@keyboardklatter @Anwyn Comparing sizes of possible good there is often a red herring…instead, I prefer to compare one’s own endurance w/it. in reply to keyboardklatter # @bellaforte Compromise is a bad tactic, in my opinion. Splitting the difference is only good for the leader—why give up a win/win so easily? in reply to bellaforte # [...]
Archive for February, 2009
Stalker update for 2009-02-24
@keyboardklatter @Anwyn Comparing sizes of possible good there is often a red herring…instead, I prefer to compare one’s own endurance w/it. in reply to keyboardklatter # @bellaforte Compromise is a bad tactic, in my opinion. Splitting the difference is only good for the leader—why give up a win/win so easily? in reply to bellaforte # [...]
Stalker update for 2009-02-23
#Fairness is not about being equal (sameness), it’s about being EQUIVALENT ie. having equal #opportunity to achieve different wants & needs. # @NathanaelB That musing is from a draft sex blog post. Getting #fairness right is a big deal as “I get off on unfairness.” http://tr.im/gGgp in reply to NathanaelB # I ALMOST made it [...]
Stalker update for 2009-02-22
LOVE how many http://FetLife.com/groups loudly decry S/speaking L/like T/this A/about D/dominance O/or S/submission. “Slashspeak” is stupid. # @calypto You’re not alone—to ignorant people BDSM power #dynamics = #heteronormative ones. Man=dominant, woman=submissive. Sexist indeed! :( in reply to calypto # Shit, I’m listed as a speaker for @Sex20Con http://www.sex20con.com/2009-speakers/ Gotta figure out if I can afford [...]
Stalker update for 2009-02-21
@saraeileen Happy birthday. I’m sorry I didn’t get you anything for today…hopefully rose quartz and crocodile skin from Cairns will suffice. # @GoSC_Melvar Don’t use `image/svg-xml`, use `image/svg+xml`. Note the plus—not the minus. You might also see: http://wiki.svg.org/Inline_SVG in reply to GoSC_Melvar # Woman asks: How do I [non-verbally] communicate my desire for submissive ppl…not [...]
Stalker update for 2009-02-20
@Allyeska @Simonvw @spellrus I got heat for http://tr.im/realsyd but agree: Oz THINKS it’s less conservative than it is. 1 reason I’m going. in reply to Allyeska # @Allyeska @Chisa I’ve been to #burlesque shows but never gone to strip clubs. Former are like short stage plays, latter exploits BOTH sexes. in reply to Allyeska # [...]
