Just earlier today a friend sent me to this Savage Love article in the Village Voice. It’s about pegging, aka strap-on sex. We’ve all talked about this before, remember. The reason this article stuck out like a bright and red sore thumb in all the otherwise mundane vanilla-oriented sex advice columns was the nugget of [...]
Archive for the ‘Professional BDSM’ Category
Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
12 Aug 2007 at 21:15
maymay
BDSM in the media, Beginner BDSM, Femdom, Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Professional BDSM, Sex, Sex toys, Strap-ons and dildos, Stupid submissives
How to make my space bigger
30 Jul 2007 at 14:27
maymay
Bitter and jealous, Community, Femdom, Politics of sex, Professional BDSM, Vanilla life
In reply to my previous post, Eileen left some prodding comments. (I love it when she prods me.) How can we make the spaces for everyone wider? CV is doing a fantastic job of it; what else can be done? CV succeeded in creating a space that does not feel fragmented because there was more [...]
Professional Domination is actually Professional, remember?
If you’re tired of this topic, too bad. In fact, blame Calico this time, since she rekindled it. :P She’s been musing over pro-domming again and, as usual, generously shares a lot of her thoughts. I happen to think my style of sex work is a fantastic deal for all involved, the best bargain (marked [...]
Sex Services versus Sex Products
Calico over at Dominatrix Next Door remarks on the influence of money in sex work: On the way out I picked up $pread magazine’s new issue, which has a whole section about money. Of course it’s about money, I thought, how silly! All jobs are about money. But it’s not actually so straightforward. Quite often [...]
A Truly Belated Wednesday Wanderings
09 May 2007 at 22:54
maymay
Erotica and pornography, Professional BDSM, Wednesday Wanderings, Writing and blogging
I’ve been completely remiss with this blog. I shan’t give excuses because, well, what good would that do? Instead, some quality reading material that I’ve found—or that has found me—recently. Bishounen Works is the fantastic web site of P.L. Nunn, renowned yaoi fan fiction author and artist. I’ve known about her site for, god, ages [...]
The sex trade
I think I figured something out just now, in the shower. I was thinking about the whole issue of professional BDSM and what the deal is with prodommes and what not, how money plays into the equation and the economics of the situation when it struck me: the men are the whores. What I mean [...]
