Quite a number of people seem to forget or (intentionally?) omit that the ever increasingly cited argument for consent as a felt sense was written by a pair of people (like myself) who advocate immediate—not gradual—prison abolition. Not to mention the whole “we’re anarchists” thing, having explicitly said we have no interest in advocating a […]
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Software Development as Direct Action
22 Jul 2015 at 19:36
maymay
Community, My Videos, Myths and misconceptions, Personal history, Politics of sex, Technology
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Search for FetLife profiles by all profile fields (age/sex/location/orientation/about me/looking for/number of pictures, and much more) without needing to login
08 Jul 2015 at 20:10
maymay
Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Technology
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So, this has been available for quite a while, but now that FetLife is actively removing links to it from venues they control (according to this tweet, which was part of this conversation, anyway), I figured it’s time to spread more links to it. :) Try it out: Log out of your FetLife account (if […]
Let’s get one thing clear: Predator Alert Tool is not run by nor does it support sadomasochists.
16 Nov 2014 at 17:34
maymay
Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex
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Note: I originally wrote this as a reblog of the post quoted below, but I want to ensure it shows up in Tumblr’s tracked tags and search results, so I’m cross-posting it from my blog using Tumblr Crosspostr, again. birdsy-purplefishes: Seeing a “predator alert tool†for social media sites run by kinksters is like seeing […]
Sensation, Story, and Felt Sense: Rolequeer and BDSM do not mix
I was very pleased to see that the 8 colorful Venn diagrams I made explaining how BDSM is, by definition, rooted in abuse quickly spread across Tumblr. Predictably, however, a lot of people who objected did so on the basis that their special-snowflake BDSM relationships were not abuse and how dare I suggest such a […]
