One of my severe failings is my notorious inability to “take the bad with the good,” or to “just be okay,” or to do that thing that so many people seem so capable of doing with such relative ease that makes them, by and large, happier more often than I am. Regardless of the freedoms [...]
Archive for the ‘Fantasy’ Category
Fantasy Worlds
08 Jan 2008 at 15:21
maymay
BDSM psychology, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Fantasy, Femdom, Personal experience, Relationship, Uncategorized, Vanilla life
Your fantasy is not reality, and you should know better
A major problem many people have is the inability to draw distinctions between one thing and another. This is especially true when the separation between two things are gradated. To simplify the problem, most people resign to black and white distinctions, this or that, tearing things apart that are inherently interwoven together into what they [...]
Thoughts and fantasies on guided masturbation
22 Mar 2007 at 03:05
maymay
Chastity/Orgasm denial, D/s dynamics, Fantasy, Femdom, Masturbation, Sexual teasing and control
I’m having trouble sleeping tonight for the obvious reasons such as the fact that my life is beginning to turn topsy turvy again, but I’m also spending quite a bit of time exploring new sites and thanks to their content, naturally, masturbating quite a bit. In fact, even though I’m not really masturbating to any [...]
I get off on unfairness
I get off on things being unfair in a D/s relationship. I get fewer orgasms, I have less money, I have more tasks, and so on. The imbalance is a display of power, the unfairness stimulating as a reminder of my submission. But it’s a tricky thing. It becomes a slippery slope very quickly. The [...]
Ramblings of a boy with a fetish for orgasm control
22 Feb 2007 at 17:41
maymay
Chastity/Orgasm denial, Fantasy, Femdom, Personal experience, Sexual teasing and control
While browsing here and there, I found a link to Frugal Domme’s web site, with very interesting and broad-ranging resources on what they call D/s techniques, Physical S&M, and Etiquette. It’s very obviously an ancient web site, but I’m glad I found it as it’s new for me and provides at least a modicum of [...]
