Things have been a little bit busy in my life lately, and for once the busyness has not been solely professionally-driven. Though I am working on a number of very exciting things, my days have been excitingly full because after I work hard, I come home to Eileen and we play hard. The play, however, […]
Archive for the ‘Masturbation’ Category
I like feeling like a beginner again
21 Oct 2008 at 23:24
maymay
BDSM psychology, Beginner BDSM, Bondage, Chastity/Orgasm denial, Communication, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Erotica and pornography, Fantasy, Femdom, Fetish, Male sexuality, Masturbation, Relationship, Sexual teasing and control, Training/Conditioning, Vanilla life, Writing and blogging
Firsts are always changes
07 Feb 2008 at 14:27
maymay
Community, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Femdom, Kink events, Male sexuality, Masculinity, Masturbation, Personal experience, Relationship, Sex, Uncategorized, Writing and blogging
One of the reasons I’m so interested in kink and sexuality is because it’s implicitly a big part of my life. It’s everywhere and nowhere at the very same time, not unlike how many people understand god. For me, my sexuality is akin to my religion: self-expression (and particularly sexual self-expression) is my prayer, I […]
While fucking, I prefer to get fucked
26 Nov 2007 at 03:36
maymay
BDSM in the media, BDSM psychology, Bisexuality, Bitter and jealous, Erotica and pornography, Gender fluidity, Masturbation, Politics of sex, Sex
This began as a comment on Bitchy Jones’s recent and wonderful post (in typical “rock-the-boat” fashion) on how awesome getting fucked is, but it spiraled into a bit of a longer remark. It expresses a sentiment so frustratingly common in me that I’d rather keep it here. You know, for posterity or something. Bitchy’s a […]
The unexpected clarity
02 Nov 2007 at 15:51
maymay
BDSM psychology, Chastity/Orgasm denial, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Femdom, Masturbation, Personal experience, Relationship, Sexual teasing and control
I am anal retentive, persistently consistent, and have a notorious dislike for change. Yet whenever something new happens for the first time, I am endlessly fascinated by it. Just such a new thing happened the other night. Allow me to set the scene. It is late, past ten o’clock in the evening. It has been […]
Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)
19 Jul 2007 at 15:07
maymay
Bisexuality, Chastity/Orgasm denial, Masturbation, Personal history, Polyamory, Sex, Sexual teasing and control, Strap-ons and dildos, Writing and blogging
Perhaps this should be three separate posts, but whatever. In preparation for Floating World, Jefferson from over on One Life, Take Two has asked for some reader participation. The topics are absolutely fascinating so I couldn’t help but offer my input: 1) Do you blog about sex? Let me know your site, your reasons forblogging, […]
Don’t be nice
16 Jul 2007 at 15:16
maymay
BDSM psychology, D/s dynamics, Emotions, Masochism, Masturbation, Torture and abuse
I have this lovely little buddy icon of this pretty boy on the floor, leaning back wearing a sweater jacket that reads, “Protect me from the things I want.” I love that icon because the boy looks so sultry and so vulnerable and so seductive and so helpless all at the same time. I want […]
