Dear readers,
About an hour ago, while walking home from Noisebridge, I was mugged. Two men who seemed to be in their mid-twenties, one dark-skinned gentleman and one lighter-skinned, wearing black hoodies and jeans attacked me at the corner of Fillmore and Waller streets. The dark-skinned man looped his arm around my throat roughly and yanked me to the floor, catching my bag as I fell and pulling it above me.
“Give me everything you’ve got!” he yelled at me.
“Hold on! Hold on!” I said.
I was on the floor in an instant and trying to find the strap of my bag. I couldn’t, he pulled it above my head, and the two men bolted as fast as they could.
As I got up, I pulled out my phone from my pocket and dialed 9-1-1. A few minutes later a police car sped up to me, I waved at it, and the officer inside rolled down his window as he slowed. He asked me a few questions, including asking for a brief description and the direction the perps ran. I told him, he said he’d be right back, and he sped off.
A few minutes later he returned empty handed. I tweeted. I filed a police report.
Inside my beige one-strap bag was a 15” MacBook Pro laptop, (serial number W89410HRB22) one with a specially-ordered matte display. (I hate the glossy ones.) There was also the laptop charger, my Samsung mobile phone charger, and a bunch of other odds-and-ends, including two Rubik’s cubes. All told, it was pretty expensive: upwards of about $2,500. While I’m pretty sure the data on my laptop is (mostly) backed up safely, my pen-and-paper notebook, which I’ve carried with me for more than two years and is full of irreplaceable notes and memories, was also stolen. That’s hard copy, and can’t be backed up digitally. Damn.
I don’t have a budget for replacing this stuff. Some of it can’t be replaced. I’m taking the somewhat uncharacteristic step of asking you to donate whatever amount that you can to me through the donation button below to help me weather the budget crunch I’m going to have to deal with in the next couple of months as I replace my equipment. It’s particularly bad timing; I just bought airfare for the upcoming CSPH conference as well as a conference ticket for the Poly Leadership Summit in Seattle, which I have yet to purchase travel for.
HELP MAYMAY REPLACE STOLEN EQUIPMENT AFTER STREET MUGGING:
If you can’t offer me financial support, then please, please, please simply take the time to tweet about this blog post. Muggings rarely end with stolen goods returned to their owners, but the ones that do all have one thing in common: people are able to identify the goods quickly because word gets around. Here are some 140-character postings you can use to help me out. (Consider it a karmic investment.)
- Help @maymaym recover from getting mugged on the street in #SF. His laptop and bag was stolen. Help him out: http://ur1.ca/1mqz0 Pls RT—thx!
- Activist @maymaym’s laptop stolen in SF street mugging. Chip in to help replace it http://ur1.ca/1mqz0 and/or RT to get item description out
- See 15″ MacBook Pro laptop w/matte screen selling in Bay Area in odd circumstances? Contact @maymaym. Was stolen: http://ur1.ca/1mqz0 Pls RT
Alternatively, of course, write your own tweet or cross-post this entry and include a link back to this blog post.
So, yeah, it’s kind of been a shitty month. Thanks for your help, in whatever form it may take.
by Stillearning
15 Sep 2010 at 06:13
Please stay strong and focused. The world needs you well badly. We’ll help. So relieved that you are ok. Stay safe. Love you.
by Wendy Blackheart
15 Sep 2010 at 07:17
OMG! I’m glad your ok. Sadly, I’m rather strapped for cash myself, but I’ll RT and let people know. <3
by J
15 Sep 2010 at 07:21
I’m sorry this happened to you :( I’ve tweeted, for what it’s worth.
I hope October is absolutely rocking.
Jx
by Christian
15 Sep 2010 at 09:32
Don’t forget to report your mac as stolen to Apple. If anyone takes it into an Apple store, they’ll hold it and call you.
by Beka
15 Sep 2010 at 12:48
D: Oh, Maymay, I’m so sorry! I’m definitely gonna put the word out, though I can’t help monetarily right now. *HUGS* I hope your stuff gets recovered.
by V.E.
15 Sep 2010 at 13:50
I believe in what you do. I don’t have a lot of money, but I try to put it where my mouth is when I can. I donated, though it wasn’t much. I hope you get the bastards.
by Maggie Mayhem
15 Sep 2010 at 15:15
I wish for the swift recovery of both your property and your nerves. I’ve been robbed before and it can leave you rattled in more ways than one. Make sure you take some time to take care of yourself. We’re rooting for you.
by kc
15 Sep 2010 at 16:19
Wow. I saw this posted from a friend, I was reading this on my phone as I was walking home from work on Fillmore and haight. Crazy sad things that happen in this neighborhood. For what it’s worth, I’ll be keeping an eye out around here.
by Catalina (Loves)
15 Sep 2010 at 16:59
Hey MayMay – I was brought here through Elizabeth (SITPS) through Twitter on Facebook. Word travels so quickly with so many friends on your side!
I am so sad to hear that this happened. It just sucks when bad things happen to good people. I remember you helping me out of a crunch a couple of summers ago and now it’s my turn to do the same. I’ll help pass the word, and I’ll click on your donate button as soon as I click here. Good luck, amigo.
Catalina Loves MayMay
by Remy
15 Sep 2010 at 19:34
So sad to hear this. I hope you are safe and that the MB gets returned to it’s rightful owner. Those jerks will get theirs, Karma is a nasty bitch. I’ve tweeted on my account about this (@cinnabubbles) hopefully my friends will RT to get the word out.
Best of luck!
by Earline
15 Sep 2010 at 23:11
Jesus–I’m so sorry. I kicked in a few bucks. Holding thoughts for recovery of your stuff, your emotional recovery, creeps to reap consequences of their actions.
by treesa
16 Sep 2010 at 21:15
I’m so sorry to hear this…Glad to hear you are safe though! Like someone said, you and your work are valued and needed – I hope the universe syncs up for you in whatever ways you need it to. I’ll put in a couple of bucks too.
Also really sorry to hear that SF is not turning out to be home-y for you. As someone that’s moved around a lot in her short life, I get that. This is random, but I just realized you’re in the Bay, as am I, so if you ever want to talk, that’s my email. (I know this is weird because I’ve never commented, but I’ve followed your blog/s for a while, and between you and Sinclair Sexsmith I feel like I’ve learned so much–so, the many grateful thanks of another bikinkyfemme undergrad have been sent your way, many a time.)
I hope your luck turns around and that you get your stuff back! much love.
by Karen
19 Sep 2010 at 09:13
Something similar happened to me in June. It was two punk kids on a bicycle–the one riding on the pegs on the rear axle grabbed my laptop bag off my shoulder, knocking me to the ground. Fortunately the injuries were nothing worse than bloodied and bruised elbows and knees.
Sorry I can’t help out financially, but let me offer some hard-earned advice.
First, I’m glad to know you weren’t injured. Bad enough you’ve got to replace all this stuff–at least you’re not doing it from a hospital bed.
Second, I made two lists–all the things I needed to do about the stuff that was stolen, and all the things that could have been worse (starting with serious injury). Believe me, it helped to think about what didn’t happen as I was dealing with what did. It wasn’t a particularly uplifting time, but keeping some perspective helped.
Third, that list of things to do should include following up with EVERYONE–every company or organization that might be able to replace your stuff. I was surprised that I was able to replace my Starbucks card, with the unused balance. Ask about those conference tickets–the organizers will have a record and might be able to replace them at little or no charge. Anyway, you won’t know until you ask!
Fourth, I pride myself on being a fairly tough and independent New Yorker, but for a couple of weeks after the robbery I was not ashamed to hold up my bruised and scraped elbows for a little sympathy. (Got me out of a replacement fee for my library card, which I desperately needed to borrow a library laptop until I replaced the stolen one.)
BTW, I did get my wallet back two weeks later. It turned up on somebody’s lawn a couple of miles from where I was robbed. The thieves had taken the cash and credit cards (but not used the cards). They left my continuing education ID, which is how the finders located me. Unfortunately they’d watered the lawn a couple of times before they found my wallet, so it was a little the worse for its experiences–not unlike me.
Good luck! It’s damned inconvenient, but it’s only “stuff” and you’ll get it worked out eventually. Hang in there.
by Nio
25 Sep 2010 at 19:33
I’m a broke artist so could only donate a piddling amount, sorry, but figured I’d at least make a gesture to support the person who does a podcast that keeps me entertained and informed while I’m doing mind numbing image editing at work.
So yeah, ’tis a token of my appreciation and I hope things pick up for you!
by Ferns
26 Sep 2010 at 04:03
Oh maymay,
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you are ok mentally and emotionally, I know it can leave you very shaken and skittish. Virtual hugs and a donation coming your way.
Ferns
by JimDeuder
26 Sep 2010 at 18:14
I’m so sorry this happened to you :-( Hope you can recover soon. Glad you are ok, stuff is just stuff, but you are what is really irreplaceable.
Hugs,
Jim
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