Back on May 3rd, 2005, a bit after 4 AM in the morning, I came home from an evening out at one of TES‘s “College Night” parties at New York City’s local BDSM club, Paddles. A little over a month earlier, I had first met Eileen at Conversio Virium, but it had been significantly less […]
Archive for the ‘Faceslapping’ Category
One night, I fell in love
06 Feb 2008 at 04:17
maymay
BDSM psychology, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Faceslapping, Femdom, Knife play, Male sexuality, Personal experience, Personal history, Relationship
Where’s the pain?
17 Jul 2007 at 16:35
maymay
Altered States and Headspaces, Cock and ball torture (CBT), Faceslapping, Masochism, Spanking and paddling, Whipping
It is still fascinating to me how differently I react to pain when it is inflicted on the buttocks versus on the back versus on the face versus some other location. So much focus is often placed on the implement causing this pain but it’s always been that the location of the pain has a […]
Ecstagony’s article on safety risks for face slapping play
17 Mar 2007 at 18:24
maymay
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Safety: Face slapping, is a very detailed article about the physical dangers of face slapping in BDSM play that both submissives and dominants should read and understand before playing with strong face slapping in their scenes. Face slapping can be dangerous. For instance, the article advises: Of course, if hitting hard enough, you will break […]
Face slapping and my many reactions to it
I have only ever done face slapping with my current girlfriend and Mistress because it is a very hot-button issue for me. There’s an intensely contextualized component to this activity that can give it so many meanings, both for the person doing the hitting and the one getting hit. Being hit, I can feel any […]
BDSM as an emotional sexuality all its own
08 Mar 2007 at 03:18
maymay
BDSM psychology, D/s dynamics, Faceslapping, Personal experience, Relationship
For me, and I have observed for many other people, kink and BDSM is a sexuality all its own. It is not merely arousing in a sexual connotation, but in an emotional one. Kink and BDSM play upon very fundamental aspects of the human psyche that are familiar to all of us, regardless of race, […]
