On a little bit too much bubbly and more beers than I’d like to admit, I feel almost obligated to wish everyone a happy oncoming 2008. It’s here, of course, whether we like it or not. Time is such an uncontrollable thing, at least for now.
In any event, Eileen points out to me that New Years celebrations seem almost too arbitrary to matter, to which my only conceivable response has thus far been to ask her why other holidays don’t seem quite as arbitrary to her. Solstice celebrations, which are nothing more than a naturally occurring event despite the significance of Christmas and Channukah or what-have-you that people tend to associate with them, are no more meaningful in my eyes than the New Years holiday. The same is true of other givens, such as the decimal number system we are accustomed to using, which evolved thanks to the fact that we have ten fingers on two hands, nothing more, nothing less; after all, computers use binary, since that’s easier to count with electrical circuitry.
So instead of resolutions this year, I thought I’d share with everyone a poem that Eileen shared with me a few days ago. It’s moving, pertinent, and hopeful. Happy New Years, everyone.
If by Rudyard Kipling
IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise: If you can dream - and not make dreams your master; If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!' If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, ' Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch, if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
by Bitchy Jones
01 Jan 2008 at 06:55
If is my poetry guilty pleasure.
I really love it.
by arturus
01 Jan 2008 at 13:04
Computers could have ended up using ternary too, since it’s just as easy for a circuit to have three states: +, 0, and -; instead of just + and 0.
Didn’t work out that way, because of quirks of history, which, I guess, makes it even more arbitrary.
by Juliet
01 Jan 2008 at 13:11
If is a lovely poem.
I disagree a little on the arbitrary nature of solstice celebrations, though. There is something specific about the winter solstice – it marks the point after which the days start getting longer again. The UK is fairly far north, and knowing that we’re past the barely-6-hours-of-daylight low point is both noticeable and important for me & a lot of other folk I know!
New Year in the current calendar is arbitrary, sure. It’s as good a time as any to do a stock-take, though. (Having said which, I don’t actually have resolutions, per se, either.)
by maymay
01 Jan 2008 at 15:25
That’s true, but the year is 365 days long for similar astronomical reasons. I’m not sure why that’s considered less arbitrary.
by Maja
01 Jan 2008 at 22:36
I had to memorize If in 8th grade. Just spat it back now and only missed one half-stanza. The probem is that it’s really hard to remember what order the ifs come in!
I know this point has been made before, but the specific timing of solstice celebrations certainly did matter back in the day, because holy crap did your life depend on the sun appearing or not. With temperature conrol, electric lighting, and imported or otherwise artificially obtained food (or Doritos, which are “made of science” according to a friend of mine), the specific dates that mark summer and winter are less important now.
by Juliet
02 Jan 2008 at 09:00
Jan 1st certainly is *more* arbitrary than the winter (or indeed summer) solstice. And I think most people (who think about it at all) would agree that which day we choose as start-of-year is arbitrary – although the length of the year isn’t.
Picking an actual solstice/equinox would make more sense, but once a start-of-year date has been chosen by Someone Relevant (or rechosen, as with the switch to the Gregorian calendar), inertia & social pressure will tend to keep it there. (Plus the equinox does move between years, by a day – this year it was the 22nd rather than the 21st.)
I don’t know enough about calendars to know when or why the start of year got pinned at what we now call January (for the Western Christian world, anyway) – although I think it was Roman, no?
by Wendy
02 Jan 2008 at 15:07
I tend to not think about ‘new years’ as other than an excuse to drink cheap champagne. For me, Samhain is the end of the old year. And I always found that cultural/religious new years for other people held more meaning, and were a hell of a lot more interesting, than January first, the day we wear funny hats and get intoxicated.
And I love ‘If’. I have prayer card somewhere with ‘If’ printed on it.
by maymay
02 Jan 2008 at 15:21
Juliet, I think the fact that few of us know why January 1st was picked as the beginning of the Gregorian calendar year should be a reason to question its arbitrary-ness, not a reason to decide it is thus more or less arbitrary than any other holiday. This has nothing to do with “naturalness,” it’s about a lack of knowing. Furthermore, how one might value someone else’s “arbitrary” decision-making process is at the crux of a much larger issue than what days our society chooses to take off from work….