- Lazy days can be a luxury worth indulging in. Strangely, I did wake from a bad dream in which my boyfriend died from an allergy to chicpeas. #
- I have lots of trouble staying put. If my body isn't active, my brain has to be. I get antsy & frustrated if I'm not experiencing something. #
- @ASimon89 I watch #videos at http://TED.com to keep myself engaged. Some think my inability to turn off is a curse. I think it's a blessing. in reply to ASimon89 #
- I never really "hung out" cuz there's nothing innately interesting about anyone to me. You need to prove yourself worthwhile for me to care. #
- @jamesbcarp Ooh, maybe? I get back on Saturday so Sunday Go is a possibility. But my new 9-5 routine might mean I need to reevaluate timing. in reply to jamesbcarp #
- @ASimon89 I can often find interesting things about uninteresting people, but I don't care about THEM, only their interesting properties. :) in reply to ASimon89 #
- @RevDebra You're not. "Black Friday" is a classic case of horrendous #usability. It's a phrase only producers, not consumers, care about. :\ in reply to RevDebra #
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KinkForAll is an ad-hoc unconference on sexuality for anyone and everyone. Anyone with the desire to learn in an open environment or with something to contribute is welcome and invited to participate.
Hear me, hear me!
Audience participation
- What We’re Expected to Be « beyond the hills on Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
- Submissive Desirability, Power, and the Silent Majority « beyond the hills on What will it take for the silent majority to speak up?
- Nancy Green on Dissecting Decontextualization: Donna M. Hughes’ Happy Endings?
- It might be just this « Pandora's Kinky box on Don’t be nice
- Kink On Tap » Blog Archive » Sex and Censorship: What Recent Attacks on Online Sex Discussions Have to Do With Your Blog | BlogHer on Addressing Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks’ concerns over KinkForAll unconferences
- Kink On Tap » Blog Archive » Sex and Censorship: What Recent Attacks on Online Sex Discussions Have to Do With Your Blog | BlogHer on Anti-porn is pro-censorship, even if they say they’re not
- Josh on You know I’m angry; let me tell you why
- Comment For Maymay | Lady Lubyanka on A primatologist’s suggestions for happier orgasm control
- mswyrr on MaleSubmissionArt.com
- Kink On Tap » Blog Archive » Judge lifts Prop. 8 stay – gay marriages on hold on Certain Unalienable Rights: Freedom of Expression and Sexuality in the Name of Liberty
Fresh off the Grill…
- Playing electric Pacman @HarlotSF & hanging w/@SarahDopp @JizLee @SeanColombo @SevereBass @nviow @Im_Jon. I'm the high scorer. ;) Woot woot! 3 hrs ago
- Setting up for tonight's Forrplay party @HarlotSF w/ @KinkOnTap. Nice venue. Stop by btw 9 & 10:30 to take advantage of free drink specials. 5 hrs ago
- Wish I could stay to listen to #Tummel more. @KevinMarks talking about #Identi ca & #OStatus w/r/t #Diaspora I'll get the podcast later. :) 8 hrs ago
- Tuning into the live #Tummel Vision at http://tummelvision.tv to hear @heathr, @KevinMarks, @debs speak w/@marshallk about #culture & #tech 8 hrs ago
- Just saw an AdWords ad: "Don't Hire a #Prostitute Meet women in California who want an #affair Join 100% Free." Who's pimping what now? :( 8 hrs ago
- More updates...
Kink On Tap Community Links Feed- NathanielBarnes: Ultra conservative, anti-porn, Australian politicians caught browsing TONS of porn at work: http://bit.ly/bQhnGvNathanielBarnes: Ultra conservative, anti-porn, Australian politicians caught browsing TONS of porn at work: http://bit.ly/bQhnGv […]
- Apple Hides Prop 8 Tweets from Lady Gaga Promo Page for Ping (Screenshots)Apple, Inc. recently launched a new social music service, Ping. Among the features it has is social media integration that lets you view celebrity Twitter streams. In the launch, "Apple's promotional image for the new feature conveniently omits a string of Tweets from Lady Gaga's timeline in which she protests anti-gay marriage legislation Pro […]
- Sex, like fine wine, improves with age, seniors say"One of the greatest myths of our society is that when you get to a certain age you are no longer sexual," says Jim Deva, a 60 year old gay man. This is a really heartwarming story from a Canadian GLBT site about elders who enjoy sex. That's awesome. […]
- RicciLevy: Young Ladies Like Oral Sex, But That Doesn't Make Them Slutty, Thank You Very Much http://bit.ly/8YX1TxRicciLevy: Young Ladies Like Oral Sex, But That Doesn't Make Them Slutty, Thank You Very Much http://bit.ly/8YX1Tx […]
- RicciLevy: http://bit.ly/cn34r0 Right wing utopia: gays can't marry and straights can't divorceRicciLevy: http://bit.ly/cn34r0 Right wing utopia: gays can't marry and straights can't divorce […]
- NathanielBarnes: Ultra conservative, anti-porn, Australian politicians caught browsing TONS of porn at work: http://bit.ly/bQhnGv
Interesting Tidbits from Others- BreakingNews: Family in Israel accused of kidnapping gay relative after finding pictures of him in drag on Facebook http://bit.ly/bRqkOT
- melissaditmore: 6 indicted in alleged human trafficking ring that exploited 400 Thai workers in Hawaii - FBI http://bit.ly/c3BLCe
- NCSF: “Canceled Swingers Convention Gets Tall City Neighbors Talking” http://bit.ly/cuwMl2 / VIDEO (via @newswest9)
- senaytweets: Cleanliness linked to moral judgment http://t.co/clFCTAq #anti-porn #morality #immoral
- sexgenderbody: The Other Bi: Bigender : http://ff.im/-q5qec
- sexgenderbody: Bisexuality And The ‘Ex-Gay’ Industry http://ff.im/-q5ncA
- DrMartyKlein: Science now makes it clear: Children of gay couples do as well in school as children of straight couples. http://alturl.com/h5t7y
- sexgenderbody: Katrina Anniversary: A Look at the Effects of Crisis on the Queer Population http://ff.im/-q5gFq
- luxnightmare: At long last, members of the itty bitty titty committee can spend exorbitant amounts of money on bras they don't need: http://nyti.ms/dblVQR
- BreakingNews: Swedish prosecutor reopens rape investigation against WikiLeaks founder Julian Assange - AP http://bit.ly/9PzFJg
Latest from MaleSubmissionArt.com

Bound with rope at the wrists and ankles, a naked man lays limp in the arms of a larger woman who holds him by his waist and collar high above her head.
Here’s a captivating image, suggested by Pimmie, who wrote:
I have a picture for you by the Dutch photographer Erwin Olaf called Powerlifting.
I love the little details in this artwork, like the placing of the woman’s hands. She holds the man’s weight up on two very vulnerable spots on his body. Her dominance speaks from the look on her face alone. And I love her body shape in this context; a powerful stance on delicate shoes. [I love t]he surrender in the man’s pose.
The overall impression of this picture, for me, is of a woman showing her prey or catch.
“Surrender” is so often linked with failure or loss, things that are in turn associated with negative connotations of “submission.” But surrender is also, and simply, the cessation of resistance. It can be an act of acceptance or an embrace; not a failure to assert, but an action motivated by the desire to explore or, sometimes, to relax.
Compositionally, I’m conflicted about posting this image here because the subject is ambiguous; is the photo more about her, or him? Ultimately, of course, they both contribute to it. Interestingly, according to Wikipedia,
one of [Erwin Olaf’s] early photographs was once expelled from a show on the basis of not containing nudity.
Clearly, any criteria may always cut both ways.
Events of potential interest (back in New York City)-
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- ► 2010 (133)
- ► August 2010
- ► July 2010
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- Anti-porn is pro-censorship, even if they say they're not
- What will it take for the silent majority to speak up?
- Stalker Update for 2010-08-01
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-12
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-11
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-10
- A primatologist's suggestions for happier orgasm control
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-09
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-06
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-05
- ► June 2010
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- KinkForAll versus Stop Porn Culture: guess who's filthier!
- Stalker Update for 2010-07-04
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-22
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-21
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-20
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-19
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-17
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-15
- Stalker Update for 2010-06-14
- ► May 2010
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- Stalker Update for 2010-06-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-28
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-26
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-25
- Edenfantasys's unethical technology is a self-referential black hole
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-24
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-15
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-14
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-12
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-11
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-10
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-09
- On the Importance and Lack Thereof of Sexual Intercourse
- Certain Unalienable Rights: Freedom of Expression and Sexuality in the Name of Liberty
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-06
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-05
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-04
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-03
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-02
- Stalker Update for 2010-05-01
- ► April 2010
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- Yes, men can be feminist leaders.
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-30
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-29
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-28
- Femquake Fallout: Feminism, the Internet and Boobquake (and Brainquake)
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-27
- Femquaker: Shanna Katz, Sex-Positive Sexuality Educator
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-26
- Breasts AND brains are good for humanity & deserve respect! Introducing: Femquake
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-25
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-24
- Free and Open to the Public Panel at Brown University: When Educators Are Censors (May 4th)
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-23
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-19
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-17
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-04-15
- My opinions on youth at KinkForAll unconferences
- Stand Against Stigma: Don't Succumb to a Fear of Sex, Sexual Speech, or Sexual Freedom
- ► March 2010
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- Stalker Update for 2010-04-14
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-31
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-30
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-29
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-28
- Addressing Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks' concerns over KinkForAll unconferences
- The Salvation Army incites personal attacks against me; a blog reply
- Community Organizing for Great Justice!
- I celebrated KinkForAll's 1 year anniversary on the radio!
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-06
- Orgasm Denial Does Not Submissive Men Make
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-05
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-04
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-03
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-02
- Stalker Update for 2010-03-01
- ► February 2010
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- Stalker Update for 2010-02-28
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-26
- Open Thread: When Educators Are Censors
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-25
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-22
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-21
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-20
- Announcing Sex Education Everywhere: Because We Learn More Than What They Teach
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-19
- On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me - KinkForAll Providence
- Celebrate Sexual Freedom in Rhode Island! Come to KinkForAll Providence!
- Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial Compensation
- ► January 2010
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- On Talking to Children and Adolescents about BDSM and Sex
- Stalker Update for 2010-02-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-27
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-26
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-25
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-24
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-23
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-22
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-21
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-20
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-19
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-18
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-17
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-16
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-15
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-14
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-13
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-12
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-11
- The Internet made me a sexual freedom activist in 2009. Now it's your turn.
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-10
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-09
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-08
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-07
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-06
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-05
- Stalker Update for 2010-01-04
- ► 2009 (188)
- ► December 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-12-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-24
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-16
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-15
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-14
- Please read poignant commentary on Hope Witsell's suicide
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-13
- My impressions on the new "sex-positive social network" Blackbox Republic
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-12
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-11
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-10
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-09
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-08
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-07
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-05
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-03
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-02
- Stalker Update for 2009-12-01
- ► November 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-11-30
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-24
- Sexual Adultism at KinkForAll Washington DC
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-16
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-15
- Online reputation management for sex bloggers; when a tweet won't do
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-14
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-13
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-12
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-11
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-10
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-09
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-08
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-07
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-06
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-05
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-04
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-03
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-02
- Stalker Update for 2009-11-01
- On Youth, Sexuality, Education, and Your Fears
- ► October 2009
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- Stalker Update for 2009-10-31
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-30
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-29
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-28
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-27
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-26
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-25
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-24
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-23
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-22
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-21
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-20
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-19
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-18
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-17
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-16
- My latest project: Kink On Tap is reinventing smart sexuality netcasts
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-15
- Stalker Update for 2009-10-14
- Don't you fret, sexism is alive and well in BDSM
- ► September 2009
- ► August 2009
- ► July 2009
- ► June 2009
- ► May 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-05-15
- Stalker update for 2009-05-15
- Stalker update for 2009-05-14
- Stalker update for 2009-05-13
- Stalker update for 2009-05-12
- Stalker update for 2009-05-11
- Stalker update for 2009-05-10
- Stalker update for 2009-05-09
- Stalker update for 2009-05-08
- Stalker update for 2009-05-07
- Stalker update for 2009-05-06
- Stalker update for 2009-05-05
- Stalker update for 2009-05-04
- Stalker update for 2009-05-03
- BDSM versus Kink: Nobody but your sex partner cares how you fuck
- Stalker update for 2009-05-02
- Stalker update for 2009-05-01
- An Extended Recording of KinkForAll on the MasoCast
- ► April 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-04-30
- Stalker update for 2009-04-29
- Stalker update for 2009-04-28
- Stalker update for 2009-04-27
- Stalker update for 2009-04-26
- Stalker update for 2009-04-25
- Stalker update for 2009-04-24
- Stalker update for 2009-04-23
- Stalker update for 2009-04-22
- Stalker update for 2009-04-21
- Stalker update for 2009-04-20
- Stalker update for 2009-04-19
- Stalker update for 2009-04-18
- Stalker update for 2009-04-17
- Stalker update for 2009-04-16
- Stalker update for 2009-04-15
- Stalker update for 2009-04-14
- Stalker update for 2009-04-13
- Stalker update for 2009-04-12
- Stalker update for 2009-04-11
- Stalker update for 2009-04-10
- Stalker update for 2009-04-09
- Stalker update for 2009-04-08
- Stalker update for 2009-04-07
- Stalker update for 2009-04-07
- Stalker update for 2009-04-06
- Stalker update for 2009-04-05
- Stalker update for 2009-04-04
- Stalker update for 2009-04-03
- Stalker update for 2009-04-02
- Stalker update for 2009-04-01
- Now I remember why I love and hate New York City's BDSM scene
- ► March 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-03-31
- Stalker update for 2009-03-30
- Stalker update for 2009-03-29
- Stalker update for 2009-03-28
- Stalker update for 2009-03-27
- Stalker update for 2009-03-26
- Stalker update for 2009-03-25
- Stalker update for 2009-03-24
- KinkForAll and the Evolution of Sexuality Communities
- Stalker update for 2009-03-23
- Stalker update for 2009-03-22
- Stalker update for 2009-03-21
- Stalker update for 2009-03-20
- Stalker update for 2009-03-19
- Stalker update for 2009-03-18
- Stalker update for 2009-03-17
- Stalker update for 2009-03-16
- Stalker update for 2009-03-15
- Stalker update for 2009-03-14
- Stalker update for 2009-03-13
- Stalker update for 2009-03-12
- Stalker update for 2009-03-11
- Stalker update for 2009-03-10
- KinkForAll New York City: Rest and Recovery and Then We Do It All Over Again
- Stalker update for 2009-03-09
- Stalker update for 2009-03-08
- Stalker update for 2009-03-07
- Stalker update for 2009-03-06
- Stalker update for 2009-03-05
- Stalker update for 2009-03-04
- Stalker update for 2009-03-03
- Stalker update for 2009-03-02
- Stalker update for 2009-03-01
- ► February 2009
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- Stalker update for 2009-02-28
- Jane Says We're Quality and Original, So I Built Her A Plugin
- Stalker update for 2009-02-27
- 8 Things Submissive Men Want From A Dominant Partner
- Stalker update for 2009-02-26
- Stalker update for 2009-02-25
- Stalker update for 2009-02-24
- Stalker update for 2009-02-24
- Stalker update for 2009-02-23
- Stalker update for 2009-02-22
- Stalker update for 2009-02-21
- Stalker update for 2009-02-20
- Stalker update for 2009-02-19
- Stalker update for 2009-02-18
- ► 2008 (211)
- ► December 2008
- ► November 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-11-24
- Stalker update for 2008-11-23
- MaleSubmissionArt.com or Why I Am Crowdsourcing My Own Pornography
- Stalker update for 2008-11-14
- Stalker update for 2008-11-13
- Stalker update for 2008-11-11
- Stalker update for 2008-11-10
- Stalker update for 2008-11-09
- Stalker update for 2008-11-08
- Stalker update for 2008-11-07
- Stalker update for 2008-11-06
- Stalker update for 2008-11-05
- Stalker update for 2008-11-04
- Stalker update for 2008-11-03
- Stalker update for 2008-11-02
- Stalker update for 2008-11-01
- ► October 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-10-31
- Stalker update for 2008-10-30
- Being someone's fucktoy: Who's objectifying who?
- Stalker update for 2008-10-29
- Wednesday Wanderings: Gendered Semantic Web, Vulcan Sex, and more
- Stalker update for 2008-10-28
- Stalker update for 2008-10-27
- Stalker update for 2008-10-26
- Stalker update for 2008-10-25
- Equating passivity with sexual submissiveness is a stupid mistake
- Stalker update for 2008-10-24
- Stalker update for 2008-10-23
- Stalker update for 2008-10-22
- Stalker update for 2008-10-21
- I like feeling like a beginner again
- Stalker update for 2008-10-20
- Stalker update for 2008-10-19
- Stalker update for 2008-10-18
- Stalker update for 2008-10-17
- Stalker update for 2008-10-16
- Stalker update for 2008-10-15
- Stalker update for 2008-10-14
- Stalker update for 2008-10-13
- Stalker update for 2008-10-12
- Stalker update for 2008-10-11
- Stalker update for 2008-10-10
- Stalker update for 2008-10-09
- Stalker update for 2008-10-08
- Stalker update for 2008-10-07
- Stalker update for 2008-10-06
- Stalker update for 2008-10-05
- FetSpank This! WordPress Plugin submits your posts to FetSpank.com
- Stalker update for 2008-10-04
- Safely fucking anonymous johns with inspiration from TCP/IP
- Stalker update for 2008-10-03
- Stalker update for 2008-10-02
- Stalker update for 2008-10-01
- ► September 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-09-30
- Stalker update for 2008-09-29
- Stalker update for 2008-09-28
- Stalker update for 2008-09-27
- Stalker update for 2008-09-26
- Stalker update for 2008-09-25
- Stalker update for 2008-09-24
- Top Ten Tips for Long-Term Male Chastity Device Wear
- Stalker update for 2008-09-23
- Stalker update for 2008-09-22
- Insomnia and pleasant sexual frustration (no relation)
- Stalker update for 2008-09-21
- Stalker update for 2008-09-20
- Stalker update for 2008-09-19
- Stalker update for 2008-09-18
- Stalker update for 2008-09-17
- Stalker update for 2008-09-16
- My latest sex toy review and thoughts at day's end
- Stalker update for 2008-09-15
- Stalker update for 2008-09-14
- Stalker update for 2008-09-13
- An Un-Wednesday Wandering: So-Called "Top" 100 Sex Bloggers
- Stalker update for 2008-09-12
- Stalker update for 2008-09-11
- Stalker update for 2008-09-10
- Stalker update for 2008-09-09
- Stalker update for 2008-09-08
- Stalker update for 2008-09-07
- Stalker update for 2008-09-06
- Stalker update for 2008-09-05
- Stalker update for 2008-09-04
- Stalker update for 2008-09-03
- Stalker update for 2008-09-02
- Stalker update for 2008-09-01
- ► August 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-08-31
- Stalker update for 2008-08-30
- Stalker update for 2008-08-29
- Stalker update for 2008-08-28
- Stalker update for 2008-08-27
- Stalker update for 2008-08-26
- Stalker update for 2008-08-25
- Stalker update for 2008-08-24
- Stalker update for 2008-08-23
- Stalker update for 2008-08-22
- Stalker update for 2008-08-21
- Stalker update for 2008-08-20
- Stalker update for 2008-08-19
- Stalker update for 2008-08-18
- Stalker update for 2008-08-17
- Stalker update for 2008-08-16
- Stalker update for 2008-08-15
- Stalker update for 2008-08-14
- Stalker update for 2008-08-13
- Stalker update for 2008-08-12
- Stalker update for 2008-08-11
- Stalker update for 2008-08-10
- Stalker update for 2008-08-09
- Stalker update for 2008-08-08
- Stalker update for 2008-08-07
- Stalker update for 2008-08-06
- Stalker update for 2008-08-05
- Rocking the Boat. By which I mean I also enjoy a good facial
- Stalker update for 2008-08-04
- Stalker update for 2008-08-03
- Stalker update for 2008-08-02
- Stalker update for 2008-08-01
- Stale and stagnant, also whips
- ► July 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-07-31
- Stalker update for 2008-07-30
- Stalker update for 2008-07-29
- Stalker update for 2008-07-28
- Stalker update for 2008-07-27
- Stalker update for 2008-07-26
- Stalker update for 2008-07-25
- Stalker update for 2008-07-24
- Stalker update for 2008-07-23
- Stalker update for 2008-07-22
- Stalker update for 2008-07-21
- Stalker update for 2008-07-20
- Stalker update for 2008-07-19
- Stalker update for 2008-07-18
- Stalker update for 2008-07-17
- Stalker update for 2008-07-16
- Stalker update for 2008-07-15
- Stalker update for 2008-07-14
- Stalker update for 2008-07-13
- Stalker update for 2008-07-12
- Stalker update for 2008-07-11
- Stalker update for 2008-07-10
- Stalker update for 2008-07-09
- Stalker update for 2008-07-08
- This is not the post you're looking for
- Stalker update for 2008-07-07
- Stalker update for 2008-07-06
- Stalker update for 2008-07-05
- Stalker update for 2008-07-04
- Stalker update for 2008-07-03
- Stalker update for 2008-07-02
- Stalker update for 2008-07-01
- Stalker update for 2008-07-01
- ► June 2008
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- Stalker update for 2008-06-30
- Stalker update for 2008-06-29
- Stalker update for 2008-06-28
- Stalker update for 2008-06-27
- Stalker update for 2008-06-26
- Stalker update for 2008-06-25
- Stalker update for 2008-06-24
- Young people into BDSM are not exceptional
- Stalker update for 2008-06-23
- Stalker update for 2008-06-22
- Stalker update for 2008-06-21
- Call for participation: Hyperfiction and Hypertextual Porn
- Stalker update for 2008-06-20
- Stalker update for 2008-06-19
- Stalker update for 2008-06-18
- Stalker update for 2008-06-17
- Stalker update for 2008-06-16
- Stalker update for 2008-06-15
- Stalker update for 2008-06-14
- Stalker update for 2008-06-13
- Stalker update for 2008-06-12
- Stalker update for 2008-06-11
- Stalker update for 2008-06-10
- Stalker update for 2008-06-09
- Sexism at Large in American Politics: Armed and Dangerous
- Stalker update for 2008-06-08
- Stalker update for 2008-06-07
- Stalker update for 2008-06-06
- Stalker update for 2008-06-05
- Stalker update for 2008-06-04
- Stalker update for 2008-06-03
- Stalker update for 2008-06-02
- Stalker update for 2008-06-01
- ► May 2008
- ► April 2008
- ► March 2008
- ► February 2008
- ► January 2008
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- Giving me wings
- The Selfish Highlight Reel: Rhode Island Fetish Flair Flea-market Recap
- Why Orgasm Logger? Well, why not?
- Wednesday Wanderings #9: Winds of Change
- Fantasy Worlds
- Because Submissive is an Orientation
- America's Sexual Sampler Platter: Everything but Me is on the Menu
- One thousand words
- Wednesday Wanderings #8: Mixed Visions for the New Year
- If this is 2008, then I don't have any resolutions
- ► 2007 (125)
- ► December 2007
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- The Sexism of Politeness
- It doesn't matter if she's got a brain when your dick is in her
- Three easy steps to meeting and playing with people in BDSM clubs
- Harlem, 2 AM, and Group Dynamics
- Merry Christmas, with picture presents!
- Unwelcome: The Emotional Effects of Social Injustice
- The boy next door is also bisexual
- The Sexism of Sex and Smarts
- Wednesday Wanderings: Welcome Back and Fond Farewell
- How an outdated view of masculinity ignores the needs of all men
- Fun with kissing
- We're all different: when sex isn't attractive
- Rope bondage video of the day
- Normal is anything but
- An Exemplar of Conservative Hypocrisy
- Nurture is stronger than you think
- 'Sexually uninhibited' is PC for 'slut'
- Love sex or fear god? That is the question.
- The rules of flirting are sexist and wrong
- Men and masks in porn
- Transgender Basics
- On Friends and Enemies
- Black Rose XX Recap: An Introduction
- ► November 2007
- ► October 2007
- ► September 2007
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- Stupid, stupid gay tops are just as bad as other men and women
- When I'm not feeling submissive
- Orgasm Logger source code available
- Hardware rearrangements cause Orgasm Logger to come down
- How not to fuck up a D/s relationship
- Sex is nice and porn is good for your society
- And now for something completely different
- Sex and Technology: How technological innovation pushes the boundaries of human sexuality and vice versa
- ► August 2007
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- Flying, the kinky sex orgasm, and the lack thereof
- What almost everybody else doesn't get about bisexuality
- The kink culture of fear
- A moment
- Orgasm Logger is down but I'm in Jersey
- Kink on Tap 7: Tom Allen
- Kink on Tap 6: Sexual Teasing and Denial
- I want to be a pretty boy
- What every big sexuality community web site does wrong
- More men need to cry on the big porn screen
- Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
- The first blowjob I've ever bottomed to
- What sexuality might taste like if you were a submissive man in 2007
- Real Ultimate Male Chastity
- Your fantasy is not reality, and you should know better
- ► July 2007
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- The case against supremacy
- How to make my space bigger
- There is so little space for me
- Aneros Helix Sex Toy Review
- Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)
- Where's the pain?
- Don't be nice
- (Off Topic) Meme: Random Seven
- Changes are no good, or whatever
- Kink on Tap 5: Bitchy Jones
- Kink on Tap 4: Conversio Virium
- ► June 2007
- ► May 2007
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- Thoughts on extended scenes and play headspaces
- Professional Domination is actually Professional, remember?
- Sex Services versus Sex Products
- Kink on Tap 3: Porn and Prejudice
- Kink on Tap 1 and 2: The Big Hard Cock, Kink in Culture
- Intoxicants in (and as) BDSM
- Everyone's a little bit selfish sometimes
- Once in 48 days
- A Truly Belated Wednesday Wanderings
- The Truth About Anonymity
- ► April 2007
- ► March 2007
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- Whips and chains may break my bones but words will always hurt more
- On the wonderfulness of thongs and chastity devices
- Marching on: Wednesday Wanderings
- Is submissive intent influenced by orgasms?
- Thoughts and fantasies on guided masturbation
- Wednesday Wanderings for March 21st
- Abandoned, accidental orgasm
- Anticipation in teasing
- Ecstagony's article on safety risks for face slapping play
- Face slapping and my many reactions to it
- Theory: Why subs write more than dom(me)s
- This Week's Wednesday Wandering
- The difference money makes
- Tell me I'm yours and tell me I'm good
- New erotica: Good boy, good pet
- I get off on unfairness
- Avoiding the orgasmic let down by avoiding responsibility?
- BDSM as an emotional sexuality all its own
- First Weekly Wednesday Wandering
- Feminization as the perfect creation
- Strap on vanilla sex and emotions in D/s sex
- Is it possible for a submissive to ever be truly polyamorous?
- Feeling well-trained is emotionally satisfying
- The body as our canvas for expression
- Homeostasis, conditioning, and orgasm denial
- Teasing and denial: you kind of need both parts
- Male chastity devices available today suck
- Is there such a thing as regular sex?
- ► February 2007
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- The psychology of conditioning in a D/s relationship
- Breathing as a sexual teasing technique
- Finally a take on D/s that rings true for me
- Does this mean I'm an erotica writer now?
- Teasing, Denial, and Orgasm Control Games on Erotic Humiliation
- Stream of consciousness on BDSM 101
- Ramblings of a boy with a fetish for orgasm control
- Trading for (some) anonymity and publicity
- ► 2010 (133)
Stuff I have opinions about
- Altered States and Headspaces (5)
- BDSM in the media (26)
- BDSM psychology (58)
- BDSM safety (12)
- BDSM techniques (11)
- BDSM terminology (6)
- Beginner BDSM (22)
- Bisexuality (10)
- Bitter and jealous (13)
- Blowjobs (3)
- Bondage (6)
- Chastity/Orgasm denial (35)
- Cock and ball torture (CBT) (4)
- Communication (32)
- Community (58)
- Cuckolding (4)
- D/s dynamics (53)
- Emotions (37)
- Erotic hypnosis (1)
- Erotica and pornography (14)
- Exhibitionism (4)
- Faceslapping (5)
- Fantasy (10)
- Femdom (49)
- Feminization and cross-dressing (5)
- Fetish (12)
- Foot worship (3)
- Gender fluidity (12)
- Generation gap (10)
- Humor (6)
- Kink events (27)
- Kink on Tap (7)
- Knife play (4)
- Male sexuality (29)
- Marks (7)
- Masculinity (17)
- Masochism (9)
- Masturbation (7)
- Myths and misconceptions (41)
- Orgasm Logger (5)
- Personal experience (60)
- Personal history (15)
- Pet play (1)
- Pic Post (7)
- Politics of sex (63)
- Polyamory (7)
- Professional BDSM (12)
- Puppy play (3)
- Rant (10)
- Relationship (26)
- Religious Evil (3)
- Reviews (6)
- Satire (1)
- Sex (39)
- Sex toys (10)
- Sexism (20)
- Sexual teasing and control (27)
- Spanking and paddling (3)
- Strap-ons and dildos (6)
- Stupid dominants (9)
- Stupid submissives (11)
- Technology (29)
- Torture and abuse (1)
- Training/Conditioning (6)
- Uncategorized (447)
- Vanilla life (62)
- Wednesday Wanderings (14)
- Whipping (9)
- Writing and blogging (35)
Random bits of interest- Cross-post: Edenfantasys’s unethical technology is a self-referential black hole
- What if the Ten Commandments were affirmative instead of negative?
- Cross-post: Announcing Sex Education Everywhere: Because We Learn More Than What They Teach
- What Kind of World
- Crosspost: My impressions on the new “sex-positive social network” Blackbox Republic
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