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	<title>Comments on: Kink on Tap 6: Sexual Teasing and Denial</title>
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	<description>Because &#039;kinky&#039; is an adjective, not an activity</description>
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		<title>By: Playing hard, and hard to get &#171; Kink in exile</title>
		<link>http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/22/kink-on-tap-6-sexual-teasing-and-denial/#comment-330216</link>
		<dc:creator>Playing hard, and hard to get &#171; Kink in exile</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 07:38:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to the transman who told Eileen and I that we had finally articulated his primary kink in our Sexual Teasing and Denial presentation. Thanks to the young woman who taught me the word cyberbalkanization in my Sex and Technology [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] to the transman who told Eileen and I that we had finally articulated his primary kink in our Sexual Teasing and Denial presentation. Thanks to the young woman who taught me the word cyberbalkanization in my Sex and Technology [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Kink On Tap &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Kink On Tap 7: Tom Allen</title>
		<link>http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/22/kink-on-tap-6-sexual-teasing-and-denial/#comment-20909</link>
		<dc:creator>Kink On Tap &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Kink On Tap 7: Tom Allen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 20:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] page for episode 7. This Kink on Tap is kind of an extended addendum to our previous episode where we talk about and introduce the topic of sexual teasing and denial and chastity play. If you [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] page for episode 7. This Kink on Tap is kind of an extended addendum to our previous episode where we talk about and introduce the topic of sexual teasing and denial and chastity play. If you [...]</p>
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		<title>By: james</title>
		<link>http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/22/kink-on-tap-6-sexual-teasing-and-denial/#comment-12204</link>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 04:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that is a great list. thank you for putting it together and sharing it with us. checking out lady-jester right now. you find the best!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that is a great list. thank you for putting it together and sharing it with us. checking out lady-jester right now. you find the best!</p>
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		<title>By: Blogroll, please &#171; Denying Thumper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blogroll, please &#171; Denying Thumper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 06:28:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] philosophy there, too. Maymay also produces (produced?) a podcast called Kink on Tap. His sixth episode on Teasing and Denial was [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] philosophy there, too. Maymay also produces (produced?) a podcast called Kink on Tap. His sixth episode on Teasing and Denial was [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Second Owner Friday &#124; Kink Unleashed</title>
		<link>http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/22/kink-on-tap-6-sexual-teasing-and-denial/#comment-5171</link>
		<dc:creator>Second Owner Friday &#124; Kink Unleashed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 03:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] On another note, there really is a big difference in Boy Toy when I control his orgasms, and when I don&#8217;t. I think I like it better when I do. Still, I want to leave him a bit of a break. But I&#8217;m thinking more and more that I&#8217;ll definitely go back to the denial/control. In the meantime, I have lots of reading and listening to do, thanks to maymay! [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] On another note, there really is a big difference in Boy Toy when I control his orgasms, and when I don&#8217;t. I think I like it better when I do. Still, I want to leave him a bit of a break. But I&#8217;m thinking more and more that I&#8217;ll definitely go back to the denial/control. In the meantime, I have lots of reading and listening to do, thanks to maymay! [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed &#8250; How to present an educational BDSM topic and not make it boring</title>
		<link>http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/22/kink-on-tap-6-sexual-teasing-and-denial/#comment-2848</link>
		<dc:creator>Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed &#8250; How to present an educational BDSM topic and not make it boring</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 07:35:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the generous (and fabulous) Mistress Dee at her über dungeon and BDSM playspace. Eileen and I have done this presentation quite a few times before, once at TES-TNG, once at Conversio Virium, and once at the first-ever Floating World. I&#8217;m [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] the generous (and fabulous) Mistress Dee at her über dungeon and BDSM playspace. Eileen and I have done this presentation quite a few times before, once at TES-TNG, once at Conversio Virium, and once at the first-ever Floating World. I&#8217;m [...]</p>
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		<title>By: A Place To Draw Blood Laughing &#8250; Two And A Half</title>
		<link>http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/22/kink-on-tap-6-sexual-teasing-and-denial/#comment-512</link>
		<dc:creator>A Place To Draw Blood Laughing &#8250; Two And A Half</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 20:19:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] evening May and I presented our sexual teasing and denial class for Conversio Virium. In doing this we have come remarkably full circle, as prettily as though Fate [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] evening May and I presented our sexual teasing and denial class for Conversio Virium. In doing this we have come remarkably full circle, as prettily as though Fate [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Bitchy Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bitchy Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 09:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&#039;ve never done orgasm denial for more than about five days - but I&#039;ve always had an interest in longer term things...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never done orgasm denial for more than about five days &#8211; but I&#8217;ve always had an interest in longer term things&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: maymay</title>
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		<dc:creator>maymay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 04:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;&lt;em&gt;Actually, I have a question: Wet dreams?&lt;/em&gt;&quot;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Good question! So, the short of it is that I&#039;ve never, in my entire life, had a wet dream. Not even during the time I spent masturbating for a good half hour nightly for 27 days while being denied an orgasm. It just didn&#039;t happen. A lot of things I&#039;ve read about it does seem to indicate that a wet dream is largely a part of one&#039;s own biology but doesn&#039;t typically happen for at least an extended period of time. But again, &quot;extended&quot; is indivdual. I&#039;ve read some postings from men who say they can go months with no such experience, and others who say a wet dream occurs maybe at the month mark.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The bottom line is that a wet dream is the body&#039;s own &quot;milking&quot; method. I think wet dreams shouldn&#039;t necessarily be discouraged, but if in your play you want to avoid them, you can find out at about what points they occur and schedule prostatic milking sessions slightly before those points. A man who has a wet dream about once a month should maybe have three weeks go by between milkings, for instance.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;But this is hardly medical advice and is certainly only even appropriate after learning one&#039;s own anatomy very well. Again, I&#039;ve never even had a wet dream, so I&#039;m not very able to speak of them from personal experience. As always, Wikipedia does seem to have &lt;a HREF=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emission&quot; REL=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;reliably accurate information&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It has been suggested by some that it is possible to simply deny orgasm until a wet dream occurs, but like most things, I take that advice with a grain of salt. For, um, more reasons than one, you understand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;<em>Actually, I have a question: Wet dreams?</em>&#8220;</p>
<p>Good question! So, the short of it is that I&#8217;ve never, in my entire life, had a wet dream. Not even during the time I spent masturbating for a good half hour nightly for 27 days while being denied an orgasm. It just didn&#8217;t happen. A lot of things I&#8217;ve read about it does seem to indicate that a wet dream is largely a part of one&#8217;s own biology but doesn&#8217;t typically happen for at least an extended period of time. But again, &#8220;extended&#8221; is indivdual. I&#8217;ve read some postings from men who say they can go months with no such experience, and others who say a wet dream occurs maybe at the month mark.</p>
<p>The bottom line is that a wet dream is the body&#8217;s own &#8220;milking&#8221; method. I think wet dreams shouldn&#8217;t necessarily be discouraged, but if in your play you want to avoid them, you can find out at about what points they occur and schedule prostatic milking sessions slightly before those points. A man who has a wet dream about once a month should maybe have three weeks go by between milkings, for instance.</p>
<p>But this is hardly medical advice and is certainly only even appropriate after learning one&#8217;s own anatomy very well. Again, I&#8217;ve never even had a wet dream, so I&#8217;m not very able to speak of them from personal experience. As always, Wikipedia does seem to have <a HREF="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emission" REL="nofollow">reliably accurate information</a>.</p>
<p>It has been suggested by some that it is possible to simply deny orgasm until a wet dream occurs, but like most things, I take that advice with a grain of salt. For, um, more reasons than one, you understand.</p>
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		<title>By: Bitchy Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bitchy Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2007 22:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, I have a question:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Wet dreams?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, I have a question:</p>
<p>Wet dreams?</p>
<p>Thank you</p>
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