Archive for the ‘Bitter and jealous’ Category
It’s not changing the world that’s hard
13 Oct 2010 at 02:40
maymay
Bitter and jealous, Community, Emotions, Male sexuality, Masculinity, My Videos, Personal experience, Politics of sex
There Is No BDSM Mecca
18 Aug 2009 at 18:47
maymay
Bitter and jealous, Community, Kink events, Personal experience, Stupid dominants, Stupid submissives
In the past month-and-a-bit, I’ve touched down in San Francisco, found a studio apartment to rent, and began looking for some kind of employment. (I’m still looking, actually.) My first BDSM event was a “Peer Rope Workshop” at the SF Citadel that Fivestar, an amazingly talented rigger and self-bondage enthusiast, alerted me to. Amid the [...]
Now I remember why I love and hate New York City’s BDSM scene
01 Apr 2009 at 03:39
maymay
Bitter and jealous, Community, Femdom, Male sexuality, Personal experience, Rant, Stupid dominants, Stupid submissives, Vanilla life
So, this is a complete and utter rant, because that’s just the mood I’m in. Also, it’s my blog. In case you didn’t know, I rant hard (and fast). My first half-week in New York City has been an utter roller coaster. In these few short days after I (mostly) finished regrouping with friends, I [...]
America’s Sexual Sampler Platter: Everything but Me is on the Menu
04 Jan 2008 at 23:31
maymay
BDSM in the media, Bitter and jealous, D/s dynamics, Male sexuality, Masculinity, Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Rant, Sexism
I get that New Years is a time of resolution, a time when people feel compelled by the time of year to make themselves better. The holidays are over, all that weight is back around your midsection, and there’s never been a better time to get back in shape, to stop that bad habit, to [...]
Normal is anything but
16 Dec 2007 at 01:45
maymay
Bitter and jealous, Emotions, Fetish, Personal experience, Politics of sex, Sex, Vanilla life
Flickr photo by lickyoats used under a Creative Commons license. What-if questions are the introvert’s Schrödinger’s cat. At once educational and unworkable, they can provide insight into your current mental state or process, whatever that may be. More interesting than simply performing the thought-experiment once is performing it several times, posing the question to yourself [...]
The rules of flirting are sexist and wrong
12 Dec 2007 at 03:41
maymay
BDSM psychology, Bisexuality, Bitter and jealous, Communication, D/s dynamics, Gender fluidity, Myths and misconceptions, Personal history, Politics of sex, Sexism
When I was a little boy, I was uncomfortable in social situations. My mother has a VHS videocassette of me in kindergarten. In it, I am sitting on one of my teachers’ lap while all the other girls and boys are sitting in a circle. “Don’t you want to sit with the other kids?” you [...]
