Having cast aside the traditional mode of economic security—a 9-5 job—I now find myself with a slew of new opportunities. Now it’s up to me to start following up on them. I was asked to write an essay for Furry Girl‘s latest independent porn site, Cocksexual.com. Unlike most porn sites, whose mere descriptions turn me […]
Archive for the ‘Strap-ons and dildos’ Category
Published Strap-on Sex Essay; Financial Support not Financial Compensation
02 Feb 2010 at 12:28
maymay
Male sexuality, Masculinity, Personal experience, Sex, Sex toys, Strap-ons and dildos, Writing and blogging
My latest sex toy review and thoughts at day’s end
16 Sep 2008 at 22:16
maymay
BDSM psychology, Cock and ball torture (CBT), Community, Gender fluidity, Kink events, Reviews, Sex toys, Strap-ons and dildos, Vanilla life, Wednesday Wanderings, Writing and blogging
This week’s theme is “not here,” I suppose, because right on the heels of Rori’s fantastic top sex blogger list I have another (albeit really short) list of really awesome things for you. No introductions this time, let’s just get straight down to business. A Pleasurably Versatile Experience – This is my latest sex toy […]
The kink culture of fear
28 Aug 2007 at 17:08
maymay
BDSM psychology, Community, Kink events, Masochism, Myths and misconceptions, Personal experience, Personal history, Spanking and paddling, Strap-ons and dildos, Stupid submissives, Whipping
Where do I start? Do I begin with the retelling of the stories from years now long past, or with this weekend? It’s hard to tell what would be more effective. This weekend, while filled with spectacularly virginal experiences for most people in the realms of play, pain, pleasure, and of course sex, was actually […]
Pegging gets mainstream attention and kinky porn gets rightfully slapped upside its head
12 Aug 2007 at 21:15
maymay
BDSM in the media, Beginner BDSM, Femdom, Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Professional BDSM, Sex, Sex toys, Strap-ons and dildos, Stupid submissives
Just earlier today a friend sent me to this Savage Love article in the Village Voice. It’s about pegging, aka strap-on sex. We’ve all talked about this before, remember. The reason this article stuck out like a bright and red sore thumb in all the otherwise mundane vanilla-oriented sex advice columns was the nugget of […]
Quick Thoughts on Blogging, Bisexuality, and Prostate Stimulation (no relation)
19 Jul 2007 at 15:07
maymay
Bisexuality, Chastity/Orgasm denial, Masturbation, Personal history, Polyamory, Sex, Sexual teasing and control, Strap-ons and dildos, Writing and blogging
Perhaps this should be three separate posts, but whatever. In preparation for Floating World, Jefferson from over on One Life, Take Two has asked for some reader participation. The topics are absolutely fascinating so I couldn’t help but offer my input: 1) Do you blog about sex? Let me know your site, your reasons forblogging, […]
Strap on vanilla sex and emotions in D/s sex
A few days ago I asked whether or not regular sex was actually regular. Today, on Richard’s Fetish Lore discussion forum I was reminded of a time when sex was almost (so close!) to being regular: The most “vanilla” sex I think I’ve ever felt was when she was fucking me with her strap on […]
