http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/ Because 'kinky' is an adjective, not an activity Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:25:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-255764 On Being Bondage Furniture « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Mon, 05 Dec 2011 00:10:18 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-255764 [...] hate became righteous anger. A few days later, I wrote this: A lot of things are wrong and were never right; these things have hurt me from the first moment I [...] [...] hate became righteous anger. A few days later, I wrote this: A lot of things are wrong and were never right; these things have hurt me from the first moment I [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-221923 Blog Wed, 05 Oct 2011 13:32:47 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-221923 [...] submission are often disappeared, much to the justified frustration of actual female dominants and male submissives. When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail -- sometimes including our own psyches [...] [...] submission are often disappeared, much to the justified frustration of actual female dominants and male submissives. When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail — sometimes including our own psyches [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-206778 Raging Chrysalis: The End of the Mute Submissive Masculine « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Sat, 03 Sep 2011 02:31:50 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-206778 [...] is an aspect that deserves more words. For now, Galiana offers some that I have angrily (and, to some, offensively) stated years earlier: I’m starting to understand my potential value in this conversation: to answer the question of [...] [...] is an aspect that deserves more words. For now, Galiana offers some that I have angrily (and, to some, offensively) stated years earlier: I’m starting to understand my potential value in this conversation: to answer the question of [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-161004 Signal boost: “The Devaluation of Male Submission” « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Fri, 03 Jun 2011 03:04:38 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-161004 [...] academically) that it almost doesn’t matter how long I, maymay, a submissive man have been saying this—and publicly—for almost half a decade now. People just won’t listen or will derail me (sometimes with their own de-contextualized [...] [...] academically) that it almost doesn’t matter how long I, maymay, a submissive man have been saying this—and publicly—for almost half a decade now. People just won’t listen or will derail me (sometimes with their own de-contextualized [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-126721 FetLife Considered Harmful: The Risks of Sex Ghettoization – KinkForAll Providence 2 « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Sun, 20 Mar 2011 22:40:48 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-126721 [...] spin doctoring. However, rather than discuss any pain this “community” inflicts from a personal perspective, since this talk was ultimately directed at wide swaths of the community itself, I approach the [...] [...] spin doctoring. However, rather than discuss any pain this “community” inflicts from a personal perspective, since this talk was ultimately directed at wide swaths of the community itself, I approach the [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-122773 It’s foggy today: how BDSM and sex can be emotional self-medication in a cruel world « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Fri, 11 Mar 2011 04:04:20 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-122773 [...] upon thousands of others. So stop saying you are. Stop it. Please stop, because you’re hurting me, and I didn’t consent to this. ← Why self-harm has nothing to do with [...] [...] upon thousands of others. So stop saying you are. Stop it. Please stop, because you’re hurting me, and I didn’t consent to this. ← Why self-harm has nothing to do with [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-80454 Community? Fuck the community. This isn’t for them, anyway. « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Sat, 27 Nov 2010 15:34:18 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-80454 [...] was not in fact interested in helping guide us—Cookie and I—through the subculture but rather merely interested in scoring playtime with her. Over the years, I heard him give the same exact speech, complete with “wolves” [...] [...] was not in fact interested in helping guide us—Cookie and I—through the subculture but rather merely interested in scoring playtime with her. Over the years, I heard him give the same exact speech, complete with “wolves” [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-47990 Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › Open Thread: When Educators Are Censors Thu, 17 Jun 2010 17:46:23 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-47990 [...] no surprise, really. I’ve gone through an incredible transformation from a disgruntled youth to what I believe I can safely describe as a sexual freedom community organizer this year. Merging [...] [...] no surprise, really. I’ve gone through an incredible transformation from a disgruntled youth to what I believe I can safely describe as a sexual freedom community organizer this year. Merging [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-31445 Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › Orgasm Denial Does Not Submissive Men Make Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:05:54 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-31445 [...] found myself. Yet, despite my incredible access to such resources, it was indescribably difficult (not to mention painful) for me to get to a point where I felt like I can enjoy my sexual submission as a valid part of my [...] [...] found myself. Yet, despite my incredible access to such resources, it was indescribably difficult (not to mention painful) for me to get to a point where I felt like I can enjoy my sexual submission as a valid part of my [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-30606 westfal Thu, 25 Feb 2010 03:48:28 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/04/what-sexuality-might-taste-like-if-you-were-a-submissive-man-in-2007/#comment-30606 ....as another sub guy unfort these perspectives ring both personal and true........my good luck has been to meet some women who i was lucky to catch as their latent Domme-ness first began bubbling ........i also had similar feelings during my NYC days re TES and was heartened to hear that you'ze also had them more recently....my eternal quandry in the life seems to have been that just about all the women i would give my life (almost) to sub to have almost universally craved and begged me to Dom them!!??...oh well....does explain what a Domme remarked on me a while ago= ' boy for a sub you have great sadie topping skills!...fwiw anyways.......like the theme that male subbiness= my identity components though such a god awful burining hot one sometimes. ….as another sub guy unfort these perspectives ring both personal and true……..my good luck has been to meet some women who i was lucky to catch as their latent Domme-ness first began bubbling ……..i also had similar feelings during my NYC days re TES and was heartened to hear that you’ze also had them more recently….my eternal quandry in the life seems to have been that just about all the women i would give my life (almost) to sub to have almost universally craved and begged me to Dom them!!??…oh well….does explain what a Domme remarked on me a while ago= ‘ boy for a sub you have great sadie topping skills!…fwiw anyways…….like the theme that male subbiness= my identity components though such a god awful burining hot one sometimes.

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