Y’know, despite all the politics and recent dramas surrounding me and my work, sometimes it is about the sex. Lately, I’ve been wanting to write more about sex but between making rent and bills and the aforementioned dramas, it’s just not that easy. I got to a point where I’ve put myself far enough in […]
Archive for the ‘Fetish’ Category
A primatologist’s suggestions for happier orgasm control
10 Jul 2010 at 04:23
maymay
BDSM psychology, BDSM techniques, Chastity/Orgasm denial, Fetish, Multi-Media, Sex, Sexual teasing and control, Training/Conditioning
I like feeling like a beginner again
21 Oct 2008 at 23:24
maymay
BDSM psychology, Beginner BDSM, Bondage, Chastity/Orgasm denial, Communication, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Femdom, Fetish, Male sexuality, Masturbation, Relationship, Sexual teasing and control, Training/Conditioning, Vanilla life, Writing and blogging
Things have been a little bit busy in my life lately, and for once the busyness has not been solely professionally-driven. Though I am working on a number of very exciting things, my days have been excitingly full because after I work hard, I come home to Eileen and we play hard. The play, however, […]
Top Ten Tips for Long-Term Male Chastity Device Wear
24 Sep 2008 at 03:19
maymay
BDSM psychology, BDSM safety, BDSM techniques, Beginner BDSM, Chastity/Orgasm denial, D/s dynamics, Fetish, Male sexuality, Myths and misconceptions, Sexual teasing and control, Training/Conditioning
I’ve had a number of what I’d consider relatively long-term experiences with the CB-3000 (which I think is safe to say is the most popular male chastity device available today). I’ve been able to wear the chastity device for several weeks with no problems, almost 24/7. However, that success did not come easy (no pun […]
Call for participation: Hyperfiction and Hypertextual Porn
21 Jun 2008 at 15:06
maymay
Community, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Fetish, Sex, Technology, Writing and blogging
A few weeks ago I was geeking out about “web stuff” to Eileen, who was sitting across the café table from me sipping her gigantic flat white coffee. I was talking to her about iterative development processes, and how that matches how I think. Small bits, loosely structured, eventually coalesce and create something very refined, […]
Stuff I use for sex
It’s Thursday and all and I’ve not posted for too long. Australia is keeping me busy, but I’ve had these photos in store for this blog ever since I was packing, and I figure there’s no better time than the present. A while back, Mischief made a pact with Switch and Boy to bare their […]
Fetish fashion is the same no matter where you go
05 Mar 2008 at 08:11
maymay
Beginner BDSM, Community, Fetish, Personal experience, Sex toys, Vanilla life
I’m in Sydney, Australia. Without a doubt, the hardest thing about moving across the world for me has been the sudden lack of connectivity to the information I’m so used to getting on a regular basis. Nothing else really compares, because more than anything else the cost of that information is time—something (generally speaking) that […]
