rolequeer: themerrymisnomer: rolequeer: themerrymisnomer: rolequeer: I am dying with laughter. Wasteland, Europe’s biggest fetish party that advertises as ‘the wildest party on earth’ halted the sale of tickets for their 2015 party to keep out ‘housewives in jeans who read Fifty Shades of Grey’. Their public statement that their party is about ‘a lifestyle’ that […]
Posts Tagged ‘kink shaming’
Invasion of the Spicy Vanillas
27 Feb 2015 at 17:49
maymay
Community, Politics of sex, Stupid dominants
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“you don’t have to contribute the parts of your story that are yours and no one else’s”
01 Nov 2014 at 15:06
maymay
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If you’ve been following the development of a communal space for discussions about rolequeerness, you will probably have seen some very public conflict. It’s sad but not surprising that what began as a space for Submissive solidarity and radical collective healing action quickly came under explicit and implicit attack by the blunted tip of familiar […]
How to have hot, kinky sex with other Submissives without inviting a Dom
06 Sep 2014 at 15:23
maymay
Personal experience, Politics of sex
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FRIEND: Reading the blog posts [about rolequeerness] have also given me a glimpse into the problem I have with so much of the BDSM Scene. Like when I hear one submissive say they couldn’t play with another submissive because they wouldn’t take the lead. I always asked myself, “wait, what? Why?” ME: Oh that was […]
