“Are all guys capable of experiencing prostate pleasure? I don’t want to drop the money (I’m a college student) and find out that this doesn’t work for me.“

The short answer is that all guys are capable of experiencing prostate pleasure but that this sensation doesn’t feel the same for all guys. Some guys like myself are incredibly responsive to it, and yet others are not. There’s no real way to know how your body will react before you try it unfortunately, so you’ll just have to give it a go.

However, instead of starting out spending money on a toy you’re not sure you’ll use, try using your own fingers first. My first experience masturbating with prostate stimulation was when I was a young teen and I discovered that I could finger myself anally while laying on my back in the bathtub. If this feels really good when you do it, ask your girlfriend to try it on you and then when you’re ready spend the money on a toy.

If this doesn’t do much for you, then, meh, don’t spend the cash. :)

“Secondly, I’ve heard that men have some kind of prostate fluid buildup, and that may be discharged with prostate stimulation. What kind of precautions should I take to minimize any mess?“

All men have prostate fluid buildup—it’s a normal and healthy part of our sex organs. Regular ejaculations often release this buildup to a large extend. What you’re reading about regarding possibly discharges are basically “non-orgasmic ejaculations.” That is, the discharge is very similar to regular ejaculatory semen but it has been discharged from the body without the powerful propelling thrusts of an ordinary ejaculation.

This is important because there’s no reason why you should try to minimize mess. If you happen to discharge semen via prostate stimulation, then that’s a lovely thing and a wonderful experience and part of the point. Instead of minimizing mess, just make sure you have paper towels or your favorite (safe) cleaning supplies at hand.

“Finally, how much time should I set aside to fully enjoy this thing? I can sit down with my Fleshlight and get off really quick if I need to (15 minutes roundtrip when I hurry), is the Aneros something that requires 45 minutes of free time at least?“

This is also kind of up to you; I found it immediately effective when I first started playing with it, but this may also have been because I’m simply very responsive to prostate stimulation to begin with. The manufacturer suggests that learning how to focus your attention on the parts of your body involved with the toy, the anus and the prostate and so on, will yield more pleasureable results, and so that’s why they say you should set aside a good deal of time for it.

In reality, you can spend as much or as little time as you want. Keep in mind that this isn’t like regular masturbatory sessions where you may be able to start pumping your penis with a lubed hand and then come in a minute or two. Prostate stimulation just doesn’t work that way for most people. However, if you want to couple a masturbatory session like that with prostate stimulation, there’s no reason why it doesn’t have to last a total of two minutes. :)

Have fun.

I’m a straight guy with an AMAZING girlfriend. She was the one who got me into anal play initially, in the form of giving her analingus, which I enjoyed giving very much. That was about a year ago. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago, when I have this really hot dream of me receiving analingus from her, and it was fantastic. I haven’t broached that subject just yet, as I don’t know how comfortable she’d be doing that. However now I’m really curious about anal play. I’ve had a Fleshlight for a while, and saw this product on their website. Have read some reviews, and they’ve all been glowing. So I’m thinking I’d like to give this a try. Before I make the plunge (pardon the pun hahah) I just want to know:

Are all guys capable of experiencing prostate pleasure? I don’t want to drop the money (I’m a college student) and find out that this doesn’t work for me.

Secondly, I’ve heard that men have some kind of prostate fluid buildup, and that may be discharged with prostate stimulation. What kind of precautions should I take to minimize any mess?

Finally, how much time should I set aside to fully enjoy this thing? I can sit down with my Fleshlight and get off really quick if I need to (15 minutes roundtrip when I hurry), is the Aneros something that requires 45 minutes of free time at least?

Thanks and sorry for the long post!

Thanks, Mistress 160! Any advice for a newbie like me? Your descriptions of playtime with Sol are so lovely.

but no pix lol?!

Well, it’s kind of a difficult sort of thing to shoot photos of, really. But I’ll ask Eileen to take a few choice photos for you if you’d like. ;)

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Thanks for the compliment.

I bought an Aneros (though I can’t remember which one, it was the only one available at the time) a while ago, and it was a *big* hit with a partner who otherwise eschews anal play.

Nice review, btw.