• #Fairness is not about being equal (sameness), it’s about being EQUIVALENT ie. having equal #opportunity to achieve different wants & needs. #
  • @NathanaelB That musing is from a draft sex blog post. Getting #fairness right is a big deal as “I get off on unfairness.” http://tr.im/gGgp in reply to NathanaelB #
  • I ALMOST made it to a café w/o crying. Everything hurts. I want it to be 8 months ago or 8 months from now but am scared of both those. #sad #
  • @urbantantrika I’m struggling to find ways to do that that don’t interfere with my professional commitments too much. I fear I’m failing. :( in reply to urbantantrika #
  • Envy of knowing @SaraEileen spends time w/@barrysaunders yet my close friends are ½ a world away is too unbearable not to say aloud. WWYouD? #
  • @misscalico Welcome to ejaculate. I’m shocked laundry detergents seem to be marketed to women considering how men need to use them for that. in reply to misscalico #
  • I wish social networks wouldn’t use “friend” to indicate a connection cuz it terribly semantically misrepresents the function. Alternatives? #
  • @wheelyweb I argue it’s NOT easy to understand. Also, what convention? @LinkedIn uses “connection,” @Twitter uses “followers,” and so on? ;) in reply to wheelyweb #
  • @BenWard This seems “layered.” Can we abstract? Functional level describing generic social connection, another a context of that connection? in reply to BenWard #
  • Slowly working thru https://docs.google.com spreadsheet @SaraEileen & I have with columns “What,” “By when,” “How much,” & “Is it done yet?” #
  • @oc_submissive Using a #MetaWeblogAPI enabled blog (eg, @WordPress), you can use #Google #Docs or MS #Word to compose posts, tables and all. in reply to oc_submissive #
  • Last wk’s beautiful beach day was aborted+tomorrow’s plan looks rained out. I was once told #anger is expectation unmet. There’s anger here. #
  • @00Syd I do like “contact” or “connection” for their generality. One could say “connect w/ X” and then layer more subjective context on top. in reply to 00Syd #
  • @00Syd “How do you know this person”=useful in @Facebook’s case—I see an issue w/using “friend” devoid of other options. Friend=meaningless. in reply to 00Syd #
  • Struggling to walk the line btw expressing sad or angry #emotions & keeping peace. I want both but sometimes one seems to cost me the other. #
  • @00Syd Also WTF is w/ “friending.” The word is “befriending.” Why does TEH #Internet turn people into #grammatical imbeciles? I mean really. in reply to 00Syd #
  • Crying so loudly a neighbor yelled out their window “Will you shut up or I’ll call the police!” How did my home become solitary confinement? #
  • @voirol I’m ok. I closed the windows, called someone. I doubt the neighbor could identify it as me anyway. I live above a loud alley anyway. in reply to voirol #
  • Interesting to contemplate reasons why I tweet—1 keep digital records of my life 2 communicate w/others 3 mix 1+2—blurs personal boundaries. #
  • @oc_submissive I’m not talking about copy+pasting but about #publishing blog posts directly from #Google #Docs: http://tinyurl.com/cuprzc ;) in reply to oc_submissive #