- Just approved the cover design and text for my new Website Creation book. Very cool. Also very cool: MultiFirefox http://tinyurl.com/54pgk6 #
- Setting up my machine for Firefox 3. HtmlValidator extension for Firefox 3 is supposedly available now, but downloading returns 404 Error. #
- Switching btw writing PHP code and the new employee setup runbook for work-I should double check I’m not writing code that makes user accts. #
- It’s settled. I am the undefeated champion of Wii Tennis AND Wii Bowling. Boo. Yah. That’s right. Boo. Yah. :) #
- At the Stonewall Bar on Oxford Street watching drag queens perform Britney Spears. It’s amazing how fun stupid can be. #
- Heading home from a night at the bars. Holy Shit, Australians are freaking drinkers. I’m wobbly! #
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KinkForAll is an ad-hoc unconference on sexuality for anyone and everyone. Anyone with the desire to learn in an open environment or with something to contribute is welcome and invited to participate.
Hear me, hear me!
Audience participation
- Emily on Margaret Brooks’ Sex Week “Concern” highlights the intersection of sex-negativity and adultism
- BEG on Margaret Brooks’ Sex Week “Concern” highlights the intersection of sex-negativity and adultism
- maymay on Margaret Brooks’ Sex Week “Concern” highlights the intersection of sex-negativity and adultism
- BEG on Margaret Brooks’ Sex Week “Concern” highlights the intersection of sex-negativity and adultism
- maymay on Anti-porn is pro-censorship, even if they say they’re not
- BEG on Anti-porn is pro-censorship, even if they say they’re not
- What We’re Expected to Be « beyond the hills on Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
- Submissive Desirability, Power, and the Silent Majority « beyond the hills on What will it take for the silent majority to speak up?
- Nancy Green on Dissecting Decontextualization: Donna M. Hughes’ Happy Endings?
- It might be just this « Pandora's Kinky box on Don’t be nice
Fresh off the Grill…
- @nikolasco OS acct, of course! :) As you well know, my #activism is considered #NSFW for most non-sexuality #conferences presentations I do. in reply to nikolasco 1 hr ago
- @nikolasco With respect, fuck that. The path to hell is paved with good intentions—DON'T THINK FOR ME. That's why I have a "Demo" user acct. in reply to nikolasco 1 hr ago
- #Google Instant's overbearing over-protectiveness infantilizes you: http://ur1.ca/1ka76 And yes we ARE thinking of the children. #censorship 1 hr ago
- #Censorship is futile.♺@kevinmarks #Google Instant will revive British English—it censors 'ass' not arse, 'shit' not shite, 'cock' not knob. 8 hrs ago
- Hey #NYC I'll be in your area week of Oct 11 for @mrsexsmith's @SideshowSeries. Where will you be and how can we get in touch to talk shop? 10 hrs ago
- More updates...
Kink On Tap Community Links Feed- maymaym: Someone had fun w/the headline: "Sex Ed Works Best Virally, Study Shows" http://4.ly/~T Clearer: #Internet #sex #education proven effective.maymaym: Someone had fun w/the headline: "Sex Ed Works Best Virally, Study Shows" http://4.ly/~T Clearer: #Internet #sex #education proven effective. […]
- 5 Things You Need to Know About The Craigslist Adult Services Censor"This weekend, Craigslist censored the Adult Services section of their site," Lori Adelman writes of the much-publicized controversy in which Melissa Farley and other anti-prostitution activists have hypocritially accused the company of facilitating child sex trafficking. Using wildly inflated numbers, misguided or just plain ignorant activists alo […]
- Minnesota County Doesn't Want Employees To Even Have Option Of Watching Hotel PornThe notion of business travelers being forbidden from purchasing X-rated pay-per-view isn't anything new. The erotic offerings are -- so we hear -- more expensive than other titles and very few employers want to foot the bill for them. But Winona County, MN, doesn't just want to tell municipal employees not to order hotel porn; they don't even […]
- maymaym: Blumenthal "could be considered criminally shortsighted" (I'd say negligent) for his @Craigslist "obsession" http://4.ly/~S /by @MelissaGiramaymaym: Blumenthal "could be considered criminally shortsighted" (I'd say negligent) for his @Craigslist "obsession" http://4.ly/~S /by @MelissaGira […]
- imascientist: Study actually listening to YPs! RT @bettersexeduk: 'Teenagers not pressured into sex': http://bit.ly/9RUyRA Wonder if anyone will cover it?imascientist: Study actually listening to YPs! RT @bettersexeduk: 'Teenagers not pressured into sex': http://bit.ly/9RUyRA Wonder if anyone will cover it? […]
- maymaym: Someone had fun w/the headline: "Sex Ed Works Best Virally, Study Shows" http://4.ly/~T Clearer: #Internet #sex #education proven effective.
Interesting Tidbits from Others- BeaconPressBks: Awkward moments in public radio, brought to you by Gail Dines. http://ow.ly/2AGMf #antiporn
- sexgenderbody: In the gender digital divide, women fall behind http://ff.im/-qjWjp
- sexgenderbody: Pious sex-haters prevail in relegating sex-workers to unsafe working conditions http://ff.im/-qeCMK
- DrPetra: While we debate sex education,why not listen to what young people want? http://www.nice.org.uk/nicemedia/live/11673/49247/49247.pdf
- iamcuriousblue: Yesterday's @KQED Forum: CATW vs #Craigslist: http://t.co/VCyLj9U. #sexwork #sexworker #sexworkers
- BreakingNews: Family in Israel accused of kidnapping gay relative after finding pictures of him in drag on Facebook http://bit.ly/bRqkOT
- melissaditmore: 6 indicted in alleged human trafficking ring that exploited 400 Thai workers in Hawaii - FBI http://bit.ly/c3BLCe
- NCSF: “Canceled Swingers Convention Gets Tall City Neighbors Talking” http://bit.ly/cuwMl2 / VIDEO (via @newswest9)
- senaytweets: Cleanliness linked to moral judgment http://t.co/clFCTAq #anti-porn #morality #immoral
- sexgenderbody: The Other Bi: Bigender : http://ff.im/-q5qec
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Events of potential interest (back in New York City)-
Stuff in the back of my cage
- ► 2010 (134)
- ► September 2010
- ► August 2010
- ► July 2010
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- Anti-porn is pro-censorship, even if they say they're not
- What will it take for the silent majority to speak up?
- Stalker Update for 2010-08-01
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-12
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-11
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-10
- A primatologist's suggestions for happier orgasm control
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-09
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-06
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-05
- ► June 2010
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- KinkForAll versus Stop Porn Culture: guess who's filthier!
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-04
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-22
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-21
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-20
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-19
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-17
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-15
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-14
- ► May 2010
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- Stalker Update for 2010-06-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-28
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-26
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-25
- Edenfantasys's unethical technology is a self-referential black hole
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-24
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-15
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-14
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-12
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-11
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-10
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-09
- On the Importance and Lack Thereof of Sexual Intercourse
- Certain Unalienable Rights: Freedom of Expression and Sexuality in the Name of Liberty
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-06
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-05
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-04
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-03
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-02
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-01
- ► April 2010
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- Yes, men can be feminist leaders.
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-30
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-29
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-28
- Femquake Fallout: Feminism, the Internet and Boobquake (and Brainquake)
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-27
- Femquaker: Shanna Katz, Sex-Positive Sexuality Educator
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-26
- Breasts AND brains are good for humanity & deserve respect! Introducing: Femquake
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-25
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-24
- Free and Open to the Public Panel at Brown University: When Educators Are Censors (May 4th)
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-23
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-19
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-17
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-15
- My opinions on youth at KinkForAll unconferences
- Stand Against Stigma: Don't Succumb to a Fear of Sex, Sexual Speech, or Sexual Freedom
- ► March 2010
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- Stalker Update for 2010-04-14
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-31
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-30
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-29
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-28
- Addressing Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks' concerns over KinkForAll unconferences
- The Salvation Army incites personal attacks against me; a blog reply
- Community Organizing for Great Justice!
- I celebrated KinkForAll's 1 year anniversary on the radio!
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-06
- Orgasm Denial Does Not Submissive Men Make
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-05
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-04
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-03
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-02
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-01
- ► February 2010
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- Stalker Update for 2010-02-28
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-26
- Open Thread: When Educators Are Censors
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-25
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-22
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-21
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-20
- Announcing Sex Education Everywhere: Because We Learn More Than What They Teach
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-19
- On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me - KinkForAll Providence
- Celebrate Sexual Freedom in Rhode Island! Come to KinkForAll Providence!
- Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial Compensation
- ► January 2010
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- On Talking to Children and Adolescents about BDSM and Sex
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-26
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-25
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-24
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-23
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-22
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-21
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-20
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-19
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-17
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-15
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-14
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-12
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-11
- The Internet made me a sexual freedom activist in 2009. Now it's your turn.
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-10
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-09
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-06
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-05
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-04
- ► 2009 (188)
- ► December 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-12-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-24
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-16
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-15
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-14
- Please read poignant commentary on Hope Witsell's suicide
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-13
- My impressions on the new "sex-positive social network" Blackbox Republic
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-12
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-11
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-10
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-09
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-08
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-07
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-05
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-03
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-02
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-01
- ► November 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-11-30
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-24
- Sexual Adultism at KinkForAll Washington DC
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-16
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-15
- Online reputation management for sex bloggers; when a tweet won't do
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-14
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-13
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-12
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-11
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-10
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-09
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-08
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-07
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-05
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-03
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-02
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-01
- On Youth, Sexuality, Education, and Your Fears
- ► October 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-10-31
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-30
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-24
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-16
- My latest project: Kink On Tap is reinventing smart sexuality netcasts
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-15
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-14
- Don't you fret, sexism is alive and well in BDSM
- ► September 2009
- ► August 2009
- ► July 2009
- ► June 2009
- ► May 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-05-15
- Stalker update for 2009-05-15
- Stalker update for 2009-05-14
- Stalker update for 2009-05-13
- Stalker update for 2009-05-12
- Stalker update for 2009-05-11
- Stalker update for 2009-05-10
- Stalker update for 2009-05-09
- Stalker update for 2009-05-08
- Stalker update for 2009-05-07
- Stalker update for 2009-05-06
- Stalker update for 2009-05-05
- Stalker update for 2009-05-04
- Stalker update for 2009-05-03
- BDSM versus Kink: Nobody but your sex partner cares how you fuck
- Stalker update for 2009-05-02
- Stalker update for 2009-05-01
- An Extended Recording of KinkForAll on the MasoCast
- ► April 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-04-30
- Stalker update for 2009-04-29
- Stalker update for 2009-04-28
- Stalker update for 2009-04-27
- Stalker update for 2009-04-26
- Stalker update for 2009-04-25
- Stalker update for 2009-04-24
- Stalker update for 2009-04-23
- Stalker update for 2009-04-22
- Stalker update for 2009-04-21
- Stalker update for 2009-04-20
- Stalker update for 2009-04-19
- Stalker update for 2009-04-18
- Stalker update for 2009-04-17
- Stalker update for 2009-04-16
- Stalker update for 2009-04-15
- Stalker update for 2009-04-14
- Stalker update for 2009-04-13
- Stalker update for 2009-04-12
- Stalker update for 2009-04-11
- Stalker update for 2009-04-10
- Stalker update for 2009-04-09
- Stalker update for 2009-04-08
- Stalker update for 2009-04-07
- Stalker update for 2009-04-07
- Stalker update for 2009-04-06
- Stalker update for 2009-04-05
- Stalker update for 2009-04-04
- Stalker update for 2009-04-03
- Stalker update for 2009-04-02
- Stalker update for 2009-04-01
- Now I remember why I love and hate New York City's BDSM scene
- ► March 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-03-31
- Stalker update for 2009-03-30
- Stalker update for 2009-03-29
- Stalker update for 2009-03-28
- Stalker update for 2009-03-27
- Stalker update for 2009-03-26
- Stalker update for 2009-03-25
- Stalker update for 2009-03-24
- KinkForAll and the Evolution of Sexuality Communities
- Stalker update for 2009-03-23
- Stalker update for 2009-03-22
- Stalker update for 2009-03-21
- Stalker update for 2009-03-20
- Stalker update for 2009-03-19
- Stalker update for 2009-03-18
- Stalker update for 2009-03-17
- Stalker update for 2009-03-16
- Stalker update for 2009-03-15
- Stalker update for 2009-03-14
- Stalker update for 2009-03-13
- Stalker update for 2009-03-12
- Stalker update for 2009-03-11
- Stalker update for 2009-03-10
- KinkForAll New York City: Rest and Recovery and Then We Do It All Over Again
- Stalker update for 2009-03-09
- Stalker update for 2009-03-08
- Stalker update for 2009-03-07
- Stalker update for 2009-03-06
- Stalker update for 2009-03-05
- Stalker update for 2009-03-04
- Stalker update for 2009-03-03
- Stalker update for 2009-03-02
- Stalker update for 2009-03-01
- ► February 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-02-28
- Jane Says We're Quality and Original, So I Built Her A Plugin
- Stalker update for 2009-02-27
- 8 Things Submissive Men Want From A Dominant Partner
- Stalker update for 2009-02-26
- Stalker update for 2009-02-25
- Stalker update for 2009-02-24
- Stalker update for 2009-02-24
- Stalker update for 2009-02-23
- Stalker update for 2009-02-22
- Stalker update for 2009-02-21
- Stalker update for 2009-02-20
- Stalker update for 2009-02-19
- Stalker update for 2009-02-18
- ► 2008 (211)
- ► December 2008
- ► November 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-11-24
- Stalker update for 2008-11-23
- MaleSubmissionArt.com or Why I Am Crowdsourcing My Own Pornography
- Stalker update for 2008-11-14
- Stalker update for 2008-11-13
- Stalker update for 2008-11-11
- Stalker update for 2008-11-10
- Stalker update for 2008-11-09
- Stalker update for 2008-11-08
- Stalker update for 2008-11-07
- Stalker update for 2008-11-06
- Stalker update for 2008-11-05
- Stalker update for 2008-11-04
- Stalker update for 2008-11-03
- Stalker update for 2008-11-02
- Stalker update for 2008-11-01
- ► October 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-10-31
- Stalker update for 2008-10-30
- Being someone's fucktoy: Who's objectifying who?
- Stalker update for 2008-10-29
- Wednesday Wanderings: Gendered Semantic Web, Vulcan Sex, and more
- Stalker update for 2008-10-28
- Stalker update for 2008-10-27
- Stalker update for 2008-10-26
- Stalker update for 2008-10-25
- Equating passivity with sexual submissiveness is a stupid mistake
- Stalker update for 2008-10-24
- Stalker update for 2008-10-23
- Stalker update for 2008-10-22
- Stalker update for 2008-10-21
- I like feeling like a beginner again
- Stalker update for 2008-10-20
- Stalker update for 2008-10-19
- Stalker update for 2008-10-18
- Stalker update for 2008-10-17
- Stalker update for 2008-10-16
- Stalker update for 2008-10-15
- Stalker update for 2008-10-14
- Stalker update for 2008-10-13
- Stalker update for 2008-10-12
- Stalker update for 2008-10-11
- Stalker update for 2008-10-10
- Stalker update for 2008-10-09
- Stalker update for 2008-10-08
- Stalker update for 2008-10-07
- Stalker update for 2008-10-06
- Stalker update for 2008-10-05
- FetSpank This! WordPress Plugin submits your posts to FetSpank.com
- Stalker update for 2008-10-04
- Safely fucking anonymous johns with inspiration from TCP/IP
- Stalker update for 2008-10-03
- Stalker update for 2008-10-02
- Stalker update for 2008-10-01
- ► September 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-09-30
- Stalker update for 2008-09-29
- Stalker update for 2008-09-28
- Stalker update for 2008-09-27
- Stalker update for 2008-09-26
- Stalker update for 2008-09-25
- Stalker update for 2008-09-24
- Top Ten Tips for Long-Term Male Chastity Device Wear
- Stalker update for 2008-09-23
- Stalker update for 2008-09-22
- Insomnia and pleasant sexual frustration (no relation)
- Stalker update for 2008-09-21
- Stalker update for 2008-09-20
- Stalker update for 2008-09-19
- Stalker update for 2008-09-18
- Stalker update for 2008-09-17
- Stalker update for 2008-09-16
- My latest sex toy review and thoughts at day's end
- Stalker update for 2008-09-15
- Stalker update for 2008-09-14
- Stalker update for 2008-09-13
- An Un-Wednesday Wandering: So-Called "Top" 100 Sex Bloggers
- Stalker update for 2008-09-12
- Stalker update for 2008-09-11
- Stalker update for 2008-09-10
- Stalker update for 2008-09-09
- Stalker update for 2008-09-08
- Stalker update for 2008-09-07
- Stalker update for 2008-09-06
- Stalker update for 2008-09-05
- Stalker update for 2008-09-04
- Stalker update for 2008-09-03
- Stalker update for 2008-09-02
- Stalker update for 2008-09-01
- ► August 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-08-31
- Stalker update for 2008-08-30
- Stalker update for 2008-08-29
- Stalker update for 2008-08-28
- Stalker update for 2008-08-27
- Stalker update for 2008-08-26
- Stalker update for 2008-08-25
- Stalker update for 2008-08-24
- Stalker update for 2008-08-23
- Stalker update for 2008-08-22
- Stalker update for 2008-08-21
- Stalker update for 2008-08-20
- Stalker update for 2008-08-19
- Stalker update for 2008-08-18
- Stalker update for 2008-08-17
- Stalker update for 2008-08-16
- Stalker update for 2008-08-15
- Stalker update for 2008-08-14
- Stalker update for 2008-08-13
- Stalker update for 2008-08-12
- Stalker update for 2008-08-11
- Stalker update for 2008-08-10
- Stalker update for 2008-08-09
- Stalker update for 2008-08-08
- Stalker update for 2008-08-07
- Stalker update for 2008-08-06
- Stalker update for 2008-08-05
- Rocking the Boat. By which I mean I also enjoy a good facial
- Stalker update for 2008-08-04
- Stalker update for 2008-08-03
- Stalker update for 2008-08-02
- Stalker update for 2008-08-01
- Stale and stagnant, also whips
- ► July 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-07-31
- Stalker update for 2008-07-30
- Stalker update for 2008-07-29
- Stalker update for 2008-07-28
- Stalker update for 2008-07-27
- Stalker update for 2008-07-26
- Stalker update for 2008-07-25
- Stalker update for 2008-07-24
- Stalker update for 2008-07-23
- Stalker update for 2008-07-22
- Stalker update for 2008-07-21
- Stalker update for 2008-07-20
- Stalker update for 2008-07-19
- Stalker update for 2008-07-18
- Stalker update for 2008-07-17
- Stalker update for 2008-07-16
- Stalker update for 2008-07-15
- Stalker update for 2008-07-14
- Stalker update for 2008-07-13
- Stalker update for 2008-07-12
- Stalker update for 2008-07-11
- Stalker update for 2008-07-10
- Stalker update for 2008-07-09
- Stalker update for 2008-07-08
- This is not the post you're looking for
- Stalker update for 2008-07-07
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- ► June 2008
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- Young people into BDSM are not exceptional
- Stalker update for 2008-06-23
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- Call for participation: Hyperfiction and Hypertextual Porn
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- Sexism at Large in American Politics: Armed and Dangerous
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- ► May 2008
- ► April 2008
- ► March 2008
- ► February 2008
- ► January 2008
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- Giving me wings
- The Selfish Highlight Reel: Rhode Island Fetish Flair Flea-market Recap
- Why Orgasm Logger? Well, why not?
- Wednesday Wanderings #9: Winds of Change
- Fantasy Worlds
- Because Submissive is an Orientation
- America's Sexual Sampler Platter: Everything but Me is on the Menu
- One thousand words
- Wednesday Wanderings #8: Mixed Visions for the New Year
- If this is 2008, then I don't have any resolutions
- ► 2007 (125)
- ► December 2007
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- The Sexism of Politeness
- It doesn't matter if she's got a brain when your dick is in her
- Three easy steps to meeting and playing with people in BDSM clubs
- Harlem, 2 AM, and Group Dynamics
- Merry Christmas, with picture presents!
- Unwelcome: The Emotional Effects of Social Injustice
- The boy next door is also bisexual
- The Sexism of Sex and Smarts
- Wednesday Wanderings: Welcome Back and Fond Farewell
- How an outdated view of masculinity ignores the needs of all men
- Fun with kissing
- We're all different: when sex isn't attractive
- Rope bondage video of the day
- Normal is anything but
- An Exemplar of Conservative Hypocrisy
- Nurture is stronger than you think
- 'Sexually uninhibited' is PC for 'slut'
- Love sex or fear god? That is the question.
- The rules of flirting are sexist and wrong
- Men and masks in porn
- Transgender Basics
- On Friends and Enemies
- Black Rose XX Recap: An Introduction
- ► November 2007
- ► October 2007
- ► September 2007
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- Stupid, stupid gay tops are just as bad as other men and women
- When I'm not feeling submissive
- Orgasm Logger source code available
- Hardware rearrangements cause Orgasm Logger to come down
- How not to fuck up a D/s relationship
- Sex is nice and porn is good for your society
- And now for something completely different
- Sex and Technology: How technological innovation pushes the boundaries of human sexuality and vice versa
- ► August 2007
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- Flying, the kinky sex orgasm, and the lack thereof
- What almost everybody else doesn't get about bisexuality
- The kink culture of fear
- A moment
- Orgasm Logger is down but I'm in Jersey
- Kink on Tap 7: Tom Allen
- Kink on Tap 6: Sexual Teasing and Denial
- I want to be a pretty boy
- What every big sexuality community web site does wrong
- More men need to cry on the big porn screen
- Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
- The first blowjob I've ever bottomed to
- What sexuality might taste like if you were a submissive man in 2007
- Real Ultimate Male Chastity
- Your fantasy is not reality, and you should know better
- ► July 2007
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- The case against supremacy
- How to make my space bigger
- There is so little space for me
- Aneros Helix Sex Toy Review
- Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)
- Where's the pain?
- Don't be nice
- (Off Topic) Meme: Random Seven
- Changes are no good, or whatever
- Kink on Tap 5: Bitchy Jones
- Kink on Tap 4: Conversio Virium
- ► June 2007
- ► May 2007
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- Thoughts on extended scenes and play headspaces
- Professional Domination is actually Professional, remember?
- Sex Services versus Sex Products
- Kink on Tap 3: Porn and Prejudice
- Kink on Tap 1 and 2: The Big Hard Cock, Kink in Culture
- Intoxicants in (and as) BDSM
- Everyone's a little bit selfish sometimes
- Once in 48 days
- A Truly Belated Wednesday Wanderings
- The Truth About Anonymity
- ► April 2007
- ► March 2007
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- Whips and chains may break my bones but words will always hurt more
- On the wonderfulness of thongs and chastity devices
- Marching on: Wednesday Wanderings
- Is submissive intent influenced by orgasms?
- Thoughts and fantasies on guided masturbation
- Wednesday Wanderings for March 21st
- Abandoned, accidental orgasm
- Anticipation in teasing
- Ecstagony's article on safety risks for face slapping play
- Face slapping and my many reactions to it
- Theory: Why subs write more than dom(me)s
- This Week's Wednesday Wandering
- The difference money makes
- Tell me I'm yours and tell me I'm good
- New erotica: Good boy, good pet
- I get off on unfairness
- Avoiding the orgasmic let down by avoiding responsibility?
- BDSM as an emotional sexuality all its own
- First Weekly Wednesday Wandering
- Feminization as the perfect creation
- Strap on vanilla sex and emotions in D/s sex
- Is it possible for a submissive to ever be truly polyamorous?
- Feeling well-trained is emotionally satisfying
- The body as our canvas for expression
- Homeostasis, conditioning, and orgasm denial
- Teasing and denial: you kind of need both parts
- Male chastity devices available today suck
- Is there such a thing as regular sex?
- ► February 2007
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- The psychology of conditioning in a D/s relationship
- Breathing as a sexual teasing technique
- Finally a take on D/s that rings true for me
- Does this mean I'm an erotica writer now?
- Teasing, Denial, and Orgasm Control Games on Erotic Humiliation
- Stream of consciousness on BDSM 101
- Ramblings of a boy with a fetish for orgasm control
- Trading for (some) anonymity and publicity
- ► 2010 (134)
Stuff I have opinions about
- Altered States and Headspaces (5)
- BDSM in the media (26)
- BDSM psychology (58)
- BDSM safety (12)
- BDSM techniques (11)
- BDSM terminology (6)
- Beginner BDSM (22)
- Bisexuality (10)
- Bitter and jealous (13)
- Blowjobs (3)
- Bondage (6)
- Chastity/Orgasm denial (35)
- Cock and ball torture (CBT) (4)
- Communication (32)
- Community (58)
- Cuckolding (4)
- D/s dynamics (53)
- Emotions (37)
- Erotic hypnosis (1)
- Erotica and pornography (14)
- Exhibitionism (4)
- Faceslapping (5)
- Fantasy (10)
- Femdom (49)
- Feminization and cross-dressing (5)
- Fetish (12)
- Foot worship (3)
- Gender fluidity (12)
- Generation gap (10)
- Humor (6)
- Kink events (27)
- Kink on Tap (7)
- Knife play (4)
- Male sexuality (29)
- Marks (7)
- Masculinity (17)
- Masochism (9)
- Masturbation (7)
- Myths and misconceptions (41)
- Orgasm Logger (5)
- Personal experience (60)
- Personal history (15)
- Pet play (1)
- Pic Post (7)
- Politics of sex (64)
- Polyamory (8)
- Professional BDSM (12)
- Puppy play (3)
- Rant (10)
- Relationship (26)
- Religious Evil (3)
- Reviews (6)
- Satire (1)
- Sex (39)
- Sex toys (10)
- Sexism (20)
- Sexual teasing and control (27)
- Spanking and paddling (3)
- Strap-ons and dildos (6)
- Stupid dominants (9)
- Stupid submissives (11)
- Technology (29)
- Torture and abuse (1)
- Training/Conditioning (6)
- Uncategorized (447)
- Vanilla life (62)
- Wednesday Wanderings (14)
- Whipping (9)
- Writing and blogging (35)
Random bits of interest- Cross-post: Edenfantasys’s unethical technology is a self-referential black hole
- What if the Ten Commandments were affirmative instead of negative?
- Cross-post: Announcing Sex Education Everywhere: Because We Learn More Than What They Teach
- What Kind of World
- Crosspost: My impressions on the new “sex-positive social network” Blackbox Republic
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