Comments on: One liner http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/ Maymay's pursuit of life, liberty, and sexual freedom. Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:03:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Zero2Infinity http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-521 Zero2Infinity Fri, 26 Oct 2007 17:31:05 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-521 If "She who must be obeyed" tells me to do it, then, wanting to please her trumps not wanting to do whatever it is. Of course, "She" perceives and derives pleasue out of putting me in this predicament bondage and watching me sweat it out. I do too -- the part about obeying and pleasure her, that is. this pleasure, however, does not erase the resistance or difficulty. But if we're lucky and clever, we can transform it into a degree of erotic energy one way or another. We all are treacherous beings despite best intentions. Give yourself points for askinig such question. Makes me think -- and laugh at myself, the best remedy after all. If “She who must be obeyed” tells me to do it, then, wanting to please her trumps not wanting to do whatever it is.

Of course, “She” perceives and derives pleasue out of putting me in this predicament bondage and watching me sweat it out.

I do too — the part about obeying and pleasure her, that is. this pleasure, however, does not erase the resistance or difficulty. But if we’re lucky and clever, we can transform it into a degree of erotic energy one way or another.

We all are treacherous beings despite best intentions. Give yourself points for askinig such question. Makes me think — and laugh at myself, the best remedy after all.

]]> By: Sod http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-520 Sod Tue, 23 Oct 2007 12:33:43 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-520 Eileen - While suspecting it was you, I made sure to generalize the context. Indeed, IN MOST CASES, USUALLY such a remark is more likely what I interpreted than anything else. I did not interpret YOU, Eileen. However, it is curios how quick you were to respond, admit it was you, and "defend" yourself... and by that, rendering the entry's general context, into a specific one (enough said. I believe May did not mean for it any other than general. That said, I would love to see your take on the "one liners" quote- contextually general as well as specific. Eileen –
While suspecting it was you, I made sure to generalize the context. Indeed, IN MOST CASES, USUALLY such a remark is more likely what I interpreted than anything else. I did not interpret YOU, Eileen. However, it is curios how quick you were to respond, admit it was you, and “defend” yourself… and by that, rendering the entry’s general context, into a specific one (enough said. I believe May did not mean for it any other than general. That said, I would love to see your take on the “one liners” quote- contextually general as well as specific.

]]> By: Eileen http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-519 Eileen Tue, 23 Oct 2007 04:56:39 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-519 Sod - While I see where you're coming from, let me assure you in no uncertain terms that your interpretation of what I said is, in this case, utterly wrong. Probably because the quote is so far out of context. Sod -
While I see where you’re coming from, let me assure you in no uncertain terms that your interpretation of what I said is, in this case, utterly wrong. Probably because the quote is so far out of context.

]]> By: Richard http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-518 Richard Mon, 22 Oct 2007 18:15:34 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-518 Things that I don't want to do encompass too vast a range for there to be any one answer It is sad so many people are ashamed of what they want. Shame is about as evil as an emotion can get. Some of us have been so inculcated with the precept to not be 'greedy' that it does get tough to simply state our desires. Takes lots of unlearning. (In my copy of Firefox your comments box goes so far left that it falls under the side bar and is invisible.) Things that I don’t want to do encompass too vast a range for there to be any one answer

It is sad so many people are ashamed of what they want. Shame is about as evil as an emotion can get.

Some of us have been so inculcated with the precept to not be ‘greedy’ that it does get tough to simply state our desires. Takes lots of unlearning.

(In my copy of Firefox your comments box goes so far left that it falls under the side bar and is invisible.)

]]> By: Sod http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-517 Sod Mon, 22 Oct 2007 14:08:43 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-517 Sympathizing: how about this: Why is it you don't want to do something you don't want to do? - truth is that, in most contexts, usually HER question is not really a question. It is a smug judgmental remark. Clearer,authentic and direct it would be:"I condemn your perception, your feelings and inability to do what I want you to do. In fact, I don't only condemn it, I loath and hate it, because it resonates with my own weaknesses which I hate, and therefore, for reminding me of my own shortcomings, I am now angry." More or less. Sympathizing: how about this: Why is it you don’t want to do something you don’t want to do? – truth is that, in most contexts, usually HER question is not really a question. It is a smug judgmental remark. Clearer,authentic and direct it would be:”I condemn your perception, your feelings and inability to do what I want you to do. In fact, I don’t only condemn it, I loath and hate it, because it resonates with my own weaknesses which I hate, and therefore, for reminding me of my own shortcomings, I am now angry.” More or less.

]]> By: Tom Allen http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-516 Tom Allen Mon, 22 Oct 2007 01:44:06 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/2007/10/21/one-liner/#comment-516 <i>Her: Why is it so hard for you to do something you don’t want to do?</i> *moves lips while reading* Nope, I don't get it, either. If we *wanted* to do those things, it would be a hell of a lot easier. To do them, that is. Her: Why is it so hard for you to do something you don’t want to do?

*moves lips while reading*

Nope, I don’t get it, either.
If we *wanted* to do those things, it would be a hell of a lot easier. To do them, that is.

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