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22 Jul 2015 at 19:36
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I met Staci Newmahr shortly after I turned 18. At that time, the pseudo-public playspaces and “dungeons” of the early 2000’s S&M subculture defined “young” as “anyone who was not yet 40 years old, or 35 at least.” Despite being about a decade my senior, Staci (who would go on to author a widely acclaimed […]
Rolequeerness is not just about “who,” it’s about “how,” too; it is the HOW of effectively criticizing power.
27 Oct 2014 at 12:52
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princess-poophead: The more I read on their blogs, the weirder it seems that the rolequeer people aren’t talking about doms/tops as people with races and genders and like ability and stuff which is so weird because they’re talking about BDSM as “the fetishization of oppressive culture” so like don’t the privileges and lack thereof in […]
princess-poophead: Omg there is so much conflict in the #rolequeer tag and itâ€™s bringing me downn because I donâ€™t super agree with the person who popularized the term (I also really donâ€™t like them because they like threaten violence in a douchey and like kind of over-the-top corny dorky way?) but I also donâ€™t agree […]
24 Oct 2014 at 14:50
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lyricalagony: rolequeer: There have been some posts about what rolequeer sex looks like and what rolequeer porn looks like, but what about all the non-sex stuff? What does a rolequeer friendship look like? And a rolequeer workplace? (I’m tempted to say I’d be an anarchist workplace) Rolequeer parenting? Rolequeer activism?Heck, rolequeer cooking or rolequeer art or rolequeer anything! […]
I need to emphasize this: I have zero tolerance for domination. None. Not any. I have no tolerance for being parented; my parents finally figured this out, and now our relationship is way better than it was when they were trying to parent me. I have no tolerance for being schooled; the whole reason I […]