Archive for the ‘Sex’ Category

Search for pictures of men being submissive, and you end up seeing pictures of women being dominant

Back in April of 2009, only 1 month after coming back from living in Sydney, Australia, I recorded a pretty long discussion with Axe for his Masocast podcast. (As an aside, it’s a great BDSM podcast, but sadly Axe blatantly sold out his integrity and, despite my helping him cut his podcast costs in half, […]

Sex is like breathing; sex education is like breathing education

Ongoing right now is the Scarleteen sex education blog carnival, coordinated by the always-active AAG. Many sex bloggers write erotically about the sex they have, but I often don’t. One reason for my reticence on the subject is because, believe it or not, sex is a personally painful topic. I don’t currently have a sex […]

How to maintain a not-fucked-up D/s relationship

Knowing that something I’ve done has made it easier for other people to live the sexually fulfilling lives they want is sometimes the only thing keeping me alive these days. So I was more than a little chuffed to read that Thumper drew from a post I wrote in 2007 called “How not to fuck […]

Honor thy language: “kinky” is an adjective, not an activity

Since I was a boy, I have been confronted with the maddening reality of being told to second-guess myself, that due to who I am (a person diagnosed with bipolar disorder) I can’t trust my own thoughts or feelings. Then I grew up and I learned that certain words do not mean to others what […]

On Transparency in Activism: Why Being Anti-Craigslist is Anti-Justice

You know I’m angry; let me tell you why

I am so angry. I am so angry that I wouldn’t even have had those four words, without the help of a friend. I’ve felt like this for a while, but I’m saying it now because I keep finding more examples of misdirection and hypocrisy—increasingly disgusting examples—and wore myself to tears trying to record it […]

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