Archive for the ‘Community’ Category
Software Development as Direct Action
22 Jul 2015 at 19:36
maymay
Community, My Videos, Myths and misconceptions, Personal history, Politics of sex, Technology
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Dear Lori Adorable, regurgitating sex-positive cliches is cowardly denialism of abusive BDSM
23 Mar 2015 at 11:29
maymay
Community, Politics of sex, Stupid dominants, Stupid submissives
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theotherside-205 asked: (1 of 2) I want to say thank you for your commentary on the post pathologizing survivors who engage in kink. I started following you yesterday because I’d been triggered by a lot of posts on my dash about how kink is inherently problematic, sometimes adding, “But I guess I don’t hate survivors […]
Invasion of the Spicy Vanillas
27 Feb 2015 at 17:49
maymay
Community, Politics of sex, Stupid dominants
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rolequeer: themerrymisnomer: rolequeer: themerrymisnomer: rolequeer: I am dying with laughter. Wasteland, Europe’s biggest fetish party that advertises as ‘the wildest party on earth’ halted the sale of tickets for their 2015 party to keep out ‘housewives in jeans who read Fifty Shades of Grey’. Their public statement that their party is about ‘a lifestyle’ that […]
The theory of BDSM as parody [where it’s flawed and where it’s not]
notfuckingcishet: I was very disappointed today to pick up a reader on queer sexuality, skipping quickly to the chapter on kink, to find yet another article that accepted uncritically the theory that BDSM is a parody of oppression. For those of you unfarmiliar with the theory, this is the idea that BDSM parodies real oppression […]