- I’ve already had two beers and I didn’t even make it to the pub tonight. What am I still doing awake right now? #
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Fresh off the grill… (aka. "Yay! Stalker updates!")
- I've been predicting the course of events at work. I've been so accurate that I'm becoming ever more convinced that I'm some kind of oracle. 4 hrs ago
- Briefly caught up with a friend from NYC. Makes me miss her and the end of last year so much more, and not just for the sex we had w/her gf. 6 hrs ago
- @sanbeiji This morning, you gave me the perfect reason to read up a bit on RDFa. This is exactly why I am excited to know and work with you. 7 hrs ago
- So it turns out "V for Vendetta" is a terrible choice for pre-bedtime movie. It's cinema that's both disturbing and arousing simultaneously. 16 hrs ago
- Enjoyed a late night working session followed by another round of friendly company. Then it was dinner and now "V for Vendetta" before bed. 18 hrs ago
- More updates...
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Recently noted
- Terry Sanderson: The decision in favour of a registrar who refused to deal with gay couples sets a dangerous precedent | Comment is free | guardian.co.uk
Short, brilliant, and to the point: the spirit of this law should not be perverted to allow religious people license to discriminate against others on the basis of their religious belief. (Via http://twitter.com/girlonetrack )
- Women Topless in public in New York City
That's right, it's legal for a person—male or female, breasts or no breasts—to be topless in public in New York City. This is an amazing photo gallery with some fantastic (and sexy) pictures, and some very, very telling stories about body image, sexis
- What's Obscene? Google Could Have an Answer - NYTimes.com
A lawyer has decided to try using aggregated geographical Google Search data to prove that local standards of obscenity are quite a bit more free than local laws currently admit. Which makes sense, because we all know that The Internet Is For Porn.
- Mad Science: A Gene That Makes You Really Horny for Men
The start of genetic proof for homosexual behavior? That's either *really* good, or *really* bad!
- Doctor inadvertently invents orgasm machine
This was supposedly in 2001. I wonder if there have been any improvements since then?
- Terry Sanderson: The decision in favour of a registrar who refused to deal with gay couples sets a dangerous precedent | Comment is free | guardian.co.uk
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2008 (129)
- September 2008
- August 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-08-31
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- Rocking the Boat. By which I mean I also enjoy a good facial
- Stalker update for 2008-08-04
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- Stale and stagnant, also whips
- July 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-07-31
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- June 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-06-30
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- Stalker update for 2008-06-27
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- Stalker update for 2008-06-25
- Stalker update for 2008-06-24
- Young people into BDSM are not exceptional
- Stalker update for 2008-06-23
- Stalker update for 2008-06-22
- Stalker update for 2008-06-21
- Call for participation: Hyperfiction and Hypertextual Porn
- Stalker update for 2008-06-20
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- Stalker update for 2008-06-13
- Stalker update for 2008-06-12
- Stalker update for 2008-06-11
- Stalker update for 2008-06-10
- Stalker update for 2008-06-09
- Sexism at Large in American Politics: Armed and Dangerous
- Stalker update for 2008-06-08
- Stalker update for 2008-06-07
- Stalker update for 2008-06-06
- Stalker update for 2008-06-05
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- May 2008
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- Giving me wings
- The Selfish Highlight Reel: Rhode Island Fetish Flair Flea-market Recap
- Why Orgasm Logger? Well, why not?
- Wednesday Wanderings #9: Winds of Change
- Fantasy Worlds
- Because Submissive is an Orientation
- America's Sexual Sampler Platter: Everything but Me is on the Menu
- One thousand words
- Wednesday Wanderings #8: Mixed Visions for the New Year
- If this is 2008, then I don't have any resolutions
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- December 2007
- The Sexism of Politeness
- It doesn't matter if she's got a brain when your dick is in her
- Three easy steps to meeting and playing with people in BDSM clubs
- Harlem, 2 AM, and Group Dynamics
- Merry Christmas, with picture presents!
- Unwelcome: The Emotional Effects of Social Injustice
- The boy next door is also bisexual
- The Sexism of Sex and Smarts
- Wednesday Wanderings: Welcome Back and Fond Farewell
- How an outdated view of masculinity ignores the needs of all men
- Fun with kissing
- We're all different: when sex isn't attractive
- Rope bondage video of the day
- Normal is anything but
- An Exemplar of Conservative Hypocrisy
- Nurture is stronger than you think
- 'Sexually uninhibited' is PC for 'slut'
- Love sex or fear god? That is the question.
- The rules of flirting are sexist and wrong
- Men and masks in porn
- Transgender Basics
- On Friends and Enemies
- Black Rose XX Recap: An Introduction
- November 2007
- October 2007
- September 2007
- Stupid, stupid gay tops are just as bad as other men and women
- When I'm not feeling submissive
- Orgasm Logger source code available
- Hardware rearrangements cause Orgasm Logger to come down
- How not to fuck up a D/s relationship
- Sex is nice and porn is good for your society
- And now for something completely different
- Sex and Technology: How technological innovation pushes the boundaries of human sexuality and vice versa
- August 2007
- Flying, the kinky sex orgasm, and the lack thereof
- What almost everybody else doesn't get about bisexuality
- The kink culture of fear
- A moment
- Orgasm Logger is down but I'm in Jersey
- Kink on Tap 7: Tom Allen
- Kink on Tap 6: Sexual Teasing and Denial
- I want to be a pretty boy
- What every big sexuality community web site does wrong
- More men need to cry on the big porn screen
- Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
- The first blowjob I've ever bottomed to
- What sexuality might taste like if you were a submissive man in 2007
- Real Ultimate Male Chastity
- Your fantasy is not reality, and you should know better
- July 2007
- The case against supremacy
- How to make my space bigger
- There is so little space for me
- Aneros Helix Sex Toy Review
- Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)
- Where's the pain?
- Don't be nice
- (Off Topic) Meme: Random Seven
- Changes are no good, or whatever
- Kink on Tap 5: Bitchy Jones
- Kink on Tap 4: Conversio Virium
- June 2007
- May 2007
- Thoughts on extended scenes and play headspaces
- Professional Domination is actually Professional, remember?
- Sex Services versus Sex Products
- Kink on Tap 3: Porn and Prejudice
- Kink on Tap 1 and 2: The Big Hard Cock, Kink in Culture
- Intoxicants in (and as) BDSM
- Everyone's a little bit selfish sometimes
- Once in 48 days
- A Truly Belated Wednesday Wanderings
- The Truth About Anonymity
- April 2007
- March 2007
- Whips and chains may break my bones but words will always hurt more
- On the wonderfulness of thongs and chastity devices
- Marching on: Wednesday Wanderings
- Is submissive intent influenced by orgasms?
- Thoughts and fantasies on guided masturbation
- Wednesday Wanderings for March 21st
- Abandoned, accidental orgasm
- Anticipation in teasing
- Ecstagony's article on safety risks for face slapping play
- Face slapping and my many reactions to it
- Theory: Why subs write more than dom(me)s
- This Week's Wednesday Wandering
- The difference money makes
- Tell me I'm yours and tell me I'm good
- New erotica: Good boy, good pet
- I get off on unfairness
- Avoiding the orgasmic let down by avoiding responsibility?
- BDSM as an emotional sexuality all its own
- First Weekly Wednesday Wandering
- Feminization as the perfect creation
- Strap on vanilla sex and emotions in D/s sex
- Is it possible for a submissive to ever be truly polyamorous?
- Feeling well-trained is emotionally satisfying
- The body as our canvas for expression
- Homeostasis, conditioning, and orgasm denial
- Teasing and denial: you kind of need both parts
- Male chastity devices available today suck
- Is there such a thing as regular sex?
- February 2007
- The psychology of conditioning in a D/s relationship
- Breathing as a sexual teasing technique
- Finally a take on D/s that rings true for me
- Does this mean I'm an erotica writer now?
- Teasing, Denial, and Orgasm Control Games on Erotic Humiliation
- Stream of consciousness on BDSM 101
- Ramblings of a boy with a fetish for orgasm control
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