I don’t really have a lot of things to say about holidays most of the time. I rarely remember they are even approaching when they are, I don’t do anything special to celebrate them, and I’m generally apathetic to their meaning. None of that, however, precludes the possibility of hoping everyone else is having a […]
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Merry Christmas, with picture presents!
The kink culture of fear
28 Aug 2007 at 17:08
maymay
BDSM psychology, Community, Kink events, Masochism, Myths and misconceptions, Personal experience, Personal history, Spanking and paddling, Strap-ons and dildos, Stupid submissives, Whipping
Where do I start? Do I begin with the retelling of the stories from years now long past, or with this weekend? It’s hard to tell what would be more effective. This weekend, while filled with spectacularly virginal experiences for most people in the realms of play, pain, pleasure, and of course sex, was actually […]
Where’s the pain?
17 Jul 2007 at 16:35
maymay
Altered States and Headspaces, Cock and ball torture (CBT), Faceslapping, Masochism, Spanking and paddling, Whipping
It is still fascinating to me how differently I react to pain when it is inflicted on the buttocks versus on the back versus on the face versus some other location. So much focus is often placed on the implement causing this pain but it’s always been that the location of the pain has a […]