Anonymous asked:

Hey I don’t know how you feel about adding porny things to this blog but I’ve been googling for rolequeer porn just to see what’s out there and I found some tumblrs using rolequeer tags for sexy pics and stories. so it’s definitely a thing people are thinking about. And the pics are mostly sub-on-sub stuff which is hot! (at least to me anyways)

rolequeer:

Oh please do point them out to me! I’m very curious how people think rolequeer porn might look.

Depending on the content I might want to post them with some trigger warnings or behind a link so people can chose whether to click through to the porn. 

Ooh! This is exciting! For two reasons!

  1. Look, a new blog entirely about all things rolequeer!
  2. There is evidently already porn tagged rolequeer out there, and Google knows about it.

I tend to keep this blog pretty heavy on text and light on images for a few reasons, not least of which is “porny things” have historically been pretty trigger-y for me for a long time. The best known archive of porny things I like is ironically also one of the things that made me famous in the BDSM community: browse back in the archives of the malesubmissionart Tumblr for more on that.

But, like all effective exegetic self-criticism, I look back on those archives and I can clearly see the massive shift and evolution my political and personal beliefs have taken over the years. When I read through them, I think to myself, “Holy shit, I was obsessively focused on being dominated, to the point where I absolutely fetishized dominance. That is soooo problematic. And soooo common. And soooo disturbing, especially to me about myself.” What I see when I look back on the internationally-acclaimed Male Submission Art archive I curated is a singular fixation on sexualized authority, the defining, fascistic element of BDSM as a culture and the one thing BDSM’ers are loathe to admit they are fixated on.

So just the idea that there even might be people out there sharing their erotic thoughts and their thoughts on eroticism in a way that criticizes authority-fetishism is really exciting! Might there even be enough out there right now to make a sort of “Male Submission Art for rolequeerness”? BDSM’ers should tremble as I rejoice at the thought! :D

Obviously, I will be doing some googling around for this myself. But, in the mean time, I am signal boosting the fuck out of this and I am sharing the very first two things that came to my mind when I read this post, which I tweeted:

Naturally, feel free to reblog and add your own #YouMightBeRolequeer phrases, humorously presented or otherwise. :)

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