rolequeer: rolequeer: I don’t believe ethical domination is possible. But if I had to give a dominant who absolutely refuses to quit the game one bit of advice about how to make domination less unethical, that one piece of advice would be: DON’T. DATE. SUBMISSIVES. Seriously, submissives are people who are willingly vulnerable, who face […]
Posts Tagged ‘power’
Some unsolicited advice to dominants [power can not exist in a vacuum]
24 Nov 2014 at 08:00
maymay
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Thinking Rolequeer: Stepping Outside the Charmed Circle
01 Nov 2014 at 12:35
maymay
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Dear rolequeer, I have been meaning to write a post whose working title is “Rolequeerness and Stepping Outside the Charmed Circle,” but I have yet to actually do it. When I read your recent post, “Oppression as the ultimate time consumer,” I was reminded exactly why I have not yet written that post; as you […]
Rolequeerness is not just about “who,” it’s about “how,” too; it is the HOW of effectively criticizing power.
27 Oct 2014 at 12:52
maymay
Myths and misconceptions, Personal history, Politics of sex
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princess-poophead: The more I read on their blogs, the weirder it seems that the rolequeer people aren’t talking about doms/tops as people with races and genders and like ability and stuff which is so weird because they’re talking about BDSM as “the fetishization of oppressive culture” so like don’t the privileges and lack thereof in […]
