I was wrong when I wrote that Lady Porn Day was “neither inspiring nor impressive.” It did inspire something. Specifically, aside from my own post on the subject, it inspired this comment from Kay: if we can accept that the porn that naturally appeals to submissive men is images of men being submissive, couldn’t the […]
Archive for the ‘Erotica and pornography’ Category
What porn companies can learn from the Giffords shooting
13 Jan 2011 at 02:49
maymay
BDSM in the media, Community, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Politics of sex, Rant
First, a couple important points. I hate Kink, Inc.1 2 That does not mean I want them eradicated—they have been doing a shitty job of it, but I believe have made the world a (slightly) better place on balance—it means I have incredibly negative feelings for them that are far, far stronger than mere disapproval […]
MaleSubmissionArt.com or Why I Am Crowdsourcing My Own Pornography
19 Nov 2008 at 02:35
maymay
Community, Erotica and pornography, Male sexuality, Masculinity, Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Technology, Writing and blogging
So, here’s the problem: There is not enough porn wherein submissive men are the erotic subject matter. If you’ve read even a little bit of this blog, you’re probably already well-versed in many of my rants about how paltry the available porn is for submissive men like me (and, by extension, dominant women like Eileen). […]
Wednesday Wanderings: Gendered Semantic Web, Vulcan Sex, and more
29 Oct 2008 at 22:19
maymay
BDSM in the media, Community, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Gender fluidity, Sexism, Technology, Wednesday Wanderings, Writing and blogging
Been working hard in other parts of my endeavors recently, and am especially happy to see interest begin to pick up in the HyperTextual Porn experiments I’m hosting and hoping to develop. In the mean time, here are some links for light reading for you: I realize this will probably be “too techy” for some […]
I like feeling like a beginner again
21 Oct 2008 at 23:24
maymay
BDSM psychology, Beginner BDSM, Bondage, Chastity/Orgasm denial, Communication, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Femdom, Fetish, Male sexuality, Masturbation, Relationship, Sexual teasing and control, Training/Conditioning, Vanilla life, Writing and blogging
Things have been a little bit busy in my life lately, and for once the busyness has not been solely professionally-driven. Though I am working on a number of very exciting things, my days have been excitingly full because after I work hard, I come home to Eileen and we play hard. The play, however, […]
Call for participation: Hyperfiction and Hypertextual Porn
21 Jun 2008 at 15:06
maymay
Community, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Fetish, Sex, Technology, Writing and blogging
A few weeks ago I was geeking out about “web stuff” to Eileen, who was sitting across the café table from me sipping her gigantic flat white coffee. I was talking to her about iterative development processes, and how that matches how I think. Small bits, loosely structured, eventually coalesce and create something very refined, […]
