I can still remember the day when Eileen said to me, somewhat dismayed, “Sometimes it feels like every kinky girl who’s even close to being classically attractive decides to become a pro-domme sooner or later. Why am I the only one who doesn’t?” And of course, when she was offered a job as a pro-domme […]
Archive for the ‘Bisexuality’ Category
Safely fucking anonymous johns with inspiration from TCP/IP
04 Oct 2008 at 21:24
maymay
BDSM psychology, BDSM safety, BDSM techniques, Bisexuality, Communication, D/s dynamics, Fantasy, Male sexuality, Professional BDSM, Sex, Technology
Rocking the Boat. By which I mean I also enjoy a good facial
05 Aug 2008 at 02:55
maymay
Bisexuality, Community, D/s dynamics, Gender fluidity, Male sexuality, Masculinity, Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Sexism
Eileen is always berating me for being an ass. It’s true: I’m kind of an ass. I’m probably mostly an ass when I’m wiggling my bum at her trying to get attention so she’ll spank me or fuck me or something like that, but she claims I’m also often an ass when I’m writing in […]
Young people into BDSM are not exceptional
24 Jun 2008 at 13:44
maymay
BDSM psychology, Beginner BDSM, Bisexuality, Community, Generation gap, Sex
Every so often, such as last Saturday night, I get to talking with a bunch of people in the BDSM scene. Most of these people are almost always decades older than me. At some point in the conversation, which usually turns into a friendly debate of sorts (because those are the kinds of conversations I […]
Wednesday Wanderings: Sexy Techie
30 Apr 2008 at 23:50
maymay
Bisexuality, Community, Humor, Technology, Vanilla life, Wednesday Wanderings
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If it weren’t 12:50 AM here right now, this entry might be more than a PSA, but there is way too much wine in me (and I have way too much work to do) for it to be anything but. On that note, however, I would like to share with you my new absolute favorite […]
The boy next door is also bisexual
23 Dec 2007 at 18:48
maymay
Bisexuality, Communication, Community, Gender fluidity, Male sexuality, Masculinity, Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Polyamory, Sex
Today I was wandering around the blogosphere and found a link via The Sex Carnival to this report on a poll about the prevalence of bisexuality that made me stop and think. The brief article touches on quite a few topics that I am finding immediately relevant. These topics are: Hostility towards bisexual-identified people, most […]
The rules of flirting are sexist and wrong
12 Dec 2007 at 03:41
maymay
BDSM psychology, Bisexuality, Bitter and jealous, Communication, D/s dynamics, Gender fluidity, Myths and misconceptions, Personal history, Politics of sex, Sexism
When I was a little boy, I was uncomfortable in social situations. My mother has a VHS videocassette of me in kindergarten. In it, I am sitting on one of my teachers’ lap while all the other girls and boys are sitting in a circle. “Don’t you want to sit with the other kids?” you […]
