How I would have coached my younger Submissive self to talk to BDSM’ers

Submissive person: I’m really intrigued by the notion of having sex tied up in some way. BDSM person: You should totes join us, then! We’ll show you the ropes. We’ll even teach you to like stuff you didn’t know you liked! Submissive person: That sounds…interesting…but…I’d rather just do this stuff I know I like, first. […]

How to have hot, kinky sex with other Submissives without inviting a Dom

FRIEND: Reading the blog posts [about rolequeerness] have also given me a glimpse into the problem I have with so much of the BDSM Scene. Like when I hear one submissive say they couldn’t play with another submissive because they wouldn’t take the lead. I always asked myself, “wait, what? Why?” ME: Oh that was […]

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