Comments on: Flying, the kinky sex orgasm, and the lack thereof http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/ Maymay's pursuit of life, liberty, and sexual freedom. Sun, 21 Mar 2010 17:30:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: blasting forth with three-part harmony « squeals of delight http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-730 blasting forth with three-part harmony « squeals of delight Fri, 23 Nov 2007 18:57:22 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-730 [...] night I played decoy to the amazing Maymay takedown that will surely be sung about in all the neighboring villages for years to come. My ploy, [...] [...] night I played decoy to the amazing Maymay takedown that will surely be sung about in all the neighboring villages for years to come. My ploy, [...]

]]> By: Maja http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-728 Maja Fri, 23 Nov 2007 18:02:25 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-728 I just re-read this post, and am all a-gibber. I love having things in common with you; it makes me feel like i'm doing something right. I just re-read this post, and am all a-gibber. I love having things in common with you; it makes me feel like i’m doing something right.

]]> By: EthylBenzene http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-461 EthylBenzene Sat, 08 Sep 2007 14:46:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-461 Hi folks, I found this article by a blogger I like and admire a great deal and it seemed pertinent:<br/><br/>http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/pain-connection-and-being-here-now/378<br/><br/>Enjoy! Hi folks, I found this article by a blogger I like and admire a great deal and it seemed pertinent:

http://blog.blowfish.com/culture/pain-connection-and-being-here-now/378

Enjoy!

]]> By: maymay http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-459 maymay Wed, 05 Sep 2007 17:58:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-459 Petboy,<br/><br/>"<em>i certainly don't experience the "flying" sensation... i am hoping to learn Tantra and how to experience some of these sensations while at Dark Odyssey.</em>"<br/><br/>I'm not sure the "flying" sensation and trantric experiences have very much to do with one another, but then again I've never experienced much of either so what would I know?<br/><br/>Enjoy <a HREF="http://darkodyssey.com/" REL="nofollow">Dark Odyssey</a> when you go! I'm envious that I can't be there. Petboy,

“i certainly don’t experience the “flying” sensation… i am hoping to learn Tantra and how to experience some of these sensations while at Dark Odyssey.“

I’m not sure the “flying” sensation and trantric experiences have very much to do with one another, but then again I’ve never experienced much of either so what would I know?

Enjoy Dark Odyssey when you go! I’m envious that I can’t be there.

]]> By: EthylBenzene http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-456 EthylBenzene Tue, 04 Sep 2007 21:52:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-456 High five to Juliet!<br/><br/>"I have also, on a side-note, noticed a significant crossover between cyclists & perverts - masochists, the lot of us ;) "<br/><br/>Hahaha... I'll have to check that out! High five to Juliet!

“I have also, on a side-note, noticed a significant crossover between cyclists & perverts – masochists, the lot of us ;) “

Hahaha… I’ll have to check that out!

]]> By: petboy http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-453 petboy Tue, 04 Sep 2007 18:50:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-453 Maymay... i'm like you on the pain is not sexy thing!<br/><br/>i have found that when Princess spanks me that i now get aroused... But that's a relatively new phenomenom.<br/><br/>i certainly don't experience the "flying" sensation... i am hoping to learn Tantra and how to experience some of these sensations while at Dark Odyssey. Maymay… i’m like you on the pain is not sexy thing!

i have found that when Princess spanks me that i now get aroused… But that’s a relatively new phenomenom.

i certainly don’t experience the “flying” sensation… i am hoping to learn Tantra and how to experience some of these sensations while at Dark Odyssey.

]]> By: Juliet http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-437 Juliet Sun, 02 Sep 2007 16:18:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-437 EthylBenzene - yep, definitely (although thankfully I've only crashed a couple of times!). I've always put it down to adrenalin - coming off a bike is scarier than falling over - and I guess the adrenalin helps generate endorphins for the actual purpose for which they are intended (viz. helping you cope with a physically demanding situation & reach safety).<br/><br/>Which does lead me to think that May is perhaps right about the analytical/rational thing. That if adrenalin helps generate endorphins, then the more emotionally charged your mental state is then the more/quicker you'll get an endorphin reaction (although eventually it or something like it will kick in anyway). <br/><br/>I have also, on a side-note, noticed a significant crossover between cyclists & perverts - masochists, the lot of us ;) EthylBenzene – yep, definitely (although thankfully I’ve only crashed a couple of times!). I’ve always put it down to adrenalin – coming off a bike is scarier than falling over – and I guess the adrenalin helps generate endorphins for the actual purpose for which they are intended (viz. helping you cope with a physically demanding situation & reach safety).

Which does lead me to think that May is perhaps right about the analytical/rational thing. That if adrenalin helps generate endorphins, then the more emotionally charged your mental state is then the more/quicker you’ll get an endorphin reaction (although eventually it or something like it will kick in anyway).

I have also, on a side-note, noticed a significant crossover between cyclists & perverts – masochists, the lot of us ;)

]]> By: devastatingyet http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-436 devastatingyet Sun, 02 Sep 2007 16:02:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-436 It seems to me like being hit used to turn me on and now it doesn't. I think what's really true is that only certain types of being hit (on my ass, inner thighs, pussy) turn me on and the rest don't even though I enjoy them.<br/><br/>I definitely get headspacy - giddy, more emotionally fragile, etc. - and my pain perceptions are altered. But I don't experience "flying" (whatever that is) or anything that is like the kinky sex version of an orgasm. I'm pretty sure Joscelin doesn't either.<br/><br/>And on the other side, hitting him is always, always a turn on for me, but it only turns him on at all if he is very in touch with how sexual it is for me. Otherwise it's more like something to endure. It seems to me like being hit used to turn me on and now it doesn’t. I think what’s really true is that only certain types of being hit (on my ass, inner thighs, pussy) turn me on and the rest don’t even though I enjoy them.

I definitely get headspacy – giddy, more emotionally fragile, etc. – and my pain perceptions are altered. But I don’t experience “flying” (whatever that is) or anything that is like the kinky sex version of an orgasm. I’m pretty sure Joscelin doesn’t either.

And on the other side, hitting him is always, always a turn on for me, but it only turns him on at all if he is very in touch with how sexual it is for me. Otherwise it’s more like something to endure.

]]> By: EthylBenzene http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-434 EthylBenzene Sat, 01 Sep 2007 21:49:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-434 Juliet, speaking of bikes and endorphins, I've noticed if I crash my bike during a ride and hurt myself, say, some road rash or bruises, a lot of time it won't hurt as bad as something similar happening if I was just, say, walking along and slipped on some ice. Does that make sense? I have always found the two situation -- pain + sex and pain + bikes -- to be strikingly similar. Just a thought thrown out there. The boyfriend is yelling at me to go put my shorts on before it gets dark :D Maybe I think more on this later..... Juliet, speaking of bikes and endorphins, I’ve noticed if I crash my bike during a ride and hurt myself, say, some road rash or bruises, a lot of time it won’t hurt as bad as something similar happening if I was just, say, walking along and slipped on some ice. Does that make sense? I have always found the two situation — pain + sex and pain + bikes — to be strikingly similar. Just a thought thrown out there. The boyfriend is yelling at me to go put my shorts on before it gets dark :D Maybe I think more on this later…..

]]> By: maymay http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-433 maymay Sat, 01 Sep 2007 20:20:00 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/08/31/flying-the-kinky-sex-orgasm-and-the-lack-thereof/#comment-433 I also get the endorphin high that comes from intense pain scenes. They don't always leave me gidddy and giggly, but I definitely feel the biochemical difference.<br/><br/>That being said, I have noticed a distinct difference in the way I seem to experience this biochemical shift and the way others have told me about their experiences. I'm not entirely sure if this difference stems from our communication styles or from our actual experiences being very different, but the point remains that I feel rather unique in this regard. (Feeling unique is simultaneously nice and isolating.)<br/><br/>It's comforting at the very minimum to hear from all of you about your own similar, if not identical, experiences. I also get the endorphin high that comes from intense pain scenes. They don’t always leave me gidddy and giggly, but I definitely feel the biochemical difference.

That being said, I have noticed a distinct difference in the way I seem to experience this biochemical shift and the way others have told me about their experiences. I’m not entirely sure if this difference stems from our communication styles or from our actual experiences being very different, but the point remains that I feel rather unique in this regard. (Feeling unique is simultaneously nice and isolating.)

It’s comforting at the very minimum to hear from all of you about your own similar, if not identical, experiences.

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