(Posting anew so this will show up in #rolequeer tagspace.) theungrumpablegrinch: Maymay is annoyed with recent rolequeer discussion of domination, so I have a few words to add on the topic. Let’s say I have a friend and occasional lover; we’ll call him the Scotsman for reasons that may become apparent. One night I ask the […]
Posts Tagged ‘cyberbullying’
A case study in how abusive shitstains strawman Consent as a Felt Sense [“On Ethical Domination”]
27 Nov 2014 at 11:10
maymay
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Do you feel safe around people who adamantly deny the possibility that they could ever do abusive things?
31 Oct 2014 at 16:21
maymay
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emotionalexhib: On Rolequeerness – “sharpening the blade†maymay: I originally wrote the following as a reblog/comment on rolequeer‘s post, “On Rolequeerness – “blunting the tip”, but since apparently beyondthevalleyofthefemdoms is still using the #rolequeer tag despite saying they were not going to anymore, and since reblogs do not show up in Tumblr’s tracked tags, I […]
Turning discussions about anti-violence tools into discussions about their toolmaker is harmful. Please stop.
18 Jun 2014 at 14:58
maymay
Community, Myths and misconceptions, Personal experience, Personal history, Technology
The other day, LifeHacker featured Predator Alert Tool for OkCupid on its homepage. Today, I received an email from the post’s author, stating that “the Predator Alert Tool post [is] doing well, but as you warned, some people have descended on it with comments and accusations about you specifically.” The email then detailed several accusations, […]
Thank you, hater, for helping me improve the Web accessibility of my blog
10 Apr 2014 at 17:36
maymay
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There is a hate blog on Tumblr that has called me “evil†and begun recording dramatic readings of my posts. As I understand it, blogs like that are technically against the Tumblr “Community Guidelines,†because it’s directed solely and wholly at an individual (me). But their readings means that I can use their recordings to […]
