• @MollyRen You'd be surprised how many folk probably do listen to what you have to say online—I'm always meeting lurkers who somehow know me. in reply to MollyRen #
  • #KFADC was great! Now @helio_girl & I drive 7hrs back to Providence. Hopefully we'll make it in time for @KinkOnTap at 8. Will tweet if not! #
  • #Traffic clusterfucks lost us lots of time. Not canceling @KinkOnTap yet but we might start 30min late. More updates soon. Wish us godspeed! #
  • Sadly, hrs in #traffic & 3 near-crashes mean we can't do @KinkOnTap tonight. Sorry! We'll try to get something short published later anyway. #
  • Have to cancel live taping of @KinkOnTap tonight. :( If people can hang in the chat rooms to let anyone waiting know, I'll brain-hug you. :) #
  • Finally arriving home. #Traffic extended our trip by 3+hrs! Disappointed to cancel @KinkOnTap's live recording but we'll think of something. #
  • After needed rest I'm post-processing mounds of video from #KFADC. Thrilled that schedule grid is filling up already! http://tr.im/kfadcgrid #
  • @BritLuckyPaul Making #KinkForAll focused on BDSM is NOT OKAY cuz the word "kink" does not belong to the BDSM/play/demo presenter community. in reply to BritLuckyPaul #
  • ♺ @nikolasco: At #KFADC? It'd be lovely if you helped fill out the schedule http://tr.im/kfadcgrid or give feedback http://tr.im/kfadcsurvey #
  • @ASimon89 Link? :) Also, tag your posts w/'KFADC' & 'KinkForAll' for aggregators to catch it and show it in places like http://bit.ly/518r7W in reply to ASimon89 #
  • Post-processing #pics that I took at #KFADC. I'm blurring some faces that have red stars on nametags. But some have red AND green stars…WTF? #
  • I just added a dozen or so #photos from #KFADC to the @KinkForAll group on Flickr: http://flickr.com/groups/kinkforall/ That was so awesome! #
  • @DDog Maybe. But seriously, this is precisely why I'm so adamant about simplicity—there should just be 1 option: red sticker=no pics. #KFADC in reply to DDog #
  • @ASimon89 I appreciate that, but respecting recording requests is more important. The multiple-sticker confusion is really a problem. #KFADC in reply to ASimon89 #
  • Just got reply from Planned Parenthood re #KFADC. Ever seen Enter The Dragon? Y'know the final scene where the army shows up too late? Yeah. #
  • @nikolasco I'm not personally cool w/that. Public events like #KFADC should be public. There's no opt-in on a street, so too at @KinkForAll. in reply to nikolasco #
  • @nikolasco Til I see tourists walking around w/cameras AND model releases on streets, I'm unconvinced opt-in is appropriate for @KinkForAll. in reply to nikolasco #
  • @nikolasco I appreciate that, which is why communication clarity is paramount. I personally think opt-in is a mistake, but #KFABOS did that. in reply to nikolasco #
  • @raxvulpine Don't see a diff btw "opt" & "opt-in." If required to do that, you're minimally required to opt-in to participate. Not the same. in reply to raxvulpine #
  • @raxvulpine Exactly. Doing that is an obvious and clear indication of a desire to participate. Why add extra barriers like photo "policies"? in reply to raxvulpine #
  • @raxvulpine There are MANY reasons why some won't come to @KinkForAll. Why make rules to placate THOSE folks but not do the same for others? in reply to raxvulpine #
  • @raxvulpine Of course! It changed #KFABOS. I still think it was a mistake—note how many participants changed their stickers mid-way thru. ;) in reply to raxvulpine #
  • @nikolasco I'm not sure I follow. Explicit choice != more responsible decision-making & the pester factor = barrier to smooth communication. in reply to nikolasco #
  • @raxvulpine Ppl changed stickers frm "opt-out" to "opt-in" @ #KFABOS. Blog post: http://tr.im/FC2y Many REGRETTED not recording their talks. in reply to raxvulpine #
  • @nikolasco I see. Still think act of showing up shows intent. Onus should be on us to communicate best we can to help folk make THAT choice. in reply to nikolasco #
  • @raxvulpine It's a tough issue. Given the nature of @KinkForAll, etc., I strongly favor simplicity. Clarity is paramount. Assume good faith. in reply to raxvulpine #
  • @nikolasco What's wrong w/presumption coupled w/active effort to inform? @KinkForAll's NOTHING like "prevailing norms" of alt sex community. in reply to nikolasco #