained societal response against male homosexuality than female. But it pisses me off from either gender, since it makes it much harder for those of us who are actually bisexual to date people who have been burned by pseudobisexuals in the past. Plus, of course, the whole “lying isn’t cool” thing ;)

By: maymay

maymay — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 03:17:00 +0000

Oh, that's another thing that pisses me off. Guys who say they're bisexual for the sole purpose of getting women. That is just fucking obscene in the not-fun way.

Not that your exes were those men, just that I thoguht of that when you mentioned those memories.

And also, an MMF threesome is one of my biggest have-yet-to-experience fantasies. It was also one of the first configurations of pornography I sought out when I was a but a young(er) lad. :)

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 02:51:00 +0000

I also found your comment about the marginalization of male bisexuality interesting. Although I completely agree with it, I had to have a happy sigh that both of my male exes were bisexual… followed up by a sad sigh that while I’m pretty sure that they’ve gone to bed together, I didn’t get to witness it. Alas. You can never have too much hot man on man action, in my book :). One day. One day there will be an mmf threesome in my life, until then I will live on the happy memories of two gorgeous long haired boys fucking on the floor with 8 bisexual women (all of whom were dating or had dated one of the men in question) sitting on the bed narrating the action. That was a good night.

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 02:46:00 +0000

My double take was entirely due to your stating your gender. And then I had to go back and reread. :)