Comments on: The Internet made me a sexual freedom activist in 2009. Now it’s your turn.

By: Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed › On the Importance and Lack Thereof of Sexual Intercourse

Sun, 09 May 2010 02:08:39 +0000

[...] change. I’ve written about much of this change, from my shifting professional aspirations, to my blossoming activism, to my personal struggles. But one thing I almost totally stopped writing about ever since Eileen [...]

By: kage

kage — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 22:34:17 +0000

maymay, I found your blog through a link on livejournal to “male submission art.” In the past few days I’ve been reading bits of your blog and enjoying it very much. It feels like a big revelation about something, though I’m still figuring out what… Your honesty makes so much other writing about sex just seem like posing and obfuscation; I also really like your point that male submission can be beautiful and sexy, and that the sub is strong. I’m so tired of reading M/F stuff where the man is always strong, always in charge. I’m so tired of spanking sites with bland daddy figures spanking nubile young women. I want things to cut both ways, in the sense of both figures being sexualized and not just one. I feel that the way you write reveals possibilities for people to live who they are, rather than to fit into prewritten narratives.

You and Eileen do some stuff I’d find too scary, but in a way that gives you even more credibility as you write about the world of BDSM.

It is also great to read someone who is connected to their sensual side and who is also so thoughtful and insightful. I am a sensualist myself and it seems that the most visible models out there are either people who present themselves as all body, in a kind of packaged way, or people who eschew physicality and live for the mind alone. Thank you for being a philosophical sensualist.

By: samos

samos — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:55:55 +0000

“guy tied up” at about 5 July is NOT ‘upside down’ but in the best position for REAL ‘deepthroat’… think about the anatomical implication and remember (hopefully not) your last ‘intubation’…

Really great site that I [here in Berlin] and a total slave NOT ‘submissive’ for 60 years, architect and artist/collector, have rarely if ever found: the combination of sensitivity with eroticism. Many thanks!

By: Alisa

Alisa — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 04:14:22 +0000

Grrr. CSC seems to be allergic to updating their online calendar so I’m reading this now on Wednesday wishing I could have made it. Anyway, you’ve been living in this city for a year and I’ve seen you, what, once? The Jewish guilt tripping and promises of home made cookies will continue until I get to hang out with you :-p

I actually have a ton of things in my head I’m dying to bounce off of you so drop me a line.

By: Emily

Emily — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 05:19:34 +0000

Sigh. Maymay, you inspire me to be a better person than I am.

By: Beka

Beka — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:09:19 +0000

You consistently make me wish I lived on the west coast – I was so close to San Fran once upon a time (lived for sixish months in San Mateo), but New York’s a wee bit far away.