- Upsetting: Draconian ISP firewall rules. Happy-making: pink polka dots lycra panties, looking boyish w/shirts and girlish w/pants+underwear! #
- I just walked by a grocery store in Sydney’s Chinatown that was selling 5 (5!) edible vegetables that I have never even heard of before. #
- At Sussex Centre for lunch @BloodyLaughter accuses me of looking up girl’s skirts. I say I’d look up boy’s skirts too, if they wore them! #
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- What an utterly craptastic day. The very last thing I want to do right now is be at my computer. How novel. 7 hrs ago
- Had a smack-down on the Plone Users list…that's what's so great & so mind-numbingly maddening abt open communities http://tinyurl.com/65fpah 9 hrs ago
- Heard a great quote: "Great security is about discipline." Same applies to development. Drowning myself in loud trance music so I can focus. 14 hrs ago
- Needed to cool off, so I took a relatively early lunch. Almost ready to go back to work but do not want to make it a long day today. 15 hrs ago
- I definitely woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning. I'm pissed off that our team can't even get consistent indentation right. 16 hrs ago
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I say I’d look up boy’s skirts too, if they wore them! #
Ach, crivens! Hain’t they got no manly men a-wearing ye kilties doon under?