Being home alone is sometimes really great and sometimes really dangerous. It’s great because I am often at my most productive when I have a silent, empty apartment and I’m alone with my thoughts. I guess this is where my muse is. It’s dangerous because I never know what my muse is going to inspire […]
Archive for the ‘Blowjobs’ Category
Being someone’s fucktoy: Who’s objectifying who?
30 Oct 2008 at 21:42
maymay
BDSM psychology, Blowjobs, D/s dynamics, Male sexuality, Myths and misconceptions, Personal experience
Fun with kissing
18 Dec 2007 at 06:14
maymay
BDSM psychology, Blowjobs, D/s dynamics, Femdom, Male sexuality, Masculinity, Sex
Flickr photo by dirtyfeet used under a Creative Commons License. Kissing seems to have been a popular topic to write about the other day. Both Ilya and Dev wrote about kissing on the same day, and both entries are interesting. Ilya spoke about her disinterest in kissing, and about social pressures that have made one’s […]
The first blowjob I’ve ever bottomed to
10 Aug 2007 at 12:39
maymay
BDSM psychology, BDSM techniques, Blowjobs, Chastity/Orgasm denial, D/s dynamics, Femdom, Personal experience, Politics of sex, Relationship, Sex, Sexual teasing and control
This morning a friend asked me to give her an image that turns me on, followed by an image that is iconic of a “top” or a “domme” and then to determine whether the answers to those two questions share any key visual elements. Yes, this friend’s really smart, by the way. In response, I […]
