- @n3wjack Thx but I opted for Yahoo! Pipes over Google Calendar cuz it let me do easy #post-processing on #iCalendar file. http://ur1.ca/fe92 in reply to n3wjack #
- Get a boost of Kink On Tap goodness! Follow all past panelists in one fell swoop at @KinkOnTap/panelists. It's like a twitamin of smart sex! #
- If you think #rape #culture isn't a 1st world issue ♺ @maxine: Elite college students proud of 'pro-rape' Facebook page http://bit.ly/4AWKzA #
- @n3wjack Thx! :) I contributed my Twitter bg #picture to the !Wikimedia #commons: http://ur1.ca/fehy Idea originally from http://ur1.ca/fei6 in reply to n3wjack #
- @forteller Doesn't work quite as easily on Identi.ca cuz of the free-floating text links but I will soon-ish. Or someone can suggest colors? #
- Getting ready for @KinkOnTap show in a few hrs. Lots of new links for today at http://delicious.com/kinkontap/15 for an exciting discussion! #
- 15min until tonight's @KinkOnTap! Plus, we're testing a new #chat #room at http://Chat.KinkOnTap.com. Join us there while you watch tonight! #
- @ASimon89 That's good to hear! Glad #KinkOnTap makes you feel connected again. Pls do keep coming back on the show! Your energy helps ME. :D in reply to ASimon89 #
- RT @KinkForAll: 33 ppl signed up for #KFADC at http://tr.im/kfadc but more RSVPd elsewhere. If you RSVPd elsewhere pls ALSO #signup on wiki! #
- Yet again, #CSS fails where a one-line #JavaScript solves the issue. That said, check out the new #KinkOnTap live: http://live.KinkOnTap.com #
- Msg on #Fetlife: "Hello, cutie. Are you worthy of being added to my friends?" I replied: "You're clearly not worthy of being added to mine." #
- In case you want help using new #KinkOnTap #chat room powered by #Speeqe: http://bit.ly/1XwZUE Edits appreciated! #
- @MissCalico Yes, if you backdate a #WordPress post & it's far enough back so that enough other posts are later, it go into your RSS feed. :) in reply to misscalico #
- @maymaym @misscalico Oops, that was supposed to be "Yes, if you backdate a #WordPress post…it WON'T go into your #RSS feed." Dagnabit…typos! #
- "#Globalization has not been inclusive. Gov't structure is fossilized. We must develop a new way of managing the planet." http://ur1.ca/ff5a #
- @misscalico "Far enough" means earlier than X most recent posts that would go into an #RSS feed. Find X from your #WordPress settings pages. in reply to misscalico #
- I managed to get ⅓ of the way thru post-processing tonight's #KinkOnTap. Why do I often think we did badly until I listen to the #recording? #
- Just saw @SweetRori's picks for Top 100 !Sex #Bloggers of 2009 http://bit.ly/13SLNj I'm on it again at number 78 & my friend @taomlin is 35. #
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- KinkForAll Providence is happing this Saturday, Feb 6th!
KinkForAll is an ad-hoc unconference on sexuality for anyone and everyone. Anyone with the desire to learn in an open environment or with something to contribute is welcome and invited to participate.
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Audience participation
- Stilllearning on On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me – KinkForAll Providence
- Aida Manduley on On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me – KinkForAll Providence
- Lady Julia on On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me – KinkForAll Providence
- Olivia on On Talking to Children and Adolescents about BDSM and Sex
- ibik on Sexual Adultism at KinkForAll Washington DC
- Carola Anne Caiafa on The first blowjob I’ve ever bottomed to
- Carola Anne Caiafa on Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial Compensation
- Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › Celebrate Sexual Freedom in Rhode Island! Come to KinkForAll Providence! on Introducing KinkForAll: A no-limits gender and sexuality unconference
- Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › Celebrate Sexual Freedom in Rhode Island! Come to KinkForAll Providence! on KinkForAll and the Evolution of Sexuality Communities
- maymay on Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial Compensation
Fresh off the Grill…
- Thx! :) Thought about it. Haven't found an opportunity. ♺ @DarthBitsy: @maymaym thought about $ for speaking? Your #KFAPVD pres was worth $. 9 hrs ago
- By the end of tonight I'll have 4 great #KFAPVD #videos online! Check out http://tr.im/kfapvdgrid to find links to all of them, and more! :) 10 hrs ago
- http://vimeo.com/9307358 Check out @HiOhMegan's #KFAPVD talk "Sex Panic in Pawtucket" about trouble she faced trying to open @TheCSPH in RI! 13 hrs ago
- My #KFAPVD presentation along w/text transcript is up on my blog! http://ur1.ca/ludv More coming! Watch http://tr.im/kfapvdgrid for updates. 14 hrs ago
- Post-processing #KFAPVD #videos. Watch updates to http://tr.im/kfapvdgrid for links to recorded #media of presentations you may have missed. 15 hrs ago
- More updates...
Comments on Other Blogs by Maymay- Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial CompensationIt’s just to say that, when you’re the gatekeeper, you take on some of that responsibility for “recruitment”. (Of course, I don’t really know how much recruitment you did, specifically, to try to get more diversity along, say, racial lines…maybe you did a LOT and it still didn’t come about–but the fact that there is now some diversity there tells me that it […]
- Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial Compensationit always pains me to see porn that is fantastically diverse along some lines, but which seems to take racial diversity as an afterthought (of course, I haven’t signed up, but on the “freebies” page, it seems to be only a whole lotta white folks).I know exactly what you mean. At the same time, I also know that it’s actually surprisingly hard to show certain […]
- Some Kind of ClimaxThis.You’re not broken, Bitchy. You’re just tired of fighting the dominant paradigm. Get some rest, flog some hot guys, and let the prodoms go fuck themselves (since they won’t fuck their subs), and eventually you’ll find your voice again.I've gotten tired. I've stopped writing for a while. I'm still here. So are you. And you don't have t […]
- http://mostlystraight.tumblr.com/post/356373756Is that a male-bodied person on the bottom? It seems at a minimum very androgynous to me, and possibly a female body.Read more comments by maymay […]
- Where are all the male dominant bloggers?I think you're totally right: male dominant bloggers are the expected norm, and so it's not like they have much of a need to go loudly shouting from the rooftops, "I'm not like you! Give me a word for what I am! I am trying to figure this shit out and you're not helping!", the way I've done for years.That said, there are so […]
- Maybe Maimed but Never HarmedAlcibiades, in my experience, TNG groups vary wildly across the country. Local flavor may be extremely bitter in one place and sweet the next. Sadly, I’ve not found any TNG groups to my liking. The one in NYC is the one I have most experience with, although I’ve also met many of the folks involved in the Boston as well as the DC area ones. Frankly, while I a […]
- Jack in the Media!Thanks for being on Kink On Tap with the rest of us, Jack! You were delightful as always. =)Read more comments by maymay […]
- Attorney Larry Walters: Some rational comments on sextingWhat a find! These quotes are fantastic and I am so thrilled to have discovered the paper you linked to. It's so refreshing to hear lawyers speak sanely about young people, and especially about the widespread sexual adultism that teens are so often oppressed by.Thank you, thank you, thank you, for highlighting these quotes!Read more comments by maymay […]
- Thoughts on Continuing This BlogBlogs have lifespans, just like we do. Sometimes we need to let things go. Other times, we can find a way to breathe new life into something.Whatever you do, don't force it. Whatever you do, it's going to be the right thing. :)Just do let us know, eventually, what that something is, if it's not located here. Please. ;)Read more comments by may […]
- The nose on my faceThis is a brilliant post, Thumper. It is, hands down, my favorite of yours. My "reply" is here.Read more comments by maymay […]
- Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial Compensation
Events of potential interest (back in New York City)-
Stuff in the back of my cage
- ► 2010 (29)
- ► February 2010
- ► January 2010
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- On Talking to Children and Adolescents about BDSM and Sex
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-26
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-25
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-24
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-23
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-22
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-21
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-20
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-19
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-17
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-15
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-14
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-12
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-11
- The Internet made me a sexual freedom activist in 2009. Now it's your turn.
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-10
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-09
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-06
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-05
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-04
- ► 2009 (188)
- ► December 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-12-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-24
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-16
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-15
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-14
- Please read poignant commentary on Hope Witsell's suicide
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-13
- My impressions on the new "sex-positive social network" Blackbox Republic
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-12
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-11
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-10
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-09
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-08
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-07
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-05
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-03
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-02
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-01
- ► November 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-11-30
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-24
- Sexual Adultism at KinkForAll Washington DC
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-16
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-15
- Online reputation management for sex bloggers; when a tweet won't do
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-14
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-13
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-12
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-11
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-10
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-09
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-08
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-07
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-05
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-03
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-02
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-01
- On Youth, Sexuality, Education, and Your Fears
- ► October 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-10-31
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-30
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-24
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-16
- My latest project: Kink On Tap is reinventing smart sexuality netcasts
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-15
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-14
- Don't you fret, sexism is alive and well in BDSM
- ► September 2009
- ► August 2009
- ► July 2009
- ► June 2009
- ► May 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-05-15
- Stalker update for 2009-05-15
- Stalker update for 2009-05-14
- Stalker update for 2009-05-13
- Stalker update for 2009-05-12
- Stalker update for 2009-05-11
- Stalker update for 2009-05-10
- Stalker update for 2009-05-09
- Stalker update for 2009-05-08
- Stalker update for 2009-05-07
- Stalker update for 2009-05-06
- Stalker update for 2009-05-05
- Stalker update for 2009-05-04
- Stalker update for 2009-05-03
- BDSM versus Kink: Nobody but your sex partner cares how you fuck
- Stalker update for 2009-05-02
- Stalker update for 2009-05-01
- An Extended Recording of KinkForAll on the MasoCast
- ► April 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-04-30
- Stalker update for 2009-04-29
- Stalker update for 2009-04-28
- Stalker update for 2009-04-27
- Stalker update for 2009-04-26
- Stalker update for 2009-04-25
- Stalker update for 2009-04-24
- Stalker update for 2009-04-23
- Stalker update for 2009-04-22
- Stalker update for 2009-04-21
- Stalker update for 2009-04-20
- Stalker update for 2009-04-19
- Stalker update for 2009-04-18
- Stalker update for 2009-04-17
- Stalker update for 2009-04-16
- Stalker update for 2009-04-15
- Stalker update for 2009-04-14
- Stalker update for 2009-04-13
- Stalker update for 2009-04-12
- Stalker update for 2009-04-11
- Stalker update for 2009-04-10
- Stalker update for 2009-04-09
- Stalker update for 2009-04-08
- Stalker update for 2009-04-07
- Stalker update for 2009-04-07
- Stalker update for 2009-04-06
- Stalker update for 2009-04-05
- Stalker update for 2009-04-04
- Stalker update for 2009-04-03
- Stalker update for 2009-04-02
- Stalker update for 2009-04-01
- Now I remember why I love and hate New York City's BDSM scene
- ► March 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-03-31
- Stalker update for 2009-03-30
- Stalker update for 2009-03-29
- Stalker update for 2009-03-28
- Stalker update for 2009-03-27
- Stalker update for 2009-03-26
- Stalker update for 2009-03-25
- Stalker update for 2009-03-24
- KinkForAll and the Evolution of Sexuality Communities
- Stalker update for 2009-03-23
- Stalker update for 2009-03-22
- Stalker update for 2009-03-21
- Stalker update for 2009-03-20
- Stalker update for 2009-03-19
- Stalker update for 2009-03-18
- Stalker update for 2009-03-17
- Stalker update for 2009-03-16
- Stalker update for 2009-03-15
- Stalker update for 2009-03-14
- Stalker update for 2009-03-13
- Stalker update for 2009-03-12
- Stalker update for 2009-03-11
- Stalker update for 2009-03-10
- KinkForAll New York City: Rest and Recovery and Then We Do It All Over Again
- Stalker update for 2009-03-09
- Stalker update for 2009-03-08
- Stalker update for 2009-03-07
- Stalker update for 2009-03-06
- Stalker update for 2009-03-05
- Stalker update for 2009-03-04
- Stalker update for 2009-03-03
- Stalker update for 2009-03-02
- Stalker update for 2009-03-01
- ► February 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-02-28
- Jane Says We're Quality and Original, So I Built Her A Plugin
- Stalker update for 2009-02-27
- 8 Things Submissive Men Want From A Dominant Partner
- Stalker update for 2009-02-26
- Stalker update for 2009-02-25
- Stalker update for 2009-02-24
- Stalker update for 2009-02-24
- Stalker update for 2009-02-23
- Stalker update for 2009-02-22
- Stalker update for 2009-02-21
- Stalker update for 2009-02-20
- Stalker update for 2009-02-19
- Stalker update for 2009-02-18
- ► 2008 (211)
- ► December 2008
- ► November 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-11-24
- Stalker update for 2008-11-23
- MaleSubmissionArt.com or Why I Am Crowdsourcing My Own Pornography
- Stalker update for 2008-11-14
- Stalker update for 2008-11-13
- Stalker update for 2008-11-11
- Stalker update for 2008-11-10
- Stalker update for 2008-11-09
- Stalker update for 2008-11-08
- Stalker update for 2008-11-07
- Stalker update for 2008-11-06
- Stalker update for 2008-11-05
- Stalker update for 2008-11-04
- Stalker update for 2008-11-03
- Stalker update for 2008-11-02
- Stalker update for 2008-11-01
- ► October 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-10-31
- Stalker update for 2008-10-30
- Being someone's fucktoy: Who's objectifying who?
- Stalker update for 2008-10-29
- Wednesday Wanderings: Gendered Semantic Web, Vulcan Sex, and more
- Stalker update for 2008-10-28
- Stalker update for 2008-10-27
- Stalker update for 2008-10-26
- Stalker update for 2008-10-25
- Equating passivity with sexual submissiveness is a stupid mistake
- Stalker update for 2008-10-24
- Stalker update for 2008-10-23
- Stalker update for 2008-10-22
- Stalker update for 2008-10-21
- I like feeling like a beginner again
- Stalker update for 2008-10-20
- Stalker update for 2008-10-19
- Stalker update for 2008-10-18
- Stalker update for 2008-10-17
- Stalker update for 2008-10-16
- Stalker update for 2008-10-15
- Stalker update for 2008-10-14
- Stalker update for 2008-10-13
- Stalker update for 2008-10-12
- Stalker update for 2008-10-11
- Stalker update for 2008-10-10
- Stalker update for 2008-10-09
- Stalker update for 2008-10-08
- Stalker update for 2008-10-07
- Stalker update for 2008-10-06
- Stalker update for 2008-10-05
- FetSpank This! WordPress Plugin submits your posts to FetSpank.com
- Stalker update for 2008-10-04
- Safely fucking anonymous johns with inspiration from TCP/IP
- Stalker update for 2008-10-03
- Stalker update for 2008-10-02
- Stalker update for 2008-10-01
- ► September 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-09-30
- Stalker update for 2008-09-29
- Stalker update for 2008-09-28
- Stalker update for 2008-09-27
- Stalker update for 2008-09-26
- Stalker update for 2008-09-25
- Stalker update for 2008-09-24
- Top Ten Tips for Long-Term Male Chastity Device Wear
- Stalker update for 2008-09-23
- Stalker update for 2008-09-22
- Insomnia and pleasant sexual frustration (no relation)
- Stalker update for 2008-09-21
- Stalker update for 2008-09-20
- Stalker update for 2008-09-19
- Stalker update for 2008-09-18
- Stalker update for 2008-09-17
- Stalker update for 2008-09-16
- My latest sex toy review and thoughts at day's end
- Stalker update for 2008-09-15
- Stalker update for 2008-09-14
- Stalker update for 2008-09-13
- An Un-Wednesday Wandering: So-Called "Top" 100 Sex Bloggers
- Stalker update for 2008-09-12
- Stalker update for 2008-09-11
- Stalker update for 2008-09-10
- Stalker update for 2008-09-09
- Stalker update for 2008-09-08
- Stalker update for 2008-09-07
- Stalker update for 2008-09-06
- Stalker update for 2008-09-05
- Stalker update for 2008-09-04
- Stalker update for 2008-09-03
- Stalker update for 2008-09-02
- Stalker update for 2008-09-01
- ► August 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-08-31
- Stalker update for 2008-08-30
- Stalker update for 2008-08-29
- Stalker update for 2008-08-28
- Stalker update for 2008-08-27
- Stalker update for 2008-08-26
- Stalker update for 2008-08-25
- Stalker update for 2008-08-24
- Stalker update for 2008-08-23
- Stalker update for 2008-08-22
- Stalker update for 2008-08-21
- Stalker update for 2008-08-20
- Stalker update for 2008-08-19
- Stalker update for 2008-08-18
- Stalker update for 2008-08-17
- Stalker update for 2008-08-16
- Stalker update for 2008-08-15
- Stalker update for 2008-08-14
- Stalker update for 2008-08-13
- Stalker update for 2008-08-12
- Stalker update for 2008-08-11
- Stalker update for 2008-08-10
- Stalker update for 2008-08-09
- Stalker update for 2008-08-08
- Stalker update for 2008-08-07
- Stalker update for 2008-08-06
- Stalker update for 2008-08-05
- Rocking the Boat. By which I mean I also enjoy a good facial
- Stalker update for 2008-08-04
- Stalker update for 2008-08-03
- Stalker update for 2008-08-02
- Stalker update for 2008-08-01
- Stale and stagnant, also whips
- ► July 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-07-31
- Stalker update for 2008-07-30
- Stalker update for 2008-07-29
- Stalker update for 2008-07-28
- Stalker update for 2008-07-27
- Stalker update for 2008-07-26
- Stalker update for 2008-07-25
- Stalker update for 2008-07-24
- Stalker update for 2008-07-23
- Stalker update for 2008-07-22
- Stalker update for 2008-07-21
- Stalker update for 2008-07-20
- Stalker update for 2008-07-19
- Stalker update for 2008-07-18
- Stalker update for 2008-07-17
- Stalker update for 2008-07-16
- Stalker update for 2008-07-15
- Stalker update for 2008-07-14
- Stalker update for 2008-07-13
- Stalker update for 2008-07-12
- Stalker update for 2008-07-11
- Stalker update for 2008-07-10
- Stalker update for 2008-07-09
- Stalker update for 2008-07-08
- This is not the post you're looking for
- Stalker update for 2008-07-07
- Stalker update for 2008-07-06
- Stalker update for 2008-07-05
- Stalker update for 2008-07-04
- Stalker update for 2008-07-03
- Stalker update for 2008-07-02
- Stalker update for 2008-07-01
- Stalker update for 2008-07-01
- ► June 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-06-30
- Stalker update for 2008-06-29
- Stalker update for 2008-06-28
- Stalker update for 2008-06-27
- Stalker update for 2008-06-26
- Stalker update for 2008-06-25
- Stalker update for 2008-06-24
- Young people into BDSM are not exceptional
- Stalker update for 2008-06-23
- Stalker update for 2008-06-22
- Stalker update for 2008-06-21
- Call for participation: Hyperfiction and Hypertextual Porn
- Stalker update for 2008-06-20
- Stalker update for 2008-06-19
- Stalker update for 2008-06-18
- Stalker update for 2008-06-17
- Stalker update for 2008-06-16
- Stalker update for 2008-06-15
- Stalker update for 2008-06-14
- Stalker update for 2008-06-13
- Stalker update for 2008-06-12
- Stalker update for 2008-06-11
- Stalker update for 2008-06-10
- Stalker update for 2008-06-09
- Sexism at Large in American Politics: Armed and Dangerous
- Stalker update for 2008-06-08
- Stalker update for 2008-06-07
- Stalker update for 2008-06-06
- Stalker update for 2008-06-05
- Stalker update for 2008-06-04
- Stalker update for 2008-06-03
- Stalker update for 2008-06-02
- Stalker update for 2008-06-01
- ► May 2008
- ► April 2008
- ► March 2008
- ► February 2008
- ► January 2008
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- Giving me wings
- The Selfish Highlight Reel: Rhode Island Fetish Flair Flea-market Recap
- Why Orgasm Logger? Well, why not?
- Wednesday Wanderings #9: Winds of Change
- Fantasy Worlds
- Because Submissive is an Orientation
- America's Sexual Sampler Platter: Everything but Me is on the Menu
- One thousand words
- Wednesday Wanderings #8: Mixed Visions for the New Year
- If this is 2008, then I don't have any resolutions
- ► 2007 (125)
- ► December 2007
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- The Sexism of Politeness
- It doesn't matter if she's got a brain when your dick is in her
- Three easy steps to meeting and playing with people in BDSM clubs
- Harlem, 2 AM, and Group Dynamics
- Merry Christmas, with picture presents!
- Unwelcome: The Emotional Effects of Social Injustice
- The boy next door is also bisexual
- The Sexism of Sex and Smarts
- Wednesday Wanderings: Welcome Back and Fond Farewell
- How an outdated view of masculinity ignores the needs of all men
- Fun with kissing
- We're all different: when sex isn't attractive
- Rope bondage video of the day
- Normal is anything but
- An Exemplar of Conservative Hypocrisy
- Nurture is stronger than you think
- 'Sexually uninhibited' is PC for 'slut'
- Love sex or fear god? That is the question.
- The rules of flirting are sexist and wrong
- Men and masks in porn
- Transgender Basics
- On Friends and Enemies
- Black Rose XX Recap: An Introduction
- ► November 2007
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- ► September 2007
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- Stupid, stupid gay tops are just as bad as other men and women
- When I'm not feeling submissive
- Orgasm Logger source code available
- Hardware rearrangements cause Orgasm Logger to come down
- How not to fuck up a D/s relationship
- Sex is nice and porn is good for your society
- And now for something completely different
- Sex and Technology: How technological innovation pushes the boundaries of human sexuality and vice versa
- ► August 2007
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- Flying, the kinky sex orgasm, and the lack thereof
- What almost everybody else doesn't get about bisexuality
- The kink culture of fear
- A moment
- Orgasm Logger is down but I'm in Jersey
- Kink on Tap 7: Tom Allen
- Kink on Tap 6: Sexual Teasing and Denial
- I want to be a pretty boy
- What every big sexuality community web site does wrong
- More men need to cry on the big porn screen
- Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
- The first blowjob I've ever bottomed to
- What sexuality might taste like if you were a submissive man in 2007
- Real Ultimate Male Chastity
- Your fantasy is not reality, and you should know better
- ► July 2007
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- The case against supremacy
- How to make my space bigger
- There is so little space for me
- Aneros Helix Sex Toy Review
- Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)
- Where's the pain?
- Don't be nice
- (Off Topic) Meme: Random Seven
- Changes are no good, or whatever
- Kink on Tap 5: Bitchy Jones
- Kink on Tap 4: Conversio Virium
- ► June 2007
- ► May 2007
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- Thoughts on extended scenes and play headspaces
- Professional Domination is actually Professional, remember?
- Sex Services versus Sex Products
- Kink on Tap 3: Porn and Prejudice
- Kink on Tap 1 and 2: The Big Hard Cock, Kink in Culture
- Intoxicants in (and as) BDSM
- Everyone's a little bit selfish sometimes
- Once in 48 days
- A Truly Belated Wednesday Wanderings
- The Truth About Anonymity
- ► April 2007
- ► March 2007
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- Whips and chains may break my bones but words will always hurt more
- On the wonderfulness of thongs and chastity devices
- Marching on: Wednesday Wanderings
- Is submissive intent influenced by orgasms?
- Thoughts and fantasies on guided masturbation
- Wednesday Wanderings for March 21st
- Abandoned, accidental orgasm
- Anticipation in teasing
- Ecstagony's article on safety risks for face slapping play
- Face slapping and my many reactions to it
- Theory: Why subs write more than dom(me)s
- This Week's Wednesday Wandering
- The difference money makes
- Tell me I'm yours and tell me I'm good
- New erotica: Good boy, good pet
- I get off on unfairness
- Avoiding the orgasmic let down by avoiding responsibility?
- BDSM as an emotional sexuality all its own
- First Weekly Wednesday Wandering
- Feminization as the perfect creation
- Strap on vanilla sex and emotions in D/s sex
- Is it possible for a submissive to ever be truly polyamorous?
- Feeling well-trained is emotionally satisfying
- The body as our canvas for expression
- Homeostasis, conditioning, and orgasm denial
- Teasing and denial: you kind of need both parts
- Male chastity devices available today suck
- Is there such a thing as regular sex?
- ► February 2007
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- The psychology of conditioning in a D/s relationship
- Breathing as a sexual teasing technique
- Finally a take on D/s that rings true for me
- Does this mean I'm an erotica writer now?
- Teasing, Denial, and Orgasm Control Games on Erotic Humiliation
- Stream of consciousness on BDSM 101
- Ramblings of a boy with a fetish for orgasm control
- Trading for (some) anonymity and publicity
- ► 2010 (29)
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