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Rolequeerness and Felt-Consent have escaped the filter bubble

08 Jul 2015 at 17:09

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R. Foxtale found the loveliest thing! :) In a /r/Anarchism discussion of Liberating Ourselves in the Boudoir: An Anarcha-Feminist Perspective Against BDSM, user ErnieMaclan put together this fabulous overview of some key ideas in rolequeer theory, with excerpts and everything I’ve already covered how the ideas in one of our earliest essays, consent as a […]

According to their customer records, FetLife is a porn site, not a social network, whose paying customers are 13 times more likely to be rapists than non-paying users

23 May 2015 at 13:47

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Politics of sex

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There was a predictable outcry from pro-BDSM bloggers like Rebecca Hiles when the “FetLife Meat List,” a simple spreadsheet cataloging the FetLife usernames and basic profile info of 30,000 users who identified themselves as female and under 30 years old, was released. But as usual, all Social Justice Warrior rhetoric condemning the list was shortsighted […]

Invasion of the Spicy Vanillas

27 Feb 2015 at 17:49

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Community, Politics of sex, Stupid dominants

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rolequeer: themerrymisnomer: rolequeer: themerrymisnomer: rolequeer: I am dying with laughter. Wasteland, Europe’s biggest fetish party that advertises as ‘the wildest party on earth’ halted the sale of tickets for their 2015 party to keep out ‘housewives in jeans who read Fifty Shades of Grey’. Their public statement that their party is about ‘a lifestyle’ that […]

Let’s get one thing clear: Predator Alert Tool is not run by nor does it support sadomasochists.

16 Nov 2014 at 17:34

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Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex

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Note: I originally wrote this as a reblog of the post quoted below, but I want to ensure it shows up in Tumblr’s tracked tags and search results, so I’m cross-posting it from my blog using Tumblr Crosspostr, again. birdsy-purplefishes: Seeing a â€œpredator alert toolâ€ for social media sites run by kinksters is like seeing […]

“you don’t have to contribute the parts of your story that are yours and no one else’s”

01 Nov 2014 at 15:06

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Politics of sex

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If you’ve been following the development of a communal space for discussions about rolequeerness, you will probably have seen some very public conflict. It’s sad but not surprising that what began as a space for Submissive solidarity and radical collective healing action quickly came under explicit and implicit attack by the blunted tip of familiar […]

Eary musings on “Rolequeer porn” and reflections on Male Submission Art

22 Oct 2014 at 15:13

maymay

Politics of sex

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Anonymous asked: Hey I don’t know how you feel about adding porny things to this blog but I’ve been googling for rolequeer porn just to see what’s out there and I found some tumblrs using rolequeer tags for sexy pics and stories. so it’s definitely a thing people are thinking about. And the pics are […]