http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/ Because 'kinky' is an adjective, not an activity Fri, 18 May 2012 00:29:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-308052 From Triads to Triadic Relationships: Polyamory’s superpower is not what you think – Atlanta Poly Weekend 2012 Opening Keynote « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Sun, 11 Mar 2012 09:35:57 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-308052 [...] an open-to-the-public “unconference” whose theme is sex and relationships education. In 2009, I co-founded KinkForAll with a long-term goal of developing “self-empowerment training areas” where people could choose to endure the intense [...] [...] an open-to-the-public “unconference” whose theme is sex and relationships education. In 2009, I co-founded KinkForAll with a long-term goal of developing “self-empowerment training areas” where people could choose to endure the intense [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-303733 Help me check BDSM’s privilege at the next KinkForAll unconference « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Sat, 03 Mar 2012 03:04:23 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-303733 [...] a little less, and to listen to others a little more. Since “BDSM” is not a person, and since KinkForAll is structurally designed to ensure discussions on any topic cannot be unilaterally exclud..., it is up to us, collectively, to check BDSM’s privilege at specific KinkForAll unconferences [...] [...] a little less, and to listen to others a little more. Since “BDSM” is not a person, and since KinkForAll is structurally designed to ensure discussions on any topic cannot be unilaterally exclud…, it is up to us, collectively, to check BDSM’s privilege at specific KinkForAll unconferences [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-299835 Invisibility versus Illegibility: KinkForAll shows how “kink” is everything you didn’t know it can be « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Fri, 24 Feb 2012 02:19:02 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-299835 [...] intimacy, making many people fearful of openly discussing “taboos.” Sexual stigmas sustain an aristocratic stranglehold on information, privileging credentialed gatekeepers over the only true expert on your own desires: you! One [...] [...] intimacy, making many people fearful of openly discussing “taboos.” Sexual stigmas sustain an aristocratic stranglehold on information, privileging credentialed gatekeepers over the only true expert on your own desires: you! One [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-285496 Toward a new expression of sexual freedom « Kink in exile Fri, 20 Jan 2012 18:16:18 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-285496 [...] from a post about Kink for All, a sexuality conference that started in NY and is going to Denver in February.  [...] [...] from a post about Kink for All, a sexuality conference that started in NY and is going to Denver in February.  [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-273607 Suddenly the world seems such a perfect place: Technomaddery, Cyberbusking, and More « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Mon, 02 Jan 2012 11:46:08 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-273607 [...] tomorrow is also a callback to my past. After the East coast, and after I complete the legal transition out of my apartment in January, [...] [...] tomorrow is also a callback to my past. After the East coast, and after I complete the legal transition out of my apartment in January, [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-266182 The Bus Driver and The Gadfly: What my activism looks like at BDSM parties « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Tue, 20 Dec 2011 13:13:02 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-266182 [...] I’ve been to, I found Transmission to be the most accepting of the kinds of conversations I was starting. I think that’s in no small part due to the fact that the hosts are sensitive to these issues and [...] [...] I’ve been to, I found Transmission to be the most accepting of the kinds of conversations I was starting. I think that’s in no small part due to the fact that the hosts are sensitive to these issues and [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-187092 On Letting The World Burn « Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed Wed, 20 Jul 2011 02:55:51 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-187092 [...] intents and purposes, I am the illegitimate offspring of The Scene and The State at a time when the literary telepathic non-magic of the Internet threatens them both. And, still borrowing from Haraway, ”illegitimate offspring are often exceedingly unfaithful [...] [...] intents and purposes, I am the illegitimate offspring of The Scene and The State at a time when the literary telepathic non-magic of the Internet threatens them both. And, still borrowing from Haraway, ”illegitimate offspring are often exceedingly unfaithful [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-32283 Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › The Salvation Army incites personal attacks against me; a blog reply Thu, 25 Mar 2010 19:05:23 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-32283 [...] hard as it might be to believe, my involvement with the KinkForAll unconferences were born out of my desire to see my “end of the spectrum” do a better job of actually educating about se.... I think we have done ourselves a great disservice in trying, and in taking sex from the private [...] [...] hard as it might be to believe, my involvement with the KinkForAll unconferences were born out of my desire to see my “end of the spectrum” do a better job of actually educating about se…. I think we have done ourselves a great disservice in trying, and in taking sex from the private [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-30614 Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › Open Thread: When Educators Are Censors Thu, 25 Feb 2010 08:44:43 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-30614 [...] freedom has meant I’ve become a spokesperson for the intersection of tech and sex, founding KinkForAll put me at odds with some of the more traditional sexuality community leaders, and the louder I get and the more I do with media projects like Kink On Tap and SexEdEverywhere, [...] [...] freedom has meant I’ve become a spokesperson for the intersection of tech and sex, founding KinkForAll put me at odds with some of the more traditional sexuality community leaders, and the louder I get and the more I do with media projects like Kink On Tap and SexEdEverywhere, [...]

]]> http://maybemaimed.com/2009/03/23/kinkforall-and-the-evolution-of-sexuality-communities/#comment-29312 Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › Celebrate Sexual Freedom in Rhode Island! Come to KinkForAll Providence! Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:10:06 +0000 http://maybemaimed.com/?p=763#comment-29312 [...] began because sexuality communities had a real need to mix and mingle in a non-eroticized environment where the exchange of ideas took precedence over the exchange of bodily fluids. More than that, it [...] [...] began because sexuality communities had a real need to mix and mingle in a non-eroticized environment where the exchange of ideas took precedence over the exchange of bodily fluids. More than that, it [...]

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