- Left the house w/out glasses on, went home, only to find them in my bag. Not the best start to my day so far, but I did wake up rested. #
- @grantyoung 3rd-ed. Twitter’s new design did well prioritizing their users’ needs & they describe good reasons for their choices. Twitter++! #
- @CurvaceousDee Aha. That makes a lot more sense now. I have pretty good time management skillz too, but there’s still only 24hrs in the day. #
- Thought of the moment http://tinyurl.com/5nbdvn Is it sad that I can recognize the markup on that cake’s icing as MS Word’s attempt at HTML? #
- This HTML is like a Poker player who is only good enough to be dangerous to themself. Lists=cool but not for EVERYTHING! Float HELL results. #
- At a café in Glebe blessedly early for dinner w/ @BloodyLaughter & friend of hers. Having trouble not thinking of giving her oral sex. #
- @essinem Hard to get mini-CDs out of a Mac’s drive. When I worked at Apple, I used 2 thin cards, hit eject & catch, then pull the CD out. :\ #
- @essinem It’s NOT SAFE to stick stuff in Mac’s CD drive…DM me for details, but I think you should go to Apple store to remove the mini disc. #
- @MajaMajaMaja Twitter had the at-replies function before their redesign, but it was on a tab simply labelled “Replies” and was easy to miss. #
- @jakevance Not sure what you mean. My post provides a patch for the @WordPress plugin that I hope the author will incorporate as version 2.1 #
- @BloodyLaughter locked me up in my #cb3k 4 days ago so it’s been ~7 since I’ve enjoyed any release yet tonight alone I’ve helped her to two. #
- @jakevance Disable JavaScript to prevent websites from doing things like removing toolbars, etc. It’s also more secure to browse without it. #
- Been tossing all night unable to sleep. @BloodyLaughter’s damned sexy, makes it hard to relax while all hot & bothered yet locked in #cb3k #
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Fresh off the grill… (aka. "Yay! Stalker updates!")
- I feel a bit wrecked tonight; been changing gears between tech, sex (@kinkforall, @conversiovirium), hosting friends, and "real" work. Augh. 15 mins ago
- It'll be a quiet tech day for me as @BloodyLaughter & I show @majamajamaja & @romanticrope around Sydney's various villages. Later, all. 9 hrs ago
- @stefsull Installed @twitterfon at your prompting. I agree. The client rocks! Note the Apple "80%" language on its app store description? ;) in reply to stefsull 10 hrs ago
- @ryancross Very cool. :) I've been watching the "Microformats in Drupal" & "Semantic Web" groups. When I have the cycles, I'll jump in more. in reply to ryancross 21 hrs ago
- People think geeks like @jdub and I are being pedantic when we get anal about typography. In reality it's the computers who are pedantic. :P 1 day ago
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Recently noted
- Erika Moen's Comics
A fantastic collection of very poignant and touching webcomics about gender and GLBT issues in general. A highly, highly recommended (and fast!) read.
- Wonderjock & Enhancing Underwear at International Jock Underwear & Swimwear
Evidently you can buy underwear that makes your package look exceptionally good. Of course, you could also wear a chastity device to the same effect. However, I wonder if this would be useful for a man who wanted to have some support while wearing a chastity device and didn't want to resort to women's underwear.
- Naked Sushi for the Germaphobe (The Food Section)
Let's say you like the idea of Nyotaimori (the practice of eating sushi off of a naked body), but you find the whole situation socially awkward, icky, and unsafe. You may be in the market for Bodylicious X -- contoured, inanimate sushi platters sculpted to look like naked flesh. The trays, available in female and male versions, are €45 each (though you'll need three to form a complete torso) at DesignCode.
- Terry Sanderson: The decision in favour of a registrar who refused to deal with gay couples sets a dangerous precedent | Comment is free | guardian.co.uk
Short, brilliant, and to the point: the spirit of this law should not be perverted to allow religious people license to discriminate against others on the basis of their religious belief. (Via http://twitter.com/girlonetrack )
- Women Topless in public in New York City
That's right, it's legal for a person—male or female, breasts or no breasts—to be topless in public in New York City. This is an amazing photo gallery with some fantastic (and sexy) pictures, and some very, very telling stories about body image, sexis
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- ►2008 (208)
- ►November 2008
- MaleSubmissionArt.com or Why I Am Crowdsourcing My Own Pornography
- Stalker update for 2008-11-14
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- Stalker update for 2008-11-11
- Stalker update for 2008-11-10
- Stalker update for 2008-11-09
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- ►October 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-10-31
- Stalker update for 2008-10-30
- Being someone's fucktoy: Who's objectifying who?
- Stalker update for 2008-10-29
- Wednesday Wanderings: Gendered Semantic Web, Vulcan Sex, and more
- Stalker update for 2008-10-28
- Stalker update for 2008-10-27
- Stalker update for 2008-10-26
- Stalker update for 2008-10-25
- Equating passivity with sexual submissiveness is a stupid mistake
- Stalker update for 2008-10-24
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- Stalker update for 2008-10-22
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- I like feeling like a beginner again
- Stalker update for 2008-10-20
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- FetSpank This! WordPress Plugin submits your posts to FetSpank.com
- Stalker update for 2008-10-04
- Safely fucking anonymous johns with inspiration from TCP/IP
- Stalker update for 2008-10-03
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- ►September 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-09-30
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- Stalker update for 2008-09-28
- Stalker update for 2008-09-27
- Stalker update for 2008-09-26
- Stalker update for 2008-09-25
- Stalker update for 2008-09-24
- Top Ten Tips for Long-Term Male Chastity Device Wear
- Stalker update for 2008-09-23
- Stalker update for 2008-09-22
- Insomnia and pleasant sexual frustration (no relation)
- Stalker update for 2008-09-21
- Stalker update for 2008-09-20
- Stalker update for 2008-09-19
- Stalker update for 2008-09-18
- Stalker update for 2008-09-17
- Stalker update for 2008-09-16
- My latest sex toy review and thoughts at day's end
- Stalker update for 2008-09-15
- Stalker update for 2008-09-14
- Stalker update for 2008-09-13
- An Un-Wednesday Wandering: So-Called "Top" 100 Sex Bloggers
- Stalker update for 2008-09-12
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- ►August 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-08-31
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- Rocking the Boat. By which I mean I also enjoy a good facial
- Stalker update for 2008-08-04
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- Stale and stagnant, also whips
- ►July 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-07-31
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- Stalker update for 2008-07-07
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- ►June 2008
- Stalker update for 2008-06-30
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- Young people into BDSM are not exceptional
- Stalker update for 2008-06-23
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- Call for participation: Hyperfiction and Hypertextual Porn
- Stalker update for 2008-06-20
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- Sexism at Large in American Politics: Armed and Dangerous
- Stalker update for 2008-06-08
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- ►May 2008
- ►April 2008
- ►March 2008
- ►February 2008
- ►January 2008
- Giving me wings
- The Selfish Highlight Reel: Rhode Island Fetish Flair Flea-market Recap
- Why Orgasm Logger? Well, why not?
- Wednesday Wanderings #9: Winds of Change
- Fantasy Worlds
- Because Submissive is an Orientation
- America's Sexual Sampler Platter: Everything but Me is on the Menu
- One thousand words
- Wednesday Wanderings #8: Mixed Visions for the New Year
- If this is 2008, then I don't have any resolutions
- ►November 2008
- ►2007 (125)
- ►December 2007
- The Sexism of Politeness
- It doesn't matter if she's got a brain when your dick is in her
- Three easy steps to meeting and playing with people in BDSM clubs
- Harlem, 2 AM, and Group Dynamics
- Merry Christmas, with picture presents!
- Unwelcome: The Emotional Effects of Social Injustice
- The boy next door is also bisexual
- The Sexism of Sex and Smarts
- Wednesday Wanderings: Welcome Back and Fond Farewell
- How an outdated view of masculinity ignores the needs of all men
- Fun with kissing
- We're all different: when sex isn't attractive
- Rope bondage video of the day
- Normal is anything but
- An Exemplar of Conservative Hypocrisy
- Nurture is stronger than you think
- 'Sexually uninhibited' is PC for 'slut'
- Love sex or fear god? That is the question.
- The rules of flirting are sexist and wrong
- Men and masks in porn
- Transgender Basics
- On Friends and Enemies
- Black Rose XX Recap: An Introduction
- ►November 2007
- ►October 2007
- ►September 2007
- Stupid, stupid gay tops are just as bad as other men and women
- When I'm not feeling submissive
- Orgasm Logger source code available
- Hardware rearrangements cause Orgasm Logger to come down
- How not to fuck up a D/s relationship
- Sex is nice and porn is good for your society
- And now for something completely different
- Sex and Technology: How technological innovation pushes the boundaries of human sexuality and vice versa
- ►August 2007
- Flying, the kinky sex orgasm, and the lack thereof
- What almost everybody else doesn't get about bisexuality
- The kink culture of fear
- A moment
- Orgasm Logger is down but I'm in Jersey
- Kink on Tap 7: Tom Allen
- Kink on Tap 6: Sexual Teasing and Denial
- I want to be a pretty boy
- What every big sexuality community web site does wrong
- More men need to cry on the big porn screen
- Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
- The first blowjob I've ever bottomed to
- What sexuality might taste like if you were a submissive man in 2007
- Real Ultimate Male Chastity
- Your fantasy is not reality, and you should know better
- ►July 2007
- The case against supremacy
- How to make my space bigger
- There is so little space for me
- Aneros Helix Sex Toy Review
- Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)
- Where's the pain?
- Don't be nice
- (Off Topic) Meme: Random Seven
- Changes are no good, or whatever
- Kink on Tap 5: Bitchy Jones
- Kink on Tap 4: Conversio Virium
- ►June 2007
- ►May 2007
- Thoughts on extended scenes and play headspaces
- Professional Domination is actually Professional, remember?
- Sex Services versus Sex Products
- Kink on Tap 3: Porn and Prejudice
- Kink on Tap 1 and 2: The Big Hard Cock, Kink in Culture
- Intoxicants in (and as) BDSM
- Everyone's a little bit selfish sometimes
- Once in 48 days
- A Truly Belated Wednesday Wanderings
- The Truth About Anonymity
- ►April 2007
- ►March 2007
- Whips and chains may break my bones but words will always hurt more
- On the wonderfulness of thongs and chastity devices
- Marching on: Wednesday Wanderings
- Is submissive intent influenced by orgasms?
- Thoughts and fantasies on guided masturbation
- Wednesday Wanderings for March 21st
- Abandoned, accidental orgasm
- Anticipation in teasing
- Ecstagony's article on safety risks for face slapping play
- Face slapping and my many reactions to it
- Theory: Why subs write more than dom(me)s
- This Week's Wednesday Wandering
- The difference money makes
- Tell me I'm yours and tell me I'm good
- New erotica: Good boy, good pet
- I get off on unfairness
- Avoiding the orgasmic let down by avoiding responsibility?
- BDSM as an emotional sexuality all its own
- First Weekly Wednesday Wandering
- Feminization as the perfect creation
- Strap on vanilla sex and emotions in D/s sex
- Is it possible for a submissive to ever be truly polyamorous?
- Feeling well-trained is emotionally satisfying
- The body as our canvas for expression
- Homeostasis, conditioning, and orgasm denial
- Teasing and denial: you kind of need both parts
- Male chastity devices available today suck
- Is there such a thing as regular sex?
- ►February 2007
- The psychology of conditioning in a D/s relationship
- Breathing as a sexual teasing technique
- Finally a take on D/s that rings true for me
- Does this mean I'm an erotica writer now?
- Teasing, Denial, and Orgasm Control Games on Erotic Humiliation
- Stream of consciousness on BDSM 101
- Ramblings of a boy with a fetish for orgasm control
- Trading for (some) anonymity and publicity
- ►December 2007
- ►2008 (208)
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