Things have been a little bit busy in my life lately, and for once the busyness has not been solely professionally-driven. Though I am working on a number of very exciting things, my days have been excitingly full because after I work hard, I come home to Eileen and we play hard. The play, however, […]
Archive for the ‘Bondage’ Category
I like feeling like a beginner again
21 Oct 2008 at 23:24
maymay
BDSM psychology, Beginner BDSM, Bondage, Chastity/Orgasm denial, Communication, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Femdom, Fetish, Male sexuality, Masturbation, Relationship, Sexual teasing and control, Training/Conditioning, Vanilla life, Writing and blogging
Rope bondage video of the day
This video has everything. Bondage, begging, a super hot blonde dominatrix, and cookies! :) When I shared this find with Rona everyone over at her blog got a real kick out of it, so I thought I’d share it here, too. All the begging totally put the idea of Cookie Monster orgasm denial porn in […]
On kinky competence
06 Nov 2007 at 11:27
maymay
BDSM psychology, BDSM safety, BDSM techniques, Bondage, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Myths and misconceptions, Stupid dominants, Stupid submissives
Few “bedroom kinky” people I have heard of have ever shown a concerted effort to pick up an anatomy book with a mind towards safer rougher sex—though it’s obvious, even to them, why they might want to consider it. These are the kinds of people I have never found attractive. They never take the time to analyze their own successes or their failures, and consequently sentence themselves to lives of mediocre experiences at best or, more commonly, continuous bewildered failure.
Flying, the kinky sex orgasm, and the lack thereof
31 Aug 2007 at 14:54
maymay
Altered States and Headspaces, BDSM terminology, Bondage, Emotions, Humor, Personal experience
People often draw analogies between things in kink sex and vanilla sex. They do this sometimes out of necessity and sometimes out of a desire to avoid the overhead of defining every term they use, but mostly they do it (as I’m about to do) because it’s something they’ve heard done before. I’ve never “flown” […]
Fox News reports: Bondage may make men happier
I recently attended a bondage class by the excellent, and incredibly knowledgeable Lee “Bridgett” Harrington on Speed Bondage. I learned a few great new tricks, a couple of extra ties, and a super-quick rope bondage chest harness. And, god, it reminds me how much I absolutely love bondage. How appropriate then, that Lady Julia recently […]
Stream of consciousness on BDSM 101
22 Feb 2007 at 21:23
maymay
BDSM terminology, Beginner BDSM, Bondage
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At one of the BDSM organizations I attend, I volunteered myself to participate at an “introduction to kink” panel presentation for another discussion group that had invited us to speak. When I heard back from the group, I was asked to speak on two things: definition of terms and bondage. Yay! Both topics that I […]
