• LOVE how many http://FetLife.com/groups loudly decry S/speaking L/like T/this A/about D/dominance O/or S/submission. “Slashspeak” is stupid. #
  • @calypto You’re not alone—to ignorant people BDSM power #dynamics = #heteronormative ones. Man=dominant, woman=submissive. Sexist indeed! :( in reply to calypto #
  • Shit, I’m listed as a speaker for @Sex20Con http://www.sex20con.com/2009-speakers/ Gotta figure out if I can afford to go; I REALLY want to! #
  • I’m mourning more losses than I can bear. My throat is hoarse, head is pounding & the room is still spinning. #RememberSuicideIsNotASolution #
  • @MollyRen Of course #dominant #women & #submissive #men are underrepresented. The interesting+helpful question, however, is why+how that is. in reply to MollyRen #
  • @standupkid That classic joke is one reason why I try to avoid the word “submissions” to indicate proposals and instead use “contributions.” in reply to standupkid #
  • @JohnBaku I have a git-diff #patch available that adds basic #hCalendar support to http://FetLife.com/events pages. How do I send it to you? #
  • @katebornstein Not sure visiting a petting zoo will help me. But I was tempted to email you privately+ask for your perspective, which might. in reply to katebornstein #
  • Very seriously debating abandoning efforts at normal sleep cycles so that I’m more likely to be awake when North hemisphere friends will be. #
  • @standupkid Many #words have other meanings in #BDSM. “Play,” “scene,” “toy,” “instrument,” “safe” & “training” are some off top of my head. in reply to standupkid #
  • @SaraEileen Everything I do feels entirely improvised these days. Like my chocolate-pieces-and-tea-light substitute for a birthday cake…. :( in reply to SaraEileen #
  • Me: “I don’t like it when you call me [strong]. I don’t want to be strong.” @SaraEileen: “What do you want to be?” Me: “Somebody else.” #sad #